It is foolish for a woman not to dress up after marriage. Some women don't pay attention to dressing up after marriage because they spend all their time at home and work. Women dress up not only to please their husbands but also to make themselves happy. Let me show you how stupid it is for a woman not to dress up after marriage.
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Last week, my sister's little treasure was a little strange recently.
Bao Xiao signed up for the summer camp held at home. Three days before camping, he and his father agreed to see him off on the day of camping.
On the opening day of the camp, his father was busy on a business trip, but Xiaobaolai didn't want his mother to see him off at home anyway, and insisted that his father, who was already at the airport, send him to the summer camp.
I wonder, isn't the child usually closer to his mother? Why did Bao Xiao resist his mother so much? I talked to Bao Xiao.
I almost didn't spit out my old blood as soon as we talked.
"My mom is not as good-looking as other people's moms, and my dad is handsome, so I will take my dad ..."
Now the child is really angry with me! Are you going to the summer camp or the parents' beauty pageant? ! Fart bigger, children will dislike their mothers!
My mind is full of clips from the TV series ugly mother. The ugly mother worked hard to raise her son, who was too ugly to marry a wife. What a heartless man!
I immediately made an appointment with my sister to educate Bao Xiao. When I arrived at my sister's house, my brother-in-law was stuck in the sofa playing with his mobile phone. As for my sister, I'm a little complicated.
Wearing big red pajamas, yellow hair, a loose braid, dark yellow skin, freckles on her face, swollen eyes and red blood, she really looks like her sister, several years older than her brother-in-law.
She washed the dishes with detergent. I thought her hands were a little rough, so I took out the hand cream and wanted her to wipe it.
My sister actually refused, on the grounds that "hand cream is too oily. I haven't used it since I got married. Things are too busy. How can I have time to wipe ... "
Don't dress up after marriage? No hands, no face?
Many people always think that everything will be fine if they get married, and they no longer care about the image in front of that person, thinking that he will not dislike it anyway. In fact, I once had such an idea.
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One weekend a few years ago, after I got up in the morning, I found my husband was busy cooking breakfast in the kitchen, but he had been fiddling with the power cord of the soymilk machine, and I couldn't figure it out.
I looked at it and said angrily, you are so stupid. This is the power cord on the rice cooker. Can it be done on the soymilk machine?
In summer, with the heat and urgency of urination, he was sweating like a pig. After listening to my words, he naturally got angry and said to me rudely, go away, you will know that you are sleeping and still here like a pig!
I didn't care about him, so I went to the bathroom to take a shower.
After washing, I painted a light makeup and changed my pajamas, ready to go to the morning market.
When my husband saw that I was going downstairs, he changed his tone and asked softly, where are you going? Shall I take you there? I'm a little surprised. Just now, I looked like I was glaring at King Kong. How did I become a polite person in the blink of an eye?
At that moment, I suddenly understood that when I was in the kitchen, I was wearing cotton pajamas, with fluffy hair and shiny face. No wonder he gets annoyed when he opens his mouth. That was his true psychology at that time.
At this moment, I am a completely different person, with exquisite makeup and fashionable clothes. What man doesn't like to pay tribute to a beautiful woman, let alone his wife?
Everyone belongs to the Appearance Association, so do you, and so does he. How kind a man is, he can feel your warm and kind heart through your sloppy appearance.
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Not only in marriage, but also in the workplace.
Sister Juan is a woman in her forties now. She has a stable position in the workplace and has always been loved by her husband at home. But she is such a seemingly perfect woman, but she has never given up her self-control over her external image.
Sister Juan gets up every morning to do 20 minutes of community shaping exercises, and always keeps a balanced diet, never greedy and eats junk snacks.
She said that women can't be willful when they reach middle age, because their metabolism begins to slow down, and they will get fatter and fatter if they don't control themselves.
In appearance, she is also absolutely strict with herself. When she goes out every day, she will not allow herself to face the sky, but will wear a little makeup and a little light makeup to travel. No matter how busy you are, at least put on lipstick to show your spirit.
Every night, she puts on a mask, soaks her feet and does yoga. She said that the older you get, the more you have to fight against the years.
Li Dongtian, a famous makeup artist, once said: Woman, you should manage your appearance like a marriage!
Besides, she never goes out in clothes that have not been ironed, and she never takes out the garbage in slippers or pajamas. Even when she is alone at home, she dresses neatly.
She said that a woman's dress is the first external image to others, and she will never allow herself to destroy the image.
Therefore, Sister Juan gives people a pleasing beauty both at home and outside.
Physically, due to long-term exercise, she has a healthy beauty with thin waist and thin legs.
Externally, she always wears dark clothes, which makes people look comfortable.
In manners and posture, she is calm and orderly, giving people a sense of stability and comfort.
She said something to me, which impressed me deeply: this is a world of looking at faces. Don't believe that "there are many beautiful skins, but few interesting souls."
You don't even have beautiful skin, and people can't bear to look at you twice. Even if there is a good chance, how can it be your turn?
Yes, I have met many female elites over the years. They are beautiful and handsome, regardless of age, without exception.
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Hepburn once said: "Appearance is an indispensable capital for women!" Women of any age should not give up their external image.
No man is your life's protection, even your parents, they raise you to prevent old age. Raise children to prevent old age. If you think that marriage is the foundation of a woman's life, then you should act according to her face.
You have to invest in yourself so that men will take you seriously.
After all, people are visual animals. Therefore, never eat the fattest at the best age, use the worst and live the cheapest. If you are beautiful, your life will be beautiful.
The world is very strong and indifferent, and there is not much sense of security. Marriage is full of variables at any time. You have worked hard for many years, and you may be forced to change the stage at any time.
But whether you are galloping in the mountains and rivers, or confined to your parents' short day and night and in the kitchen.
Your delicate makeup, elegant figure and decent clothes are all your armor and weapons, which can help you resist all kinds of desolation in the world.
Therefore, as a woman, we should always remember to pay attention to our external image.
Beauty is not only an external gesture presented to others, but also an internal manifestation of not giving up on yourself. Women can be old, but they must not be lazy.
Women don't dress up silly after marriage. A man who really loves you will not care about his wife's clothes. But a woman who "likes to dress up" after marriage can make her husband love himself more and be more confident.
Before marriage, men like to pursue beautiful girls. But when you get married, you don't want your wife to make up, and sometimes you are dissatisfied: "Why are you so beautiful when you are married?"
Shandong Academy of Social Sciences recently conducted a very interesting survey-"Have you changed your attitude towards women's makeup before and after marriage?" Up to 6 1% of the men interviewed answered: yes.
Their attitude is: wives don't have to wear makeup, and the days when girlfriends dress up before marriage are gone forever. Among the men whose attitudes have changed, 24% even think that his wife's makeup after marriage is a waste.
Before marriage, men will spend a lot of time chasing girls, praising them for their beauty and buying clothes generously to please them. But once a man marries a girl's family, especially a beautiful mother-in-law, his sense of security rises to the dominant position, and it is a blessing to be plain. People say, "There are three treasures in the family, but an ugly wife is ruined by cotton." No one covets it, which means she feels safe.
In fact, beauty is your own business, and women don't need to dress up for men. There is no woman who doesn't like dressing up. Dressing up for girls is also an emotional expression. Dress moderately, the thick and thick, the light and light, the flowers and flowers, the pure and pure, regardless of men's "ugly wife" psychology.
Women dress themselves up in order to improve themselves in this process, so that they can find self-confidence and have more enthusiasm and motivation for family and work. All the stars we know are beautiful and handsome, and some have to be trimmed to see the importance of dressing up.