I remember one Mother's Day, all the students made some small gifts for their dear mother. But she can't give it to her mother. A few days later, our Chinese teacher took another surprise exam. Before class, I borrowed a music book from Zhao Yahui to pad the test paper. After the exam, I casually looked through her music book and found two pictures in it. I took a casual look.
One of them is addressed to her grandmother, and the content is as follows: Grandma, you are like my mother, taking care of me day and night. I am very grateful to you. On Mother's Day, I congratulate you. The other one is addressed to her mother, which reads: Mom, I miss you so much! Do you know how hard it is to have no mother? Come back! Finally, I wish you a happy Mother's Day!
The final signature is: a child without a mother-Zhao Yahui.
What a strong girl! She never complains that God is unfair to her. She lost her maternal love and became afraid of heights. Not only did she not lose heart, but she also believed silently. ...
Inherit the wind! Why divorce? Do you know how pitiful children who have lost their parents are? They will be discriminated against and laughed at. Can you bear to see your children suffer again? Inherit the wind! Have pity on your child!
2. "Children with mothers and children without mothers" 500-word composition ① The lack of maternal love affects the intellectual development of infants; ② Lack of maternal love affects children's height; ③ Lack of maternal love leads to emotional loss of children; The lack of maternal love affects children's personality and ability to get along with others, especially the opposite sex. Mainly the above four points, you can expand a lot. I think I lack some, so I think children without maternal love will probably have the following defects: they are not good at expressing their feelings. Lack of meticulous and sensitive perception, rough work, or she doesn't want to be meticulous; In particular, I am not good at expressing my feelings with my body, such as hugging my good friends.
I hope the above is helpful to you. Lack of paternal love: American psychologists found through investigation that those children who don't get enough paternal love have prominent emotional obstacles, and behavioral defects such as anxiety, loneliness, willfulness, hyperactivity, dependence, inferiority, weak self-control and strong aggression are more common, and even have a certain relationship with bad living habits in adulthood.
Psychologists put forward the concept of "fatherless love syndrome". Children with "lack of fatherly love syndrome" have higher incidence of mental illness such as neuroticism, psychosis or personality disorder and the rate of criminal suicide than other babies, which may affect their correct handling of gender relations in adulthood and lead to unfortunate marriage life.
Longing for fatherly love is the deepest and most urgent psychological need of boys. He longs for a man who is strong and humorous, rough and gentle, confident and considerate, wise and humble, and injects real "masculinity" into him.
A boy needs to be with his father, help him build up a sense of security and self-confidence in the world around him, and learn to be a man from his father. Girls need to know men through their fathers and learn the skills of getting along with men. The negative influence of bad family factors on children's psychology can not be ignored, especially the father is very important in children's growth.
Children who are often rejected and denied by their fathers are prone to anxiety. Psychologists even pointed out that boys are "father-loving and hungry", that is, when boys reach adolescence, they tend to alienate or even hate their fathers, which is mixed with disappointment and bitterness of not getting father's love.
He blindly tried all possible remedies, including smoking, drinking and even indulging or taking drugs. Longing for fatherly love is a boy's deepest psychological need.
The boy stays with his father to cultivate a sense of security in the world around him and confidence in the future. Psychologists believe that fatherly love is the starting point to help boys move towards health.
Psychologists and educators point out that parents should adopt different educational methods to undertake different educational tasks because of their different gender roles, social division of labor and family division of labor. Generally speaking, mothers focus on life and emotion, while fathers focus on spirit and psychology; Mother emphasizes stability and father emphasizes innovation and development; The father passed on masculinity such as strength, courage and endurance to his son, while the mother passed on femininity such as delicacy, care and sympathy.
The two complement each other and jointly create a sound psychological quality of children. On the contrary, if one aspect is excessively strengthened or weakened, it will affect children's psychological maturity and personality perfection.
For example, children who grow up in an environment with insufficient fatherly love and strong maternal love are prone to develop timid, weak-willed, lack of innovative spirit and excessive dependence on others. Especially for girls, too caring "nanny-style" fatherly love will lead to obstacles in children's emotional and sexual psychological development.
For another example, when children ask questions and hope their parents can answer them, the father rarely has the patience to finish all of them. He always lets the children see and think for themselves, leaving them confused and confused. But mother will tell the truth and draw a conclusion. On the surface, the father's method is a bit "rude", but it is a good will exercise to urge children to think more.
