? "Friend, friend, have you ever thought about me? If you are enjoying happiness, please forget me. Friends, friends, have you ever remembered me? If you are suffering misfortune, please tell me ... "Cang Tianshuo's songs are sonorous and full of masculinity. I like them, but I don't agree with the lyrics. Friends are happy, why leave? There is a saying: We share weal and woe.
Tonight, I am lying in the hotel bed specially arranged for me by my brother Wang Youliang, and I feel very comfortable listening to this song. Recalling my past association with him is like a scene in a movie.
? I met Wang Youliang fifteen years ago. Looking back now, we all lived in dark days at that time. Wang Youliang is recuperating in his hometown because of gastric cancer surgery. Engaged in building materials business, he rented a facade in Huayuan building materials market, while doing business for illness, while killing boring days and reducing the burden on his family. Because my ex-wife got breast cancer, I resigned from Shenzhen and went home to accompany her for treatment. With the help of my sister, I rented a facade opposite Wang Youliang's shop. So I met Wang Youliang. He and I are business partners in a block of Huayuan building materials market, and he and my ex-wife are patients in the oncology department of the First Affiliated Hospital.
? In order to treat my wife, I have been busy before, and my life is a bit dark. But in front of people, I still smile, and my posture and behavior can still be regarded as full of sunshine, because I feel that I am the head of the family and the backbone of my wife and daughter, and I must not fall down. I admire Wang Youliang even more. He is a patient with gastric cancer. After the operation in Xiangya, Changsha, he received chemotherapy in an affiliated hospital in Hengyang, and took care of his business with a smile at rest. He has two sons and a daughter, and his wife takes care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation at home. All the financial burdens have to be earned by his efforts. And these burdens of life and mental stress seem to have nothing to do with him. From his manner, you can't see any trace of the patient. His mentality is more sunny than mine.
? Life is getting harder every day. Two years later, his wife died, and Wang Youliang insisted on eating dozens of western medicines every day, four or five meals a day, and only one bowl of white rice porridge for each meal. Wang Youliang's medicine and rice are eaten in the shop or at home. When he appears in front of us, he is always full of enthusiasm. Especially when he saw me, he was always so affectionate that his brothers and sisters kept screaming. He likes to discuss business with me, and he also likes to drag me to play three cards with a dollar. We were inseparable.
? Because of the pressure of life, Wang Youliang went to work in Foshan, Guangdong at the age of 2/kloc-0. He knows the building materials market in Foshan like the back of his hand, and he takes me with him on every business trip. Wang Youliang is not only enthusiastic, but also a very generous person. Hengyang people are a huge group in Foshan building materials market. In this group, Wang Youliang is a senior leader, and many Hengyang villagers engaged in building materials industry joined because of Wang Youliang. Because of Wang Youliang's help, I got to know many Hengyang villagers in Foshan in just a few months. Because of him, I started to set foot in the mosaic industry that people are not familiar with eleven years ago. It can be said that without Wang Youliang, there would be no mosaic business that I have a monopoly position in Hengyang market today.
Wang Youliang spent three years in Hengyang. After his illness stabilized, he returned to Foshan to engage in building materials wholesale business. Wang Youliang invited me to cooperate with him many times. He said it was the happiest time in his life since he knew my brother for several years. I have many similar views with him in business. He repeatedly stressed to me that because he had not read any books, he didn't understand many theoretical things and needed our cooperation. He said with great confidence that if we work together as partners, we will definitely become a complementary perfect match in Foshan building materials market. Unfortunately, I gave up the good opportunity to cooperate with my daughter because I felt that she was in the ignorant period of personality change.
? Wang Youliang is a very clever man. He has a shrewd mind that ordinary businessmen don't have. He made a thorough analysis of the people and things he met in the course of business. In business, many people think that what they have no chance to do or are not sure to do well can often be done easily. He is an important figure and a successful businessman in Foshan building materials market. At present, according to his own disclosure, he now owns a large number of shares in several floor tile production enterprises with an annual output value of more than several hundred million yuan.
