Guo Jingfei's love began with a dinner. On June 5438+ 10, 2005, he starred in the first hero drama "The Gadfly" and performed 12 performances at the Shanghai Grand Theatre, which was unprecedented. After watching The Gadfly, the elder martial sister Bao Lei and the elder martial brother Lu Yi were deeply impressed by Guo Jingfei's acting skills. 65438+1October 1 1, the celebrity couple warmly invited their younger brother to dinner. When Guo Jingfei arrived at the hotel, he saw a stunning and beautiful girl sitting beside Bao Lei. He patted his head: "I remember, you are Bao Lei and Lu Yi's little tail Bao Li." Paulie smiled and said, "I remember you, too. When freshmen entered the school, you sang Cinderella on the guitar at the welcome party. The appearance of Shuai Shuai fascinated a group of girls. " Looking back, they feel very cordial. ...
Guo Jingfei was born in a military family in Beijing on 1979. The pilot's father wants his son to fly in the blue sky, but he is obsessed with acting. In 2000, after graduating from Xie Jin Hengtong Star Art School, Guo Jingfei was admitted to the Performance Department of Shanghai Theatre Academy with excellent results. After graduating from college, he became a professional actor in Shanghai Theatre Arts Center. Guo Jingfei, with a height of1.80m, looks handsome, has a solid performance foundation and excellent lines foundation, and has been active in the drama stage since graduation. In just over a year, he played the leading role in nearly 10 plays, such as midnight Havana and love conquers everything, and enjoyed the reputation of "prince of drama".
Bao Li, a girl from Harbin, is older than Guo Jingfei 1 year. When she was a senior in Shanghai Opera Director Department, Guo Jingfei was just a freshman. At that time, Bao Li was inseparable from his sister and Lu Yi, and was called the "Three Musketeers in Opera". Guo Jingfei and Paulie both know each other's names, but they have never spoken, let alone had any contact. Many years later, they didn't expect that an ordinary dinner party would give birth to a youthful relationship. After dinner, Bao Lei and Lu Yi left temporarily, while Guo Jingfei and Paulie chatted cheerfully in the restaurant. Bao Li speaks slowly and does things slowly. Some girls in Northeast China have a "two-type" personality, but Guo Jingfei appreciates her gentle and slow manner. And his free and easy, talkative, cold humor, also very to Bao Li's appetite. Because of their complementary personalities, the handsome guys and beautiful women fell in love at first sight.
Guo Jingfei is full of passion. A week later, he called Bao Li: "I want to buy you a cup of coffee. Do you dare to come out? " Bao Li woman.she: "What is not? Send me the address, and I'll be right there. "An hour later, two people appeared in the kangaroo bar almost at the same time. There is a handsome Beijing boy in Guo Jingfei: "I am not mistaken, it is my woman." Bao Li pretended to be angry: "We only had one meal, and my sister invited us. Who is your woman? " There is a faint mint sweetness in my heart.
After drinking coffee, Guo Jingfei asked Bao Li, "It's still early. Shall I take you to play billiards? " Paulie said softly, "I listen to you." When they came to the billiards room, Guo Jingfei began to take the cue, while Bao Li sat quietly watching. When Guo Jingfei scored five goals in one shot, Bao Li gently applauded: "Great!" . The quietness and worship of girls can best ignite the heroic blood of men. At that time, the love piano music "To Alice" was playing in the billiards room, and Guo Jingfei enthusiastically courted Bao Li: "We met the right person at the right time. I am afraid of missing you, and now I want to confirm my relationship with you. " Paulie has just watched the English film "Love Actually", longing for the romantic and beautiful love between the hero and heroine, and accepted it.
On June 65438+ 10/0, 2005, Guo Jingfei was drinking at his best friend's house in Bao Li. The other party joked with him: "Tomorrow is Singles' Day, so you and Bao Li should simply take off the bill." Guo Jingfei answered affirmatively: "Good! Bao Li, how about we get married tomorrow? The romance in Bao Li's bones was aroused: "It hasn't rained in Shanghai for almost a month. If it rains suddenly tomorrow, we will get the certificate, which shows that it is an act of god. "How can the rain come at once? Guo Jingfei thought that Paulie was in decline, and his heart felt a little lonely. ...
