Hello, good night, sister.
I am 35 years old. I talked about two relationships, a first love and a current husband.
My husband and I have a stable relationship. We dated for three years and then got married. Now we have a 3-year-old child.
I talked with my first love for 4 years. At that time, I was still in college. He is 10 years older than me. It can be said that he is my best 20 years old.
First love is good for me. The reason for the separation is that his ex-girlfriend came to see him. He was vacillating, probably thinking it was better for his ex-girlfriend to get married.
I hated him after separation, but I walked out slowly until I met my current husband.
My first love and I have a friend who is our matchmaker. I used to have more contact, but I have less contact after breaking up.
A few days ago, the matchmaker suddenly contacted me and said that the first love would be seriously ill for a few days. I wish I could go with her.
I was shocked when I heard the news for the first time. A healthy person is ill. The matchmaker said that he didn't have a good life. He had been working hard for his career in recent years and his health was broken.
I'm a little confused. I don't want to go because we haven't been in touch since we broke up. It's strange to leave now, but the matchmaker said that at least we should be friends, and I am also his favorite person.
Should I go to see him? Is this for my husband?
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