1. Parents are children's first teachers. Parents should be extra self-disciplined about their words and deeds. The democratic atmosphere in the family is also very important. Please ask your children for more advice, instead of commanding them condescendingly.
It is very important for parents not to pay too much attention to students' scores and rankings, but to pay attention to whether students are willing to go to school and whether they are interested in what they have learned. Because many children's grades are not high, not because they can't, but because they are sloppy. And with the growth of age, carelessness can be overcome. If parents suppress their interest in learning, children's confidence will be lost. Once a student doesn't like learning, it is difficult to remedy it.
3. Encourage children more, criticize them less and even criticize them. Even if you criticize, you should praise first and then criticize, so that children can listen. Good boy is praised.
4. Spend more time with children reading, traveling and participating in cultural and sports activities. Note that parents' reading habits and moral temperament will affect their children's life. It is very important to create a good family culture atmosphere.
Parents should not quarrel in front of their children, let alone be violent. Otherwise, the child will feel insecure and will cause great psychological harm to the child.
6. What do parents think of parent-teacher conferences? Please don't repeat the teacher's criticism of the students as it is. If it is a compliment, you can tell the child. Don't take it out on your child if the parents are reprimanded by the teacher and don't praise them. On the contrary, it should be translated into encouragement and expectation for children.
7. Communicate with children more, find problems in observation and conversation, and take timely measures to solve them. Children's little progress should be affirmed in time, including progress in life and labor. Let your child become a kind, happy, healthy person with independent development ability, and you will succeed.
(2) Suggestions for primary school students
1. I dreamed of Peking University Tsinghua since I was a child, or at least dreamed of a famous university. Give yourself a lofty goal, and you may have different actions. It doesn't matter even if your grade in primary school is average. We must strive for Excellence after junior high school.
2. Seize every opportunity to learn. With lofty goals, you won't be complacent because of good grades, and you will be depressed because of poor grades. You will pay attention to whether you have learned knowledge, not just grades. You will take the initiative to go to the office to ask the teacher questions, and you will take the initiative to study. For example, learn from classmates with good grades, from parents and teachers, from outstanding people on TV, from extracurricular books, and from interacting with others. ...
Don't delay doing things, do the important things first, and live each day calmly and nervously. Learning requires meditation, especially when you are reading and doing your homework. Learn to improve efficiency. In addition to having a good class every day, we should also adhere to the principle of giving priority to homework and complete it with high quality in order to have proper entertainment or sports activities.
4. Always be more demanding of yourself. Don't look down, look at opponents who are better than yourself, and you can compete with partners who are good in character and eager to learn. We should also cooperate with our competitors in a friendly way, learn from each other's strong points and establish friendship in the process of progress.
5. Develop the habit of keeping diaries and reading notes. Constantly motivate and adjust yourself in the diary. Discover your strengths and record your progress.
6. Self-study the textbooks in advance, and you will gain the initiative in learning, and you will become a conscientious person in learning.
7. Thinking more, asking more questions, discussing more with classmates and answering more questions in class will make you smarter.
8. Find your own learning methods. When you know when you can memorize quickly, arrange the recitation time. Recite English, Chinese, famous sayings and epigrams, and extracurricular poems. Knowledge should be accumulated from an early age.
9. Use holidays to read more books. Try to read books that you are interested in and not interested in, such as popular science, literature, art, history, geography, biographies of celebrities, etc. Literary classics must be read, and Four Great Classical Novels must read them from primary school. If you don't understand, try to read on. Both in-class homework and extracurricular reading should be taken into account, and daily homework should be completed first.
10, keep exercising. Cultivate one or two sports hobbies or skills, and health is the guarantee of learning. Protect your eyesight. Read and write correctly. Watch the computer for no more than half an hour.
1 1. If you want to play computer games, it is suggested that you practice blind typing by playing alphabet games (it is recommended to practice without looking at the keyboard to improve the speed of typing letters and pay attention to the correct posture of your fingers under the guidance of parents and teachers). This kind of game can train the flexibility of the brain and make people smart.