Therefore, in the face of these problems, they will choose to let the elderly help their children. When you want to have a rest at night, one child sleeps with the old man and the other child sleeps with his mother. On the one hand, it can take better care of the children, on the other hand, it is not very hard to protect the mother.
But in fact, sometimes this method has many disadvantages, and even affects children's health.
Why not persuade the elderly to take their children to rest? There are only three reasons, but it hurts.
Twin babies, one sleeping with grandma and the other sleeping with mom, can hardly believe this change after three months.
My girlfriend Zhang Yue has two three-year-old twin sons. As the children grow up, they will be sent to kindergarten and Zhang Yue will return to the workplace. Therefore, after consulting with her husband, Zack Zhang decided to call her mother-in-law in the country. Come on, help with the children.
After Zhang Yue's mother-in-law came, two children, Bao Xiao, slept with Zhang Yue at night, and Dabao slept with her and her mother-in-law, which could share some pressure. Unexpectedly, three months later, the changes of the two children made Zhang Yue unbelievable.
Obviously, they all live under the same roof and eat the same food, but Dabao's height development is obviously slower than that of Bao Xiao.
The two children used to be talkative, lively and lovely, but now Dabao is often silent. The most important thing is that he looks tired and has no spirit every day.
All these make Zack Zhang have countless questions in his heart. They are obviously twins. Why is the gap widening?
So why are the two twins so different?
The reason why there is such a big difference between the two children in three months is mainly because of who they live with.
As we all know, under normal circumstances, the elderly sleep for a relatively short time and get up late at night more frequently. In this case, it will make it difficult for children to fall asleep at night and the quality of sleep will be poor.
In addition, the elderly usually get up early, which easily affects their children. For children, the golden period of physical development is from night 1 1 to morning 1. Once the old man wakes up frequently, it will inevitably affect the children. This will affect the child's physical development and other conditions, so that the child looks very tired and tired during the day.
In addition, the elderly who take their children to sleep are vulnerable to these hazards, so please don't ignore them.
1. Not good for children's health.
As we all know, in fact, with the growth of age, our body organs (especially lungs) are getting worse and worse. Because the filtering and cleaning abilities are worse than before, many elderly people often make phone calls. This gas will contain some unpleasant smells. Children who sleep with the elderly at night will inevitably inhale these gases. Over time, they can easily cause a series of injuries to children's bodies.
2. Not conducive to parent-child relationship
The growth of children needs the company of parents, especially when there are two children at home. If one child is taken away by her grandmother and the other child is taken away by her mother, the child brought by her grandmother will easily feel insecure and feel inferior, and even think that this is not her mother who loves me.
In addition, because some elderly people are lonely, they often say "nothing" to their children when they take care of them. This will inevitably instill some bad ideas into children, which is not conducive to their growth. This is not conducive to establishing parent-child relationship.
3. Affect children's sleep quality
Everyone knows that the quality of sleep is very important for children, so many parents will try their best to create a comfortable and quiet sleeping environment for their children.
However, the older the elderly, the shorter their sleep time and the more frequently they get up, which will seriously interfere with the quality of children's sleep. In the long run, this will affect the child's physical development, such as stunting. Fatigue, decreased immunity, etc.
So now many parents choose to take care of their children instead of letting the elderly sleep with their children. There are actually many scientific reasons in this.
In fact, I really want to tell many young parents that even if they can't take their children away, they should sleep with them and then separate them. This not only brings children a great sense of security, but also contributes to their healthy growth and growth.