Parents' good health is the blessing of their children.

I remember at the end of June, 5438+February, 2009, on my way home, I was shocked to hear that my healthy father was diagnosed with cancer. On the way, I got off the bus and cried loudly in the wilderness. I couldn't get up for a long time, and I was helpless when the sky fell. The powerful father in the eyes of my children is like this without warning. Once diagnosed, it is terminal, and the doctor said that time is not long. I really can't believe it.

Before diagnosis, my father always felt a dull pain in his left chest. He went to the hospital to see a doctor. The doctor gave him infusion according to the insufficiency of blood supply to his heart for several days. The symptoms have not been alleviated, but have worsened. At that time, he was not thin and his food was normal. I didn't expect to get sick, and I was a little confused. Later, I consulted my doctor classmates in a big hospital. He said that this situation may be gastric cancer, so I went to have a gastroscope until the diagnosis was made.

Then start chemotherapy. After three times of chemotherapy, I had an operation. After the operation, my father felt that the quality of life had seriously declined. Since then, he has no love. On the one hand, he feels that it is no fun to live in pain in the future. On the other hand, he is afraid of exhausting his children. In this way, my father did not cooperate in all aspects of life and soon fell into a coma. One morning, I went to his bed with a meal and saw his father panting. I was so shocked that I didn't dare to call and cry, for fear that his father wouldn't.

It was only half a year from onset to father's death. He died at the age of 66, too early. This is the eternal pain in his children's hearts. I worked to support my family in my early years and retired to take care of my grandchildren. Mission accomplished. It was time to live his own life, but he left anyway.

I think that if the father is still alive, he and his mother can spend their old age safely and the children will be happier. I remember when my father was around, I went to work happily humming a tune every day, and I was never happy again. When your parents were alive, you knew where you came from; But when your parents are gone, the only way left in your life leads to death.

As a child, pay more attention to your parents. Your warm embrace and strong dependence are old and fragile. Stretch out your arms for your parents to snuggle up to, and you can't let your child want to support and his relatives are not there.