First, women should start with their figure and face shape. After 40, some women have paid little attention to their image. They think they are old women and nobody loves them, so they break their pots and fall. Let nature take its course, eat and drink, keep getting fat and thin, basically neck and shoulders. They are ashamed to talk about it, and they have no necks. Some women don't pay attention to hygiene for ten days and a half, and they all have peculiar smells, which is unbearable. Their clothes are also shirtless.
So how to keep fit, besides eating a green and healthy diet, we should also strengthen physical exercise and keep the habit of going to the gym at least three times a week. If the conditions are not mature, the simplest thing is to develop a healthy lifestyle in fun run, so that even if you are forty years old, you still look healthy and energetic, giving people a different feeling, and you can do some basic beauty care for your skin.
Second, there must be connotation. They talked loudly and called names. Some of them also like playing mahjong and speak rudely. They have no feminine temperament and softness at all, and are more masculine than men.
Third, pay attention to self-cultivation. I have never felt that reading is useless and nothing is like it. Only a highly educated and knowledgeable woman can give people a feeling of intelligence, understanding, orderly speech and charming temperament from the inside out.
Fourthly, a 40-year-old woman is a half-old girl in Xu Niang, so she should pay attention to her clothes as much as possible. Secondly, we should be able to maintain a harmonious sexual life, which is beneficial to physical and mental health. Don't feel that you have no mood when you are old. Emotional appeal is created by oneself. You can drive with your husband to the wild for more exciting field battles, or you can go to the seaside, hotels and hills in the wild to try different things and play some new tricks. Women with harmonious sexual life look radiant, healthy and confident, and their endocrine will not be out of balance. A 40-year-old woman is the sexiest big woman.
If a 40-year-old woman wants to remain attractive to the opposite sex, she must at least do the above four things.
How does a 40-year-old woman stay attractive? First of all, we should be confident, then we should have a good attitude, look at everything and stay young and energetic. When you are unhappy, you should hold a group to keep warm, exercise and keep fit, and your face needs maintenance. They are not for others, but they can please themselves. Dressing is also very important. I hope my sisters can remain confident and charming at 50 [laughs].
Most 40-year-old women are married and have families, which is a thing of the past. From a man's point of view, unless they are all kinds of star artists, most middle-aged women are senile and shapeless, so it is really hard to say that they are attractive. Just look at what age men pay attention to women on the street, so this question is very interesting. Why do 40-year-old women still want to maintain their attractiveness, and who do they want to attract?
1. It is women's nature to love and pursue beauty. With the opening of society, women of any age will sprout the idea of pursuing beauty, and middle-aged women are the new force to study in the United States. Influenced by personality characteristics, women have little confidence in their figure. Even though their bodies are really good, they are still not confident enough in front of the right man. You see, Tong Liya is beautiful enough, but when I am with Chen Sicheng, I still think that she is married, and the star is still like this, let alone ordinary people! Therefore, women want to remain attractive, which is actually a sign of self-distrust, just like women are always asking men, do you love me? It means the same thing.
2. Forty-year-old women are divided into two types (except single women). In marriage, of course, I hope I have enough attraction to tie the man at home and prevent him from being interested in other women; Outside of marriage, women will feel that it is a little loss to serve only one man for a lifetime, washing, cooking and having children. If this man can't treat her wholeheartedly and give her a stable life, then her heart will inevitably yearn for the outside world. Even if nothing happens, it is a feast for the eyes to be praised as attractive by men other than husbands in middle age!
Women have two attractions for men, one is beauty and the other is wisdom. Smart and beautiful women are the best women. I met a lady with a good figure when I went to the fitness center. She is in her early thirties and well maintained. She should be a rich woman, hired a tutor, and a handsome muscle in her twenties. Once, several strong men broke into the gym and beat this handsome guy, led by a boss in his fifties, and even hit a lady in the face. I believe everyone guessed that it was the lady who had a story with the private tutor and was found by her husband to retaliate. The center expelled the private tutor and we learned that the lady was 46 years old. Of course, this gossip is not the point. I mean, a 40-year-old woman must manage her figure if she wants to remain attractive.
4. If you are average-looking, old, too lazy to sweat and abuse yourself, and want to keep your attraction, then you have to improve your connotation and temperament. Dressing is one aspect that needs attention. If you want to choose a dress that suits your temperament, middle-aged women should not show their meat easily. If you want to hit little girls sexily and attract men's attention, don't do it easily except female stars. Knowledge cultivation is another aspect, that is, a smart mind. The advantage of middle-aged women is that they have rich life experience, and their personalities have been honed to be gentle, moving and considerate, such as Dong Mingzhu, Dong Qing, Yang Lan, Summer Xu, and so on. They are all smart women, and they are equally attractive in their forties and fifties. A female leader in the unit is very authoritative and delicate. Every time she works overtime with the leader, she will prepare convenient food and buy coffee for her subordinates, so that everyone who works with her will feel warm. Everyone agrees that the female leader has great personality charm.