Unexpectedly, at dawn the next day, it suddenly began to rain. Guo Jingfei looked at the rain outside the window and called Bao Li: "It seems that God is going to help us. You hurry out and I'll take you to get the certificate. " Paulie made an appointment with her boyfriend to meet at the gate of the theater. When washing, Guo Jingfei found her hair was long and messy in the mirror, so she picked up the scissors and clicked it. Although the head shape is irregular, it looks fresh and energetic. At 9: 30, the young couple met, only to find that neither of them had a household registration book. At that time, Guo Jingfei was the collective registered permanent residence of Shanghai Theatre Center, and Bao Li's registered permanent residence was left to her sister. Guo Jingfei suggested: "Let's get the household registration book separately." Bao Li said awkwardly, "My elder sister is very cautious. She has been in love with Lao Lu for five years and is not married yet. If we get the certificate after knowing each other for a month, she will scold me to death. We must keep it from her, or the marriage will not be concluded. "
Bao Li also reminded her boyfriend: "Don't let the people in the unit know, I don't want to live in the discussion." Yes, many people get married after knowing each other for a month. It's really incredible. Guo Jingfei responded humorously: "Listen to you, let's get the certificate in a low profile and be secretly happy."
Subsequently, the two went to get the household registration book. Guo Jingfei rushed to the theater center, lied about buying a house, and took out his household registration book. Bao Li made up an excuse that she wanted to learn to drive, and she cheated her sister from her hukou book. In the afternoon, they got a marriage certificate in Minhang District Civil Affairs Bureau.
At that time, Guo Jingfei was in financial difficulties, so she couldn't afford a wedding room in Shanghai. She rented a small apartment and married her naked. In order not to reveal the secret of marriage, the two never pretend to be husband and wife in front of outsiders. Guo Jingfei called Bao Li "girlfriend" and Bao Li called him "boyfriend". Sometimes the couple will attend a friend's wedding together. Guo Jingfei asked Bao Li, "Compared with the luxury of the bride, you are simply Cinderella. Do you regret being with me? " Bao Li shook his head: "What is there to regret? Everyone's lifestyle is different, and I feel very happy. " Guo Jingfei felt a warm current in his heart.
June 5438+February 2006, my sister was filming in Zhejiang, and Bao Li visited the crew. Six months ago, Bao Lei just got married to Lu Yi. Bao Li said, "Sister, your marriage is finished, and I intend to marry Fei Jing." Bao Lei's face suddenly changed: "You lied to me! I have long heard that you married Xiaoguo a year ago. " Paulie shed tears: "Sister, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have lied to you." "I know you are true love, so cherish it and don't take marriage as a joke." After returning to Shanghai after filming, Bao Lei told her brother-in-law, "Many people don't think highly of you. I hope you and Bao Li can break the spell of flash marriage and flash away and grow old together. " Guo Jingfei promised: "Don't worry, I have only one marriage in my life."
After the flash marriage of Guo Jingfei and Bao Li was exposed, their parents' attitudes were completely different. Guo's parents know that their son has been independent and stubborn since childhood and support his choice. Baomu blamed her daughter on the phone: "Why didn't you tell her family about such a big thing as getting married?" Bao Li was in tears and didn't know how to tell her mother. In order to get the understanding of her parents-in-law, Guo Jingfei accompanied his wife to Harbin to "plead guilty". He apologized to his parents: "Mom and Dad, I really love Bao Li. At first, I was mainly afraid that you would object, so I got the license first. This is mainly my fault, not Bao Li's. In the future, I will be punished as your son for life. " In fact, Bao's parents appreciated his personality and talent, and his humorous and sincere words solved their parents' dissatisfaction. They forgave their daughter and son-in-law in their hearts.
The flash marriage between Guo Jingfei and Bao Li has also attracted overwhelming criticism. Many people predict that their marriage will not last long, and leaving is the final outcome. Some people even laughed in Bao Li's face: "You are out of your mind. If there is no wedding room, others will coax you away if the wedding is not held. There is always a time to cry. " Bao Li said slowly, "I believe in Fei Jing. He will make me happy." However, Guo Jingfei didn't make excuses or fight back, but decided to defeat the outside suspicion with practical actions.