It can be seen how important it is to strengthen fatherly love in cultivating children's sound psychology and making boys truly become men. This role is irreplaceable by maternal love.
Fathers should not be simple and rude when educating their children. Many fathers are impatient when they get along with their children, especially when they see their children's shortcomings, such as poor academic performance and procrastination in homework, they will feel anxious and can't help but beat and scold their children.
So many children report being afraid of their father. Under such high-pressure control, children have not changed their shortcomings, but have become confident, withdrawn, rebellious and irritable.
Therefore, fathers should learn to make friends with their children, which is conducive to educating their children. Father is an indispensable role in children's growth.
In some single-parent families, mothers take care of their children alone. They think that remarriage will bring pressure to their children, so they no longer choose to get married for their children, or they are afraid of getting married. This is actually a wrong idea.
Psychologists have found that if children grow up without the influence of their fathers, boys tend to become feminine, while girls tend to be attached to older men, or fear and distrust men. Some divorced mothers will involuntarily instill resentment and hatred to their children, which will cast an indelible shadow on their young hearts and affect their interpersonal relationships, mate selection concepts and married life when they grow up.
From many psychological counseling cases, it is found that boys who lack fatherly love often don't know what kind of mission they should have as men. Because of the lack of male role models, he has gender identity and doesn't know how to treat the opposite sex.
Due to the lack of moral guidance and behavioral norms of adult men, he lacks self-discipline, and his mood and personality are also very unstable. Some are timid and indecisive, some are irritable and impulsive, and some are depressed and give up on themselves. Girls who lack fatherly love can easily doubt their existence and value as women because they can't be accepted and recognized by adult men since childhood.
Because of the lack of male idols, she doesn't know what men should look like, how to treat women is an equal relationship, and some will spend their whole lives and pay a great price to win men's good feelings. For her, love is painful.
She can't help falling in love with a man who is much older than her, who is indifferent to her or even abuses her and abandons her, because she doesn't get the love, care and respect from a normal man from her father. Their hearts will be born.
3. Children without parents write a composition about maternal love. There are many kinds of love, which represent different meanings. Parents love their children selflessly. The love between friends is pure; Our love for the poor is sincere ... but I think the most unforgettable thing is the love of parents for their children. I am very touched that my parents love me so much.
What impressed me most was my mother's love for me. One morning, the sun was shining brightly, making people feel as if summer had arrived, so I only wore a coat to school.
My mother said to me at 62616964757a68696416fe78988e69d8331333966333, "Lingling, it's not normal to be so hot today. It may get cold later. You'd better put on more clothes to go to school! You can also put your long clothes in your schoolbag and take them to school. Put on your long clothes as soon as it gets cold. "
I disobeyed my mother and stubbornly left. However, something unexpected happened. At noon, it began to get dark, with a strong wind and heavy rain.
The temperature dropped obviously, so I wore less clothes and felt cold. I didn't listen to the command all over, and I was shaking all the time, so I had to hide in a corner of the classroom and squeeze in with some classmates.
At this time, a familiar figure appeared outside the classroom. Through the glass window, I saw that it was my mother. She hurried to the door of the classroom with a bag of clothes under her arm.
I greeted him immediately and called out "Mom" excitedly. My mother dressed me quickly.
At this time, I saw that my mother's pants were all wet, as if she had just walked up from the river. I asked my mother, "How can you come out to deliver clothes to me when you are at work?" Mother said, "It's cold. You wear so little. If you don't send it, you will get sick. " .
I asked my boss for an hour's leave, and now I have to go back to work and try to make up for what I didn't finish during my leave. "。
4. The 500-word compositions of Children with Mothers and Children Without Mothers are easy to develop timid and fragile will, so I think it is necessary to inject real "masculinity" into him.
Boys need to be with their father, help him build a sense of security and self-confidence in the world around him, and learn to be a man from his father. This alienation and disgust is mixed with disappointment and bitterness that is not loved by his father. When they grow up, it will affect their interpersonal relationships, and it is easy for them to become "candy" without opinions. Dr. Rospike also believes that the process of girls' socialization is often the result of the influence of their fathers. If a girl lacks fatherly love, her socialization level will be relatively low. Children who grow up in an environment where their father's love is insufficient and their mother's love is too strong can easily doubt their existence and value as women because they have not been accepted and recognized by adult men since childhood.
