How to help students improve their ability to resist setbacks
Establish children's self-confidence
Confidence comes from psychology. Parents should teach their children a positive attitude towards life. When it comes to anything, parents should try their best to guide their children to succeed. Let children do things first, don't think about what will happen if they fail, but think about how to work hard to succeed. Only by building self-confidence can they succeed more easily.
Teach children teamwork.
No matter who goes it alone, it is difficult to achieve something. Therefore, children should learn the consciousness of teamwork from an early age, know how to rely on the strength of the team to do things, do things well, and learn to learn from each other. In daily life, parents can interestingly let their children do what they can with their parents, and be good at accepting people with different opinions.
Don't leave the children at home
Let children get in touch with society and all kinds of people, and let children experience exercise in contact with people. Some parents like to keep their children around and not let them go out to see the world. In the long run, it is easy to make your children lack team consciousness and can't adapt to society well in the future. Therefore, parents should create opportunities for their children to interact with others.
Give vent to your emotions correctly.
When a child is in a bad mood, parents should not rush to interfere with or connive at the child's mood, which can prevent the child from having mental illness, teach the child to vent his emotions correctly, and thus calm his emotions as soon as possible, that is, teach the child how to manage his emotions and release his bad emotions as soon as possible.
How to teach children to face setbacks
Face up to yourself, some setbacks are caused by your own mistakes and defects. Teachers should teach students to face up to their mistakes in setbacks, find out problems, get up from where they fell, and don't run away from problems.
Don't be too reluctant, many things are really predestined and can't be forced. Not everyone can try to be Bolt, Obama, Mozart ... tell students that if you are lucky, you will lose my life. With this mentality, many setbacks can't hurt you.
Reasonable venting, failure is sometimes a blow to people who are hard-working and full of hope. For example, when I was young, I saw my building blocks being knocked down, and negative emotions were inevitable. If this kind of emotion is not properly vented, it will cause many physical and psychological problems.
Therefore, when students encounter setbacks, let them cry loudly or vent their emotions in other ways that will not affect others. Although it can't solve the substantive problems, it can effectively help students get out of the psychological haze.