What is correct self-knowledge?

Self-awareness is the core of personality. It not only affects our study and life, but also determines how hard we will work and how long we will persist when we encounter obstacles or unpleasant experiences. It also affects our thinking mode and emotional response mode, and affects our interpersonal communication and the construction of self-personality. Therefore, only when we have a clear understanding of our own abilities and values and form a good self-awareness can we better adapt to this modern society. It can be seen that self-awareness has a far-reaching impact on the development of our whole life course. So how should college students cultivate this healthy self-awareness? I think, first of all, we should know what kind of self-awareness is a healthy self-awareness. There is a standard:

(1) Have self-knowledge, know their own advantages and disadvantages, and be able to evaluate themselves correctly.

(2) Self-knowledge, self-experience and self-control are harmonious.

(3) Self-confidence, independence, harmony with others and positive self-affirmation.

(4) Have ideals, goals and be able to make progress.

According to this standard, we can try to cultivate a healthy self-awareness.

First of all, we must have a correct understanding of ourselves, which is the basis for shaping a healthy self-awareness. Only when college students fully understand themselves and know their strengths and weaknesses can they position themselves, develop themselves, improve themselves and improve their self-awareness step by step.

Take me for example, I find time to think quietly every day. I will use this time to seriously reflect on myself, objectively examine and analyze myself, find out my defects and deficiencies and correct them. I used to be impulsive and easily lose my temper, and I couldn't listen to other people's suggestions and criticisms. This character makes me lose many opportunities and friends. Now I will often compare with others, find out the gaps and shortcomings with others, and then objectively carry out self-criticism and lessons. In addition, I also try to listen to others' comments on myself, so as to know myself correctly. Therefore, I am good at accepting other people's criticism, and then objectively find reasons from myself and see myself clearly with other people's criticism.

In addition, developing a positive and healthy attitude towards life can make people work hard and strive to realize a healthy self, which has a positive effect on cultivating a healthy self-awareness.

My motto is "laugh without answering, regardless of his gains and losses", and face success and failure calmly. I will not be carried away by success, nor will I be crushed by failure. I try to accept my failure, and see my own defects and deficiencies, and try to correct them. In other words, I am constantly improving myself in repeated failures.

Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. I have many shortcomings. I used to hide it blindly, but the result became more and more pessimistic, and I always felt useless. When I try to open my heart, I find that life is so beautiful. Face your own advantages and disadvantages frankly, and make good use of the former, such as participating in various entertainment activities, showing yourself and expressing yourself; For the latter, we should face it bravely, admit and accept it. When we can treat our own advantages and disadvantages correctly, we will find that our life will be more harmonious.

Everyone should have an ideal, which is determined after a correct understanding of self. The ideal should be based on our actual situation, feasible and convincing. Only in this way can the ideal inspire us to make unremitting efforts to realize it.

In short, as long as we are confident in ourselves, have an optimistic attitude, actively participate in various beneficial entertainment and social activities, constantly exercise ourselves in practice, know ourselves, sum up ourselves and improve ourselves, we will certainly cultivate a healthy self-awareness.