When people reach middle age, their work is already overwhelmed, and they have to accompany and educate their children when they go home. I am most afraid that my parents will get sick, I have to take time off to take care of them, and I have to spend a lot of medical expenses. For middle-aged people who are already financially nervous, there is virtually a lot of pressure. The front foot is still quiet, and if parents are sick, it will disrupt all the rhythms.
I read an article the other day. A middle-aged man was taking care of his sick father and father-in-law at the same time in the hospital. As a middle-aged man, this kind of scene can especially understand a man's mood, because he has to have a strong sense of responsibility. As an only child, both husband and wife need to support four elderly people. Two old people are sick at the same time, and both husband and wife need to take turns to take care of them, which is a test both economically and mentally.
Middle-aged people are afraid of illness and resign. They have children to raise before and parents to take care of later. They are very tired and can only bear it silently. How many people go downstairs from work and need to stay in the car quietly for a few minutes, be alone with themselves, adjust their mood and face their families. How many people are squatting on the side of the road and drinking without crying. Life has brought them infinite pain, and they have to find a way to solve it before they can face it firmly. I hope our society can treat middle-aged people well.
If the elderly can be healthy, it is already a great blessing for their children. I wish all parents in the world good health, children can work harder and live better and better.