Come to a new environment, constantly adjust their pace of life, start to accept new things, eager to explore all possibilities.
Sometimes I have to say that the environment is so magical. Soaking in warm water for a long time before coming out to see the outside world is really a feeling of reunion after a long separation.
10 month keywords: pause.
Pause is blank. During my short stay of nearly a month, I didn't achieve anything, but it was this "inaction" that made me feel the truth of life.
Life needs to be blank. When you are tired, you can abandon those "hot pillow" temporarily, without anxiety and kidnapping. Maybe you can get along with yourself more peacefully.
Pause is the beginning. Pause always has the courage to return to zero, and then set foot on a new journey after emptying yourself. I am full of curiosity and expectation for everything, and even have a firmer belief in doing things.
Pause is the future. After a pause, I always start a new journey. When encountering new scenery, I can always see many things that I couldn't see before, and constantly improve my ideological level in the collision. This is a good phenomenon, and it also shows that the future can be expected.
First, society &; work
1,1joined the third job in late October, assigned work and settled in the new office.
2. I entered the unit that matched my major, experienced the working hours from nine to five for the first time, and began to understand the "truth" of the industry that I didn't know before, and also had a clearer direction for the future.
Standing guard in civilization for a day and a half is a special experience.
4. Go to Yueyang for a wedding reception with me and go back to the old place of science and technology.
5. Afraid of being opened by a stranger with a key at night. It's still too young for a person to let go so foolishly.
Second, individuals &; grow up
1. Read two books: The Moon and Sixpence and The Biography of Su Dongpo.
2. Punch in the diary for 3 1 day, and start to return to your original heart and find your own recording rhythm.
3. Today's headline published 5 articles and got 1 Qingyun article; There are several micro-headlines and 4 explosions; 25 questions and answers; Powder rose by 500+.
4. Complete the reading process and take notes in the impression notes.
5. Extract golden sentences.
Third, health &; bodily form
1. Take a walk after supper. As it turns out, walking is the best exercise for you.
Fourth, family &; life
1. Accompany grandparents to their hometown and take photos of them.
I cherish my time with the elderly more and more, and I will praise them without hesitation. Even when I am unhappy, I will hold my temper and try not to rush them.
My family is very satisfied with my new job. Sometimes I have to take care of my family's needs in my daily busy life, and I feel very tired and helpless, but isn't life just about working and complaining about progress? Think about what your family has done for you, and you should grit your teeth and move on.
Every once in a while, I will have a new feeling about the relationship with my fatness. Maybe I'm too demanding, but I ignore the most unusual beauty around me. I blindly focused on him, but more and more bound him, separating him from myself too far.
Some "impatience" is caused by family background or his own secular ideas. Why does it become a rule when you get to him? If he is destined to be hard to change, why should this gap be firmly between us and insurmountable?
To say the least, there will really be different scenery.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) mind &; spirit
1. Five movies: operation mekong, Passing Through Your World, Return of the Great Sage of Journey to the West, Deadly Woman and Good Day;
2. Watch variety shows: daughters in love, actors in place, dear inn, happy trio.
3, constantly reconcile with yourself, because of comparison and obsession, so that you are always "ignorant of happiness", eager and impetuous have never solved any problems, why not enjoy the present and every unusual little day?
Some thoughts about October
October is a month of suspension and emptying. I haven't input anything, and I seldom output anything of value. Compared with hard-working people who work alone, this state is simply too guilty.
But do you have to read, write or exercise every day to be positive?
Just because the official WeChat account, friends circle and community are all in this diligent state, should we follow closely and make ourselves become this kind of life rhythm?
Of course, it is not to deny or oppose this rhythm, but the premise must be that you are happy and enjoy yourself.
Now, watching the "diligence" flying around the community has gradually become less anxious, because after a period of curiosity-anxiety-endeavor-depression, you will begin to reflect on what kind of rhythm you are suitable for.
For me, I don't want to tie myself too tightly, and I can't bear to blindly follow anything. I just want to do what I want to do in a "Buddha-like" state. This "wish" can endure hardships and give up.
After a year of wandering around, I finally got a job. The pace of work and the harvest of work are my long-awaited states. There is no guarantee how long this satisfaction will last, but every job will not give you free classes.
The normal state of work is to constantly find interest in repetition. No matter which major or position, if you can turn what you like into a job and bring considerable income, that is great happiness. If you can't, do your job well and seek new fun outside of work.
Only by comparing the three jobs I have experienced in a year can I really feel how important it is in the right environment.
The tooling symbolizing professional honor will tell you that everything you say and do deserves a uniform.
The predecessors who have had personal experience will tell you which minefields not to step on and which pits to avoid, so as to make yourself more aware of the future direction.
A relatively pure working environment will tell you that when everyone just does his own thing and doesn't cross the line, the work will become much purer.
If there is such an opportunity, we should make good use of it, and don't expect to rise to another higher realm in a short time. Anyway, there is still a long time, so why rush to the finish line?
Years of longing have been soaked in "casualness" again and again. Can you devote yourself wholeheartedly for once? How about clearing your name for once? How about giving yourself a chance to turn around against the wind?
It will take more than two months next year to go all out to zero everything!
Change is a rare thing.
Just changing yourself requires exhausting all your strength, not to mention changing people who grew up in different environments.
Besides, what you want to change must be suitable for others? Must be right? In the final analysis, it is only to satisfy the so-called vanity.
What a brave thing live high is.
You can't aim at the expectations of others, and you can't be hindered by their prejudices.
All the problems seem to come down to the problem of "I can't", so try to control this "self" factor first when the external environment cannot be changed.
October, full of twists and turns and pauses, seems to have slipped away quickly before it could be felt and recorded.
The last two months of 20 19 are the stage to start a new pace of life and work, adapt as soon as possible, make clear your own direction and goals, and strive to hand in a satisfactory answer sheet for 20 19.