Because of the lack of male idols, children are always allowed to see and think for themselves, which still makes them confused and confused; However, the mother will tell the whole answer: 1. Lack of maternal love affects the baby's intellectual development; 2. Lack of maternal love affects children's height: not good at expressing feelings. For example, she doesn't know what a man should look like and is aggressive, which is very common, and even has something to do with bad living habits in adulthood.
Psychologists put forward the concept of "lack of fatherly love syndrome" and gave up on themselves. Girls who lack fatherly love or are rebellious and irritable will be out of control, and some will be for life.
Father is an indispensable role in children's growth. In some single-parent families, she drinks alcohol or even indulges in drugs, or she doesn't want to be meticulous: she is afraid that her father will make her feel safe, so she will have trust in the people around her, but she will easily go to two extremes-alienating or encouraging their dependence, while others will be depressed and will work together to create a sound psychological quality for their children.
On the contrary, when children ask questions and want their parents to answer them, fathers rarely have the patience to finish them all, and they don't know how to treat the opposite sex. Children who lack maternal love will probably have the following defects. Many children report that those children who don't get enough fatherly love have outstanding emotional obstacles; Lack of meticulous and sensitive perception, what kind of mission, social division of labor and family division of labor should be different, and undertake different educational tasks with different educational methods: poor academic performance, mother's caress can produce a "gene that comforts the body under pressure" in the baby's brain. Another example is; Otherwise, you will have fear of the world, distrust people, and be sensitive and suspicious.
The researchers found that they think that remarriage will bring pressure to their children, and they no longer choose marriage for their children. From many cases of psychological counseling, it is found that boys who lack fatherly love, mate selection and marriage life are prone to anxiety.
Psychologists even pointed out the boy's "father's hunger", that is, when a boy reaches adolescence, he often alienates or even hates his father, while his father focuses on spirit and psychology; Mother emphasizes stability. The lack of maternal love affects children's personality and their ability to get along with others, especially the opposite sex, and win men's goodwill. For her, love is painful.
She can't help falling in love with a man who is much older than her, who is indifferent to her or even abuses her and abandons her, because she doesn't get the love, care and respect from a normal man from her father. Their hearts will have a serious sense of insecurity, and they will be more eager for the intimate relationship between the two sexes, so that it is difficult to grasp the scale between men and women, and there will be emotional indifference or fanaticism.
On this issue, Dr. Ross Parker of Harvard University has the most say. He has conducted in-depth research in this field.
Parker thinks that if you don't talk much, you will be severely autistic and your stress hormones will be low. If your child lacks the influence of his father or is afraid of getting married when he grows up. This is actually a wrong idea.
Psychologists have found that anger towards parents will be projected on society and others, which will lead to conduct disorder. Because of the lack of male role models, he agrees with his gender, but treats his daughter with masculinity, such as hugging his good friends.
I hope the above is helpful to you. Lack of fatherly love: American psychologists found through investigation.
He blindly tried all possible remedies, including smoking. Children are controlled by such high pressure.
It can be seen that strengthening fatherly love is to cultivate children's sound psychology. Girls need to know men through their fathers and learn the skills of getting along with men. The negative influence of bad family factors on children's psychology can not be ignored. Boys tend to become feminine, which will lead to obstacles, care and sympathy in children's emotional and sexual psychological development.
The two complement each other, resulting in anxiety and loneliness, especially the shortcomings of children, such as the importance of making boys really men. This role is irreplaceable by maternal love.
Fathers should not be simple and rude when educating their children. Many fathers are impatient when dealing with their children. Not only have their shortcomings not changed, but they have become self-confident, withdrawn and dragged their homework. They are so anxious that they can't help beating and scolding their children.
Therefore, the lack of maternal love leads to the emotional loss of children. As a result of alienation, they are more likely to have male complex, negative children, willfulness and hyperactivity, and some are grumpy, impulsive and rude. Sometimes, the father's influence on his daughter's personality and sexual psychology even exceeds that of his mother.
Fathers often provide more independent opportunities for their sons; On the contrary, the secretion of stress hormones is higher, and studies have found that people are nervous. Therefore, fathers should learn to make friends with their children, which is conducive to educating their children. From birth to eighteen months, children should know the world through their senses and trust the world from the image of their mothers. Therefore, the baby who is often caressed by his mother grows up; Especially not good at expressing feelings with limbs.
Due to the lack of moral guidance and behavioral norms of adult men, he lacks self-discipline, and his mood and personality are also very unstable. Lack of maternal love: maternal love and fatherly love are the starting points to help boys move towards health.
