What is a truly healthy personality? What are the specific performances?

1. Realistic attitude A mentally healthy adult faces reality, whether it is pleasant for him or not. For example,

He likes driving and knows all kinds of dangers when driving, so he often checks the brake system, tires, lights and other parts. However, an immature person may not think of danger and take preventive measures.

Second, independence A person with a healthy personality [1] is rational and very stable, and listens to reasonable suggestions appropriately. However, an immature person often finds it difficult to make up his mind when things happen, and always wants others to show him how to act. The former can make decisions and is willing to bear all the consequences, while the latter often makes mistakes, shirks responsibility and blames others; If you have achievements, you will talk big and ask for praise.

Third, the ability to love others A healthy and mature person can get pleasure from loving his spouse, children, relatives and even helping strangers. On the contrary, an immature person is stingy when he loves others, hoping that he is the center of people's concern.

Fourth, rely on others appropriately. A mature person can not only love others, but also be willing to accept their help and love. Accepting help and giving it for free is a sign of maturity and health.

People who can control their personality and health when they are angry can grasp the sense of proportion, even if they are angry, they will not lose their minds. He may lose his temper sometimes, but he will never break into a rage over some trivial things.

Sixth, there are long-term plans. A healthy person will give up immediate interests for long-term interests. As a shrewd businessman, he won't make fake and shoddy goods to make money.

7. Good at rest A healthy person is calm and relaxed during rest, so he is full of energy when he returns to work. On the contrary, people who are emotionally unstable often feel forced to do something and seldom get happiness from rest.

8. People who are cautious about changing jobs and have healthy personalities often like their jobs and will not change their minds. He won't jump ship easily because other bosses are difficult to get along with. Because he has the enthusiasm and ability to do a good job.

We should be good at learning to love and tolerate children, and also be tolerant and understanding of others, especially their shortcomings, and get along with people with different opinions. At the same time, a person with healthy personality should be good at learning.

The healthy personality that teenagers should have in this period is 1. They have positive and healthy subjective consciousness, self-esteem and ability consciousness.

2. Know and evaluate yourself correctly, and be able to acknowledge and accept this evaluation.

3. Strong autonomy, independence, initiative and creativity.

4. Have a strong open attitude and can fully accept a lot of information.

5. Have strong adaptability and adaptability.

6. Strong communication skills and interpersonal skills.

7. While paying attention to myself, I also pay attention to social life, nature and others. I have strong love and sympathy, and I have deep recognition, sympathy and love for human beings.

8. Do not believe in yourself and authority, have strong judgment and identification ability, be able to analyze problems rationally, not be emotional, accept different opinions, and accept scientific, objective and correct opinions and suggestions.

9. Explore spiritual life and don't overemphasize material interests. 2 1 century, the world is becoming more and more market-oriented, people pursue economic interests, material enjoyment and sensory stimulation, and the worship of things leads to the shallowness and shallowness pursued by some people.

10. Open-minded, pay attention to the expansion of space, area, scope and point, not limited to individuals, groups and home countries, but extend to the whole social life and nature, and care for the earth as the home of mankind. This feature, coupled with the seventh feature, further broadens people's horizons and broadens people's minds.

1 1. Initially master the strong knowledge and information that adults have, master the relevant work skills, and have a sense of responsibility to admit obligations and dedication.

12. Facing the future, I have an indomitable attitude and can focus on the past, present and future. They inherit the past, attach importance to reality and look forward to the future. They can clearly understand that life is constantly advancing, and the direction they pursue should be suitable for future goals and tasks, and inspire and guide real life with future hopes.