? Wang Youliang's success today, in my opinion, in addition to hard work and good attitude, good people are rewarded. Over the past fifteen years, I have witnessed and witnessed his selfless dedication to his hometown and relatives around him. More than ten years ago, Wang Youliang's brother-in-law died of illness, and his nephew's living expenses and tuition fees were borne by him alone. Relatives and friends around him like to ask him for help if they have any difficulties. If a child can't go to school because of family difficulties, as long as he knows that he will help, his hometown will build roads and bridges to run schools, leaving his kindness without exception. Xia Zhiping, a classmate of Wang Youliang who was invited to play this time, is also my good friend. He told me privately many times that if it weren't for Wang Youliang's help, he wouldn't have succeeded today and might not even have money for dinner. Xia Zhiping now owns a restaurant in Changsha and has projects in Changsha, Zhuzhou, Xiangtan and Guangdong. He is also a big boss with a high price.
? Wang Youliang is also a very loyal and grateful person. Mr. Liang, a veteran of Foshan Mosaic, was Wang Youliang's first boss when he was working in a factory, and he was also the first boss to lead him to the road of business. Mr. Liang likes Wang Youliang. He is diligent and active and never cares about things. During his years in the factory, he often helped and guided Lao Wang. When Mr. Liang left the factory to open his own shop, their friendship changed from a superior-subordinate relationship to a brotherly relationship. Mr. Liang agrees with Wang Youliang. He brought Wang Youliang, who had no interest and understanding in business, into the business field.
In just two years, under the guidance of Mr. Liang, Wang Youliang quickly became an industry elite from a layman in business. After Mr. Liang's business was in a stable and sustainable development, Wang Youliang chose to leave, but also for himself and his family. He didn't choose the old line that is familiar with goods, but chose the wholesale industry of floor tiles that has nothing to do with Mr. Liang's business. At that time, many businessmen knew how to be a low-key person and never did anything to hurt the feelings of Mr. Liang, who was good to him. They only knew that they were mercenary before the interests.
Time flies, and Wang Youliang's business is getting bigger and bigger because of his atmosphere and good grasp of market changes. Mr. Liang may be timid and cautious about market changes because of his long-term experience in factory management, so his business has been tepid and his development speed is much lower than that of Wang Youliang. After several years, Wang Youliang's business has far surpassed that of Mr. Liang. But Wang Youliang did not forget Mr. Liang's guidance and support. He will visit Mr. Liang as soon as he has time and take care of his business as much as possible. If Mr. Liang encounters cash flow difficulties, Wang Youliang will spare no effort to help him. If he has no money, even if he borrows it from a fellow villager, he must do a good job of Mr. Liang first.
In Hengyang and Foshan, I met and met many bosses ten times and a hundred times bigger than my career, felt their pride and wisdom, and listened to and saw their suggestions. However, many of these local tyrants, when you look into his eyes, you can't feel his true feelings, and you can't see the pure eyes in Wang Youliang's eyes, because when I look at Wang Youliang, his heart is already connected with mine. I am also lucky to have several opportunities to attend the gathering of bosses who are full of success in their careers. Although their ostentatious tone may make you feel small unconsciously, once they sacrifice their own interests for their lofty, some of them always flaunt themselves as tasteful people, and their behaviors and faces will make you feel sick.
? In the past fifteen years, Wang Youliang and I have walked out of the gloomy days hand in hand, and our life has become more and more stable. Our feelings are closer than brothers. We have been helping each other and exchanging what we need. Everything is so natural and pure. I went to Foshan on business to visit him, and he treated me with a bowl of rice noodles, which was enough for me. He invited me to travel abroad, and I won't feel uneasy and guilty. Our feelings have gone beyond the scope of ordinary brothers.
The ancients said, "People are doing, and the sky is watching." God has eyes. If you have a loving and kind heart, then if you work hard, you don't have to worry that your selfless efforts will not be rewarded, because God is watching you all the time. Today, Wang Youliang got his due reward. Five years ago, he stopped taking drugs completely and ate three meals a day more steadily than I did. He has completely changed, because after a comprehensive examination in the hospital, there are no cancer cells in his body, and he is completely healthy. Director Zhuang, who has more than 30 years of clinical medical diagnosis experience, said that Wang Youliang was a miracle in the oncology department of the First Affiliated Hospital for more than 30 years.
? Wang Youliang has created a medically impossible miracle. I think this is not only because he has a kind heart, but also because he has a broad, broad and inclusive mentality. It is also related to his ability to be self-disciplined and selfless in daily life. This is related to the return of love brought by God's love for him. ...
? Wang Youliang, I am a good brother who shares weal and woe in this life. I sincerely wish you good health and better health.