There are many things affecting the mental health of our primary school students now.
For example, the recent campus tragedy and the pressure of entering a higher school are affecting the mental health of our primary school students all the time. Now let's discuss the study pressure of primary school students.
I don't think there should be any famous schools. If a child goes to a prestigious school, he is considered excellent and has a bright future. On the other hand, children who don't go to prestigious schools are considered to have no future.
Is that for sure? We often see some crimes with high IQ. Isn't a criminal a little genius who grew up in people's minds? Don't people who have no profound knowledge become heroes?
Because there are famous schools, parents all want us to have a good future, and whether we like it or not, we have signed up for various training courses. Our primary school students' Saturday and Sunday have become normal class hours, leaving us with no rest and entertainment time of our own. Weekends have also become two painful days for our primary school students. I hope there will be no more training courses, give us our own time and have a happy weekend with our families.
We have no pressure, study easily, and our grades will definitely be better.
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With a healthy attitude, we can face everything correctly, calmly and calmly. Only when we have a correct understanding of happiness and a reasonable pursuit of happiness can we have a sense of happiness.
Children in poor mountainous areas covered the windows and doorframes with plastic sheets in that shabby classroom to keep out the wind and rain. Using stone as a stool, sitting in front of a desk made of wood, listening to the teacher with relish and studying hard, all smiles are radiant with happiness. With teachers imparting knowledge, they can learn knowledge and feel happy. Because of their mental health: adolescent learning is the first priority. So they are eager to learn and absorb the nutrients of knowledge. They are happy, they feel happy.
Students, what do you think?
Do you feel that their environment and conditions are too different from those of schools in our city? Our classroom is spacious and bright, with complete facilities, and the teachers teach very hard. Are we all studying hard? We will encounter difficulties in our study and friendship among our classmates in our life. Can each of us treat them correctly? Can be handled correctly? Whether we can all have a happy smile on the cheeks of mountain children!
The problem is that each of us should have a healthy psychology. People will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks in their lives.
We must face the challenge seriously and bravely, and strive for development and progress in the predicament. When we overcome one difficulty after another and challenge again and again, challenging difficulties is actually challenging ourselves. If we can go all out to pass the test, life will gain infinite meaning from breakthrough and innovation, and we will feel a sense of accomplishment and happiness. Happiness has no distance, no standard, and happiness is a feeling. When you are satisfied, when you feel happy, that is happiness.
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In daily life and work, we often encounter all kinds of troubles and troubles: the working environment is not ideal, the handling of things is unfair, the economic conditions are poor, we can't afford to buy a house ourselves, we are in poor health in the field for a long time, we live up to expectations, we have bad intentions, we can't get advanced evaluation, we can't get the approval of the leaders for our hard work, and we are wronged and criticized; Your wealth is increasing, but your satisfaction is declining; Have more and more, but less and less happiness; There are more and more communication tools, but less and less in-depth communication; More and more people are known, but fewer and fewer sincere friends, and so on.
If you can take a positive attitude towards this kind of things, you will be open-minded and open-minded, and you will be able to treat and handle these things correctly, work smoothly and feel comfortable.
If you can't get over it all the time, the more you think about it, the angrier you get, the worse your self-control ability, your emotions are out of control, and your words and deeds are abnormal. Even for a little thing, make a scene, make rude remarks and hurt people, which greatly devalues your character and damages your interpersonal relationship. What's more, I didn't want the job at all and offered to resign.
Calm down and think about it afterwards. It's not worth quitting your job for a little incident, and it's you who gets hurt in the end.
In this regard, we can't help but ask: What went wrong? If you have a problem with your mentality, you should adjust your mentality and enjoy the scenery in a good mood.
Shaping a healthy mentality and shaping a contented, grateful, optimistic and cheerful sunshine mentality is to let friends establish positive values, get a healthy life and release strong influence.
If you are an inner fire, you can release light and heat; If you are a piece of ice in your heart, it is still zero even if it melts.
If you want to warm others, you must have heat in your heart; If you want to illuminate others, please illuminate yourself first; If you want to illuminate yourself, you must first illuminate your heart.
How to illuminate the heart? Light a heart lamp and shape the sunshine mentality. A good attitude can affect individuals, families, teams, organizations and ultimately society.