The urgent task is to give his wife a stable home. After marriage, Guo Jingfei starred in a drama and took over a film and television drama. Because the face value, image and acting skills are excellent, there is no walk-on, and the protagonists are all played. In the past two years, Guo Jingfei only rested for more than 30 days, and spent the rest of the time walking around in the cast. From June 5438 to February 2007, Guo Jingfei bought a house in Minhang District and gave his wife the key to his home. Bao Li burst into tears. ...
Dinner, household registration cheating, renting a house and naked marriage are all nodes of life, which constitute the marriage puzzle of Guo Jingfei and Bao Li. In this materialistic age, how many Buddhist girls like Bao Li can you find? Guo Jingfei is grateful for his marriage, and is willing to be a "crazy person who dotes on his wife": he has 1 yuan in his pocket and dares to spend 10 yuan for his wife. Shopping with Bao Li, as long as her eyes stay on which cheongsam or high-heeled shoes for a few more seconds, Guo Jingfei will buy them. Bao Li asked her husband, "Don't you feel bad about spending money for me like this?" He casually said a string of sweet words: "how much can a cheongsam and a pair of shoes be worth?" Marrying a wife who comes home is for pain. If a woman can't get her husband's love, why should she get married? It is better to live alone. " Bao Li was drunk. ...
When she first got married, Bao Li, who was 1.66 meters tall, was less than 90 pounds thinner and his face was not good. As long as Guo Jingfei is at home, she will cook a pot of black chicken soup with Cordyceps sinensis from time to time. He also placed longan, red dates and other blood-enriching dried fruits on the bedside table, coffee table and desk at home. No matter which room Bao Li went to, he grabbed one and stuffed it in his mouth.
Bao Li is alone at home and often eats two pieces of bread and a bowl of instant noodles for a meal. Before filming in other places, Guo Jingfei would fill the refrigerator with his wife's favorite foods, such as beef with sauce, shrimp wonton and roast goose. Every week, he urges his wife to weigh herself and then reports the data to him ... Although Bao Li is one year older than her husband, she is spoiled like a princess. In the second year after marriage, Bao Li's face was ruddy, her complexion was excellent, her hair was black and shiny, and her weight remained at 100 kg all the year round. When someone asked her if her marriage was happy, Bao Li said domineering: "Whether a woman's life is moist, just look at her face and you will know the answer." Guo Jingfei appreciated his wife's witty answer.
In 2009, the young couple's happy marriage has gone through four years. In the fleeting shadow, Guo Jingfei not only grew up to be a responsible gentleman, but also had a successful career. Because of his superb performances in the dramas Legend of Wulin and Romeo and Zhu Yingtai, Guo Jingfei won the Best Actor Award in Zuo Lin Drama Art Award and the Leading Role Award in Shanghai Magnolia Drama Performance Art Award, which became a banner in Shanghai drama industry. Starring in TV dramas such as "Living with a stewardess" and "When Men Get Married" by Duke Lushan, it also set a high audience rating.
Husband and wife are two trees. Only by growing up side by side can marriage last forever. In order to follow her husband's career, Bao Li is both a director and an actor. In a few years, she directed and starred in excellent works such as "Special Police Flying Dragon" and "24 Hours Danger". Despite the small achievements in my career, there is still a gap compared with my husband. Just as Bao Li was trying to shorten the gap, trouble came unconsciously. ...
20 1 1 In April, Bao Li directed a long children's TV series. The investor is strong, and the script copyright alone costs 6.5438+0 million yuan, and has signed broadcasting contracts with a number of satellite TV stations. Perhaps this drama can send itself into the ranks of famous directors, and Paulie's blood is boiling around her. I don't know that when she was choosing scenery in Zhoushan, Zhejiang Province, she suddenly felt unwell and was unexpectedly found to be pregnant for more than two months. After returning to Shanghai, Bao Li told her husband, "I can't have this child. You will accompany me to the hospital for an abortion tomorrow. " Guo Jingfei asked, "why not? Is career more important than fresh life? "
Bao Li expressed concern: "If a woman is pregnant and gives birth, it will take three to four years. So who will remember Bao Li? The bigger the gap with you, the less secure I feel. " Guo Jingfei peeled a longan and stuffed it into his wife's mouth: "Fool, don't you know me?"? What I like is your Buddha nature and gentleness, not how strong your dedication is. If you don't have these advantages, I won't even love a famous actress. " Bao Li was persuaded by her husband: "I will listen to you and give birth to the baby."