In the final analysis, middle-aged women should not always think about how to attract men. The maternal brilliance of kindness, intellectuality and fraternity is the truly attractive charm.
Forty-year-old women are experienced, mature and steady, and family chores and responsibilities attract them to play their role, respect the old and love the young, do what they should do and fulfill their obligations and responsibilities. I wish you a happy family! Please forgive me for the incomplete answer!
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How does a 40-year-old woman stay attractive?
When a woman reaches forty, it is certainly unrealistic to attract people only by her looks, especially the opposite sex. A middle-aged woman who looks very young and beautiful even if she is properly maintained.
But middle-aged women in their forties are still very attractive. Their attraction lies in their temperament, conversation, cultural background, knowledge reserve, rich life experience and their understanding and handling of people.
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A 40-year-old woman, to maintain her attraction, should strive to do the following:
First, a healthy life. Including a reasonable diet, the diet should not only be nutritious, but also properly control the amount of food. Life is regular, and if you don't stay up late, you will feel refreshed.
Second, keep exercising. Even just walking and dancing can not only make you energetic and energetic, but also keep your figure better.
Third, decent makeup. Proper light makeup can make people feel refreshed and look pleasing to the eye.
Don't follow the trend as you did when you were young. It doesn't have to be fashionable, but it must be in line with your age and status. Try to wear good quality and cut clothes.
Fourth, knowledge should be updated. We should keep pace with the times, not be out of touch with the times, and get in touch with new things. Read more books and enrich your inner world.
Fifth, gentle and generous, considerate. In middle age, people are no longer that reckless, self-centered little girl, and they no longer care about people and things.
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In fact, when a woman is 40 years old, the most important thing is not to give up on herself. Don't think that when she reaches middle age, she doesn't need to remain attractive. She can only wear very cheap and ordinary clothes and walk around pots and pans, husbands and children all day. Every day she talks, and her parents are short of things. She will only go to the vegetable market to dance square dance.
A 40-year-old woman should keep her charm, so that she can be more confident and attractive, and make her husband like you more and her family more harmonious.
Middle-aged women win by temperament, which comes from the accumulation of knowledge, the precipitation of life and the experience of life, and can make a 40-year-old woman look more calm and elegant.
Dong Qing, the host, is a good example.
Forty-year-old Dong Qing is more attractive. Relying on the rich cultural background, whether it's The Reader, The Chinese Poetry Conference or other hosts, they can always talk with Kan Kan, and they are confident and generous on the stage, and their speeches are elegant, which impresses the audience.
It makes people sigh that "the belly is full of poetry, and the years will never be defeated."
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In addition, there are Mayili, Meiting, Yi Nengjing, Tamia Liu and yolanda. These actresses in their forties did not lose their attraction because of their age, but because of their inner self-discipline, persistence and perseverance in beauty, which made everyone feel more attractive and attractive through their works.
The most powerful magic of time lies in our appearance. As time goes by, we carve traces of time again and again. But each age stage has its own unique charm, and the precipitation of years has enriched the hearts of middle-aged women.
Because of keeping a young mind, a 40-year-old woman will not grow old. Our age should be what we should be: calm, intellectual and elegant, and its unique appeal is incomparable to young people.
If we blindly understand attraction as sexual attraction, it is easy to take a vulgar route. I often see some women in their 40 s, dressed like 20 years old, still trying their best to show off this and that. In fact, their understanding of attraction is biased!
To keep my attraction, I think we should start from the following aspects:
No matter how you take care of it, a 40-year-old woman can't compare with a girl in her 20 s in both figure and skin. But if your connotation is still the same as that of girls in their twenties, then you are completely uncompetitive.
Connotation comes from experience and one's own observation and thinking. Read more books and think more, and it will become more and more meaningful.
When you are in your teens and twenties, being silly and sweet may give people a lovely feeling and attract people. When you reach a certain age, you must know more to be attractive.
Why do most women become ferocious after 40 years old? Because on the one hand, it may be economic pressure and family burden, which makes them more inclined to choose rough things and want to do things cheaply: as long as they can be used, they are convenient. But the result is that the whole person is getting rougher and rougher.
No taste actually begins with laziness. When people are lazy, they don't think about the long term, they just think it's cheap.
Look at those big sisters who always wear cheap scarves to take pictures, and feel that they have taste, which is the best example.
The secret of improving taste lies in "essence". Choose the best, not the cheapest and greedy. Too much but not enough will make your temperament messy.
