First of all, children are still young and have limited cognition. He is naturally fond of playing, so it is normal for him to relax after finishing his homework. Everyone wants to play and adjust their psychology. Sometimes I forget to sleep when I play or watch TV, or I don't want to sleep when I am in a good mood. At this time, if parents take this violent way to prevent him from sleeping, he may feel too tired to stay up late to watch TV after a night of suffering, and he will never dare to do so again, so that he can have a good sleep.
In this way, the purpose of parents has been achieved, as some parents said, let him be convinced once.
However, I think this way is still a bit simple and rude. Because staying up late is actually very harmful to your health. In order to punish the child, adults want to sleep and not let him sleep, just to teach him a lesson. They dare not do it in the future. They hurt their children's health and lost their staying up late. Both sides lost.
Although the child may be afraid to insist on watching TV in the future, will his young mind be hurt and he will not dare to ask for anything in the future. For example, if he wants to eat, he will be vomited and fed, and if he wants to jump rope, he will jump all night. Similarly, maybe he will form a wrong understanding and can't have his own requirements, otherwise he will be punished by his parents in one way. This will seriously affect the child's desire to express.
Moreover, in fact, children need to try and make mistakes when they grow up. For example, when he is not sleepy at first, he will know that it is difficult to stay up all night, so he will want to sleep. If he can sleep at this time, he will know that it is comfortable to sleep, and he will not want to stay up late in the future. However, if he is not allowed to sleep all the time, he will not get the comfort of sleeping. Sleeping until the next day is very sleepy and tired. It is better to let the children stay up late. Let him know that staying up late is not good enough, and there is no need to punish the child all night.
The way parents solve problems reflects their way of thinking. Maybe fighting violence with violence. Treat children like this because they are weak and can be at their mercy. If you form a mindset and encounter disagreement with others in reality, should you also deal with it in a simple way of violence? This may also be a potential cause of conflict.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children will learn from their parents' ways of doing things. If children think that tit-for-tat violence is reasonable, they may treat their kindergarten and school partners in the same way, that is, they may punish each other in his way and make them feel uncomfortable.
In my opinion, parents should try their best to educate their children through words and deeds, so that they can have a certain space, instead of being easily hit like living under high-voltage lines. Maybe parents will let their children watch for a while and go to bed by themselves. After a while, if he wants to sleep, let him feel sleepy and let him promise to go to bed early, otherwise it will be bad for his health. The next day, he lost his spirit. When he agrees, he will pull the hook and let him have a good sleep.
In this way, children can watch TV for a while, and feel uncomfortable staying up late after being sleepy. After he knew it, he could go to bed as long as he changed, and he agreed.
If it happens next time, you can remind him that he has made a promise. He was really sleepy last time. He will take his promises seriously, be conscious of his actions and learn to control himself. Moreover, we can also learn that parents use communication to solve contradictions and will not induce him to form a biased personality.