So today, let's share a friend's story and listen to his feelings about his wealth. He said I should be rich. I'm really a rich second generation. I have nothing to avoid. I am lucky, but some people will say that my father doesn't buy me beautiful things and thinks he is not good to me. But in fact, I usually ask my family for money to buy almost everything, and they will not take the initiative to help me buy what they think is suitable for me. But I have everything I want. I'm not forced to learn any skills. My piano and oil painting were both learned after I was interested in them when I was older. Before junior high school, I had taken me to most provinces in China, so it is common to find my brother to play. /kloc-I bought my first house when I was 0/6 years old, and then I will buy a house in the local area no matter where I go to study or live permanently, so I have always had a low material desire, and I don't like cars and luxury goods. My aunts gave me brand-name bags and watches, but my parents never bought them, which is also related to their consumption concept. They think it looks good on them, but it's silly to go to economy class. They also think it's expensive. Always told me to be kind to others. You give more money to those who help you, which has no influence on your life, but it has a great influence on them. Why not do it? So invite friends to dinner when you can be generous, and don't be friends with those who won't give you back later!
I dress and talk well personally, but on the whole, I am simple. I never get stage fright when I go out. I am brave, distinctive and independent. Politeness and self-control, their greatest feature is that they not only provide rigid material needs, but also give me unlimited freedom. I decide what to learn, who to do it with and where to do it. I never interfere. Although I still took many detours in the process of growing up, in fact, they rarely pointed this out, and because other relatives have also caused some harm, my parents really love me. That kind of love makes me feel that I will never be abandoned, and there will always be a backer when I am injured. That's a great feeling. Best of all, the two of them never said, what should you do as a girl? In their minds, such words have not been subjected to secular norms and attacks. If they are non-stop birds, they are my sky. I don't admit that I am spoiled!
In my eyes, doting is parents' infinite response to children's vanity, and they don't think children have the ability to be independent and deal with problems. Vanity is just buying and not comparing with others. Believe it or not, I really only ask my parents about their spiritual needs, because I want them. For example, a set of elite triple edition complete works in primary school, and at the same time think that their minds are hot and they want to buy me an encyclopedia that was very popular at that time. Although it's no big deal, I started to think independently long ago, considering what I want, what I don't want and what I want to do with it. This kind of problem. Of course, this is a question of values, and everyone has different ideas. I always choose what I like when I buy things, but I don't choose blindly. As for the ability to deal with problems, some of the rich second generation around me are excellent, but some of them have been helped by their parents to apply for schools. The life of pornography and gambling is disorderly, and some people don't even have books at all!
Someone saw me reading a professional book and thought I was pretending. Family conditions have never been the key to determining a person. Many people will be biased against the rich second generation, but in fact it will never be different from person to person. Many friends with ordinary family conditions around them have a living standard no less than that of many people with high starting points. Whether you are poor or rich, you mainly rely on yourself. Indeed, birth is not the key to one's development. Real wealth is not only reflected in the material experience, but also in the correct consumption concept, active lifestyle, high-level foresight and rational and organic way of treating people. Abundance is not equal to doting, nor to laissez-faire, but to moderation. Absolute freedom and relative restraint are spiritual abundance. Whether poor or rich, in the final analysis, it is reflected in the correctness of ideological values. Regardless of the geometry of life, please don't forget to enrich your spiritual connotation. Material poverty is not terrible, but spiritual poverty is terrible.