Why do some people indulge in unrealistic fantasies when they reach a certain age? I've been thinking about it, but I haven't socialized. Socialization means becoming a role in the real society, participating in the social division of labor and providing products for this society.
Before you have connotation and taste, you need to experience and refine your thinking and aesthetic ability from experience, and then you will know what is good and what is better. Only in this way can the taste be formed.
I often see it as a teacher's friend (I also worked as a teacher when I was just out of college and in my twenties). The older you get, the easier it is to fall into extreme emotions and rough tastes. I guess it's also because of the low degree of socialization. Campus is a place relatively far away from the real society. The idea will be simpler. If you live in a narrow and unreal world for a long time, you will lose the correct judgment of what is really good.
(Note: This is only an example of a teacher, and it does not deny the meaning of the profession of a teacher! )
Finally, I want to share an example with you. One of my 40-year-old clients, how to stay attractive.
The best attraction of a person is that someone follows you, agrees with you and envies you.
She is over 40 years old, her husband has achieved little, and her children are in high school. She has nothing to do but buy it at buy buy. I started to run a clothing store. It's a clothing store, in fact, it's a frontispiece store, covering an area of 10 square meter. There is no traffic, no business, but she manages it into a high-end boutique, and many customers follow it.
She is full of energy every day, and she dresses beautifully. She has a good eye for clothes, and she talks well. I made myself the envy of others, and I also found confidence from this sense of accomplishment. Of course, it is becoming more and more attractive.
I summed it up and found that her charm lies in her choice.
When others open a shop to sell cheap goods, they will of course meet customers who want cheap goods, and spend time bargaining and doing promotional activities every day. And she chose high-end products that are rarely sold in the market, and the price is high, but she has the ability and vision to ensure that these goods really have a sense of grade. Her taste won her high-end customers.
These customers come for her taste and her ability to provide customers with high-quality clothes. Nature is not the kind of person who waits for you to do activities all day and takes advantage of you. She can also spend more energy on finding high-quality goods, which will further form a reputation among customers and bring more customers who like high-end boutique clothing.
This is actually a virtuous circle of taste formation. She knows me because she is looking for a source of goods. I am engaged in high-end boutique clothing wholesale. She once saw an article I posted on the internet, and her views were consistent with hers, so she immediately cooperated. When you have taste and know what is good and valuable and what is better and more valuable, you will know how to sell the value, thus making yourself more confident and attractive.
Insist on learning, with a light posture and a straight posture. Eat less and have a good sleep. Eyes full of beauty and smiles. Be generous to others and have a small but refined circle of friends. Sisters in their forties, we should be encouraged and cherish ourselves is the theme.
In "Taking in the name of people", Darren Wang commented on MC Jin-MC Jin's failure lies in refusing to mature and grow. Some qualities, in young girls, are lovely, while in middle-aged women, they are somewhat sad and even ridiculous.
This passage hit the nail on the head and pointed out that the attraction of a 40-year-old woman mainly comes from mature charm. What aspects can reflect the mature charm?
1, appropriate dress
Have you ever heard a saying: A woman's looks are given by her parents before the age of 30 and by herself after the age of 30. Before the age of 30, youth is an advantage, and physical function will not age too quickly. However, after the age of 30, many girls have experienced marriage and have children. If they don't actively manage their body and skin, they will easily become old and out of shape.
When people reach middle age, although women don't have to be at the forefront of the trend in dressing, they must be decent, choose clothes that suit their temperament and figure, and add a lot of points to show their charm just right.
Step 2 be independent and confident
A 40-year-old woman needs self-confidence, which is supported by economic independence and endowed by career achievements. With this self-confidence, a 40-year-old woman will not be anxious and will not be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. With this kind of self-confidence, women can also become strong in the face of some changes in family and life.
You can still live well without relying on anyone, which is what a 40-year-old woman needs most.
Step 3 be free and easy
A 40-year-old woman has a higher level of understanding of life than a 20-or 30-year-old woman. Know how to advance and retreat, and know how to leave appropriate space for others and yourself.
A 40-year-old woman knows how to pamper herself. When she knows it's time to let go, she will let go. She will not be pessimistic because of her age, but will know that she still has unlimited possibilities. Such a woman will not lack love.
Why don't you learn from below?
My definition of "beauty" is either a girl's beauty or beauty. When a woman is over 40, she should have beautiful fine lines. Beauty is calm and calm, and it is not contradictory to the charm.
I sorted out several actresses in their forties (two are three months to forty), and I think they are all beautiful.
Some of them have a kind of "vigor" and are very infectious ~
I think 40 years old is still beautiful, and three things still exist:
On second thought, let Karen Mok go first!
