First of all, we should straighten out the relationship between love and study. College students who taste the fruit of love for the first time will inevitably get carried away by its sweetness, but as students, learning is the first task that should be completed. Therefore, when college students fall in love, they must remind themselves that although love is good, they should not be greedy, and they should leave most of their time for study.
Secondly, only by establishing a correct concept of love can we get twice the result with half the effort. Love values are the basis of how to talk about love, so we must lay such a foundation. The basic idea is not to covet temporary happiness and forget more important tasks, but to learn to respect each other's needs and get along well.
Thirdly, since we are together, we should have a good time and try our best to arrange our dating activities in positive and meaningful ways. For example, go to the library to review books and urge the grades to improve; Or go to the cinema to watch an inspirational movie, which will cause the other person to think.
Fourth, tolerance is great, and we should have the wisdom of understanding. Falling in love, to put it bluntly, is the process of getting along with the opposite sex, and some friction is inevitable. How to deal with these frictions and seek common ground while reserving differences is a great test of wisdom and character. Then you might as well exercise your emotional intelligence in love, which is believed to be very helpful for yourself in the future.
Finally, it is a very realistic economic problem. Love just sounds romantic, but I don't know that most of its romance is supported by money. College students are young and vain, and sometimes they spend a lot of money in pursuit of so-called romance. Such blind consumption is not desirable, so when spending money to make each other happy, it is best to make good money arrangements first, and not to spend impulsively.