Subsequently, Bao Li terminated the contract with the investor and settled down at home to have a baby. This summer, Guo Jingfei went to Beijing to shoot the comedy film "33 Days of Lovelorn Love" and lived with his wife and parents. At this time, Bao Li was 33 years old and entered the ranks of elderly women. Played up by the media and film and television dramas, she is worried about the baby's deformity, thinks too much about the delivery process, and has prenatal anxiety: insomnia, anxiety, emotional fragility, and dare not be alone. As long as she doesn't see her husband for 10 minutes, Bao Li will feel scared. She often loses her temper with her husband in public. Guo Jingfei took his time and comforted his wife with humor and a smile.
Bao Li couldn't sleep at night, so Guo Jingfei gave her a psychological massage: "Now medicine is very developed, and there won't be any accidents in production. When the baby is born, I will always be with you. " "Check the decline first. The baby's development is normal and will not give birth to deformed children. I love both boys and girls. " In the story of her husband's hypnosis, Paulie fell asleep peacefully. During the day, he went to the film crew to shoot, and Guo Jingfei also took his wife. He performed in front of the camera, so Bao Li wore headphones and listened to soothing music. Bathed in her husband's favorite sunshine, Bao Li's prenatal anxiety disappeared. ...
20 1 165438 On February 9th, Paulie gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Guo Jingfei stayed in the delivery room and witnessed the hardships of his wife's life. With tears in his eyes, he said to his wife, "I really understand the profound connotation of this classic language, the birthday of the child and the Good Friday of the mother." Honey, you are our heroine. "Bao Li eyes red. A woman can't cry for the next month. Guo Jingfei coaxed his wife with a smile: "Cry, cry hard. Women's tears are water accumulated in their hearts. After flowing, she will become a genius. " Bao Li was amused to smile through tears.
After maternity leave, Bao Li plans to start working. Guo Jingfei threw her a difficult problem: "We are both busy outside. What about our son?" Bao Li said: "Call the nanny to take care of it at home and let my parents come and help." "Listen to education experts say that children aged 0 to 3 must stay with their parents, otherwise they will have personality defects when they grow up. I met some lovers, who were originally in love. Because the two sides have been together for a long time, it is difficult to even have a reunion dinner at home. After a long time, their feelings faded and they finally broke up. I am worried that this tragedy will repeat itself on us. " Bao Li was silent for a long time and replied, "That makes sense. Let me go back to my family. " Wife is always so reasonable, the tail from wagging the dog, Guo Jingfei's heart ripples again.
In this way, Bao Li washed away her lead and became a full-time housewife. She uses rice flour, condensed milk and cheese as her son's supplementary food. If there is any happy event in her husband's family, she will give a red envelope to Beijing on behalf of her husband. The washing machine at home is broken, the sewer is blocked, and the light bulb doesn't work ... Bao Li never calls her husband and tries to solve these life problems by herself. Whenever Guo Jingfei comes home from filming, his home is always spotless. There are always hot dishes and meals, and the smiling faces of his wife and children are waiting for him. This is my dream fireworks life! In order to repay his wife, Guo Jingfei gave her all her efforts and gave Bao Li the greatest sense of security.
20 14 March, Guo Jingfei came home from filming in other places, and Bao Li took out a desk calendar in front of him. She turned over and nagged, "when you are not at home, I will draw a black circle under the date." You calculate, how many days have you stayed at home in the past six months? " Guo Jingfei argued, "Am I not busy? Who doesn't want to be idle. " Bao Li thinks that her husband hinted that he was idle and had a conflict with him. ...
Popular or "wife-crazy", career and marriage are "very good"
Guo Jingfei's parents are loving and harmonious, and seldom blush. Growing up in a happy and