1. Karen Mok
Ha ha ha ha ha Karen Mok's appearance has always been a point that many people can't get, but I just like her!
In 20 17, when Karen Mok was 47 years old, she sang "There is such a girl" in the program "The Voice of Nature", which was full of charm and got on the piano. Look at the eyes of piano accompaniment. Ha ha ha ha, I'm a little embarrassed.
Piano accompaniment interview
Karen Mok climbed onto the piano and sang sexy and charming songs.
2. Tamia Liu
4 1 year-old, skin condition is very good, cheekbones are a little high, Weibo often takes fitness photos ~
This group of photos of her and Sebrina is so beautiful (although the photos must have been refined) ~
Video screenshots can also be seen that there is no obvious depression and relaxation on the face, but the fullness and fullness of "collagen is full"!
3. Gao Yuanyuan
When Gao Yuanyuan was 39 years old, Gao Yuanyuan Studio made a small video "I, 39":
Produced by Gao Yuanyuan Studio: I, 39.
Among them, I talked about my social phobia when I was 20 years old. Now I think about it, I was naive at the beginning.
For example, when I was in my twenties, I felt that my role was not conflicted and contradictory enough to reflect my acting skills. Later, I gradually realized that it was my own barrier rather than casting.
I feel that Gao Yuanyuan's 39-year-old mentality is very transparent ~
I don't know if she is in the same good state after giving birth now.
You must accept your aging and take good care of your skin at the same time;
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Hahaha, this home video must have a filter ~ the skin condition looks good, and the body management is good in all aspects.
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There are fine lines in the corners of the eyes, and the smile is generous and hearty.
There are also some "we are true friends" answers.
Really in good shape!
Big s is really self-disciplined ~
Ma Yili sent a photo of her without makeup. It is true that the filter is not blurred. She also said:
This calm, frank and confident is really great!
Come back ~
These three points are not only for stars! I know several female doctors in dermatology who are in their forties and fifties, and they have done all these three things wonderfully!
It really shouldn't be too good. ...
Same figure. Although not so S-shaped, he is not fat at the age of 50, with beautiful legs and delicate skin.
Ah ~
* * * Come on.
A 40-year-old woman is in her prime. There is no youthful beauty of a girl, but a mature woman, such as wine, is more mellow and memorable.
Time is a butcher's knife. A 40-year-old woman has lost face after years of abuse. If you want to keep your attraction, you need to work hard in the following aspects:
1, we must be independent economically.
The economic base determines the family status. Men earn money to support their families outside, and women rely on men to support them at home, which will soon become men's accessories and can tell you what to do at any time. Smart women will have their own stable jobs, do not need to have much development in their careers, live a full life and be financially independent. Such a woman is more attractive in the eyes of men.
No matter whether her husband is a rich boss or a contented office worker, as a woman, she must have her own way of making money or working, and can't make money entirely by her husband.
"Husband has a disabled hand", don't believe the story that men want to support you. When two people have a good relationship, the storm will be flat and the years will be quiet. Once something happens, you will lose your confidence in being a man at any time: what money have you made, isn't it that I make money to support you every day?
2. Have your own hobbies and space.
A 40-year-old woman should have her own hobbies, put her passion into them, get fun from them and make her life colorful. Do what you like, so you can kill time and be happy.
A 40-year-old woman should be able to please herself. As long as she learns to please herself and has her own hobbies, she can live a full and happy life.
Women have their own hobbies, which are conducive to the harmony of family relations. Everyone has his own circle, and your husband is not your whole life. Give each other some space. The better you treat yourself, the more your husband will care about you.
3. A confident woman is the most beautiful.
Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.
After years of baptism, women are still very attractive at the age of forty. A 40-year-old woman is not as simple and lovely as a girl, but a woman of this age has a different temperament and attraction, that is, self-confidence.
Confident women have a "fatal" attraction to men and a mature charm. Whether your appearance is beautiful or not, as long as a woman is confident, there will be another kind of beauty. If a woman has no self-confidence, then no matter how beautiful she is, she is just a good skin.
4. Have a healthy body
By the age of forty, some women no longer attach importance to their image. Excessive eating and drinking can easily make you fat and out of shape, and at the same time some diseases will come to you.
Health is the foundation of everything, and a 40-year-old woman should pay more attention to her health. A woman's face is more important than her body. The beauty of a woman comes from a healthy body, so we should pay attention to regular exercise, such as running, dancing and yoga. Pay attention to a balanced diet, get enough sleep and have a good attitude. If you keep it for a long time, you will not only have a good figure, but also keep a woman's charming figure invisibly.
Give all my blessings to the universe. All I have to do is enjoy the present and make myself happier and happier at this moment. I am the happiest person in the world! -Jack Camfield's Law of Attraction
If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.