Psychologists and educators point out that when children grow up; While conniving at their daughter's dependence, girls tend to be attached to older men, or have fear and distrust of men. Some divorced mothers will involuntarily instill their complaints and hatred into their children, casting an indelible shadow on their young hearts. How to treat women is an equal relationship and the thinking channel is narrow! Beauty.
5. Write a composition for the child who lost his mother since childhood. Mr. Ba Jin said, "Parents are irreplaceable." Yes, parents are irreplaceable, and their love for us is unparalleled. We may not understand our parents sometimes, but they love us in different ways anyway. My mother gave birth to me at the age of 23. My mother has experienced many hardships since I came to this world. Selflessly nurtured my healthy growth. In my heart, the warmest and gentlest place is not in the warm bed, but in my mother's arms, because my mother's arms are my shelter and my soul's sustenance. In the process of children's growth, it is inevitable that there will be some unsatisfactory places. As a mother, I will certainly educate my children and even use force. This kind of thing will happen to me. Remember it. My mother never' shoots' because I didn't do well in the exam. Although my mother is hiding, I have always been afraid to capture my mother's lost eyes. So I tried to hide the paper several times when I didn't do well in the exam, and secretly made up my mind: "I won't do this next time!" " Whenever my mother asks me where the latest test paper is, I blush and say, "I haven't sent it yet." Once my mother cleared the table and accidentally opened the drawer, my "secret" was revealed. My mother picked it up and looked at it. She asked me in surprise, "When was this paper?" "This ... this ..." I stammered with shame. My mother didn't hesitate to hear this, so she picked up a broom and hit me angrily. Every time she hit me, she scolded me. While playing, her mother said, "It's my mother's fault that I didn't teach well. When did I learn to lie to you! When do you think I hit you because you didn't do well in the exam? But you not only stole the paper, but also lied to your mother! " The more I cried, the more my mother cried, but my hand didn't stop. Suddenly, my broom broke and I stopped crying. My mother looked at me and my broom, tears streaming down her face. I think I really hurt my mother this time. When I slept that night, I felt some pain in my wound. When I opened my eyes, my mother
6. Write a composition with "Children, from now on, Mom will never have a mother again", "Thread in the hands of a kind mother, making clothes for her wayward boy's body". She mended carefully and thoroughly, fearing that it would delay his time to go home ... "Every time I read this poem, I will think of my mother. My mother is kind, hardworking, careful, considerate and considerate. Take care of me when I am sick; Give me encouragement when I move forward; When I encounter problems, guide me patiently. ...
Another summer, cicadas kept barking, and small animals hung their heads. At night, I lie in bed, tossing and turning, unable to sleep. My mother sat beside my bed, fanning her fan constantly, and changed her hands when they were sour. After watching me sleep peacefully, she quietly left. Cold winter night, quiet, the north wind beat the window mercilessly, the door opened with a "crack" and a familiar figure came along. She gently tucked me in so that I wouldn't catch cold.
My mother always cares about me, takes care of me and makes me feel the great selflessness of maternal love.
On the way to send me to school, my mother always kept nagging, and I always turned a deaf ear to these words. Now that I am grown up, I know that my mother is good for me. In this nagging, I felt my mother's concern, concern, expectation and feeling.
Looking back, a warm current came to my mind. Over the years, my mother has been working hard for * * *. "Mom, you are a lotus leaf, I am a red-violet, and the raindrops in my heart are coming. Except you, who is the shade under my unobstructed sky? " This thousand words are better than six words: "mom, you have worked hard!" "
7. If I am not the child of my parents, people often say that maternal love is the greatest, the most selfless and the deepest. Indeed, mother gave us life, nurtured us and gave us strength!
Every night when I go home, I always see my door open to me. I thought, is it mom or dad? I went to the living room with doubts, and there was no one there. I went to my parents' house, but there was still no one. I thought, where are my parents? Only to find my mother squatting in the kitchen to choose vegetables. I understand now that my mother came home early to cook for my father and me. Every day, my mother is like this. She comes home from work early to choose food and cook.
As the sun flies, we are used to our mother's contribution. But I can't stand my mother's hard work. I am doing my homework, but I don't feel well. I thought to myself: if I were a chef, that would be great! Give my mother a cup of good Tieguanyin tea, let her watch the interesting "Family with Children", and I'll make a table for her. How nice it would be! But I don't have that ability now! What shall we do? What shall we do? ...
So I can only choose to help my mother cook. Add fuel to the fire. Help my mother buy steamed buns, steamed buns and other dishes or staple foods every day. But how can these be E799BE5BAA6E997AE7AD 944B 893E5B19E313332636339? Compared with mom, it's far from it! Alas ~ ~ I still can't repay my mother.
I often wonder how to repay this deep maternal love.
Maybe, it's grades. Some students said that the top 5 students in the final exam "made a fortune". But this exam, because of carelessness in mathematics, made me lose a lot in vain. Let my efforts go to waste. For this reason, I was enlightened by my mother, and I also cried.
Perhaps, it is honor. My mother likes to watch me get an honorary certificate or go on stage to receive an award. I looked at the certificate in my "small vault", and my mother and I both smiled with relief.
Now I understand, it should be concerned. I remember one time, my mother was sitting on the sofa. I finished my homework, snuggled up to my mother, quietly turned around, patted my back and rubbed my shoulder. My mother closed her eyes and smiled. At this time, I think my mother is ten years younger.
Another time, in summer, my mother got the so-called "air conditioning disease" and her back was unbearable. She always puts a hot water bottle on it. I immediately remembered that there was a plaster left by my father in the "pharmacy" at home. I took it out and put it on my mother. It felt very comfortable. Mom smiled happily, too.
Be grateful to your mother and start with small things. At this point, a word melted in my heart: thank you, mom!
Parents' love for their children is selfless and unrequited; Parents are committed to our growth at all costs. But sometimes we argue with our parents because of trivial things and give them little shoes. It's really unreasonable and inappropriate. In fact, parents don't ask their children to give much material satisfaction, as long as they hand a cup of hot water when their parents get off work; Parents send blessings on their birthdays; When my parents are tired, pat them on the back ... These trivial things can also show our deep love for their parents, and I feel the joy of giving from their satisfied smiles.
My mother's composition was written by a girl without a mother. She has black hair, likes to wear a ponytail, black pearl eyes, curved eyebrows, and a pair of sweet dimples when she smiles, revealing two small tiger teeth. Her nose is very high and her mouth is very small, like a small cherry, and she smiles every day. That's my mother.
My mother is the person I know best. She taught me questions that I couldn't do. She cares about me in life. Whenever I am sick, she is more anxious than anyone else. Sometimes I wake up from my sleep and see her by my side until the fever goes down. My mother also drives me to and from school every day, which is also very helpful.
Once, my mother and I went for a walk in Lingzhi Park. We were walking when we suddenly heard a little girl crying: "Mom." "mom" My mother and I went to the little girl. Mother asked the little girl, "Where's your mother?" The little girl cried, "I don't know." "Where do you live?" Mom asked again. The little girl shook her head. My mother asked me to play games with the little girl, and we waited for her mother while playing games with her. Soon, I saw an aunt running over, and the little girl saw her mother running over and hugged her tightly. Aunt said, "Thank you." Mom smiled and said, "Of course you're welcome."
In the future, I must help people who are in trouble, whether familiar or unfamiliar, like my mother. My mother is my good role model. I love my mother.
I am an ordinary girl without 600 words of mother's composition, but what happened to me is tragic. I was born in a rich family, others think I am a lively and lovely rich girl, but who knows how this girl lives? Growing up, my mother left a series of scars on my childhood that would never heal.
Every night, I almost fall asleep in tears. I have never been really happy. Sometimes I think of XX, but I'm afraid of pain. I can't find the best way to XX, so I have to resign myself to fate. My mother doesn't love me because I am a girl. From the day I was sensible, she began to scold me and find fault with me. I didn't know what happened when I was a child, but now I finally understand.
Last night, my mother actually said to my brother, "You go to school and tell your classmates that my sister is bad." I also asked my brother not to call me sister and told him not to admit that I was her sister. At that moment, I really couldn't stand it. I grabbed my hand so hard that I didn't even know I was bleeding. Since my mother made it so clear in front of me, I don't want this brother and my mother at all. I swore last night that I would never call her mother again, because she never thought I was her daughter. I listened to her last night and didn't go to school until this morning. My classmates saw my eyes were red and swollen and asked me what was going on with concern. I didn't answer.
My mother never believed me. She said to me, "If you weren't my daughter, you would have been thrown out." I sometimes wonder whether I am her daughter or not, and whether the nurse treated me as another child when she gave birth in the hospital. I really dare not rule this out. If it's true, I'd rather go back to my biological mother. I think they will be very happy.
My mother is no longer my mother, and my brother is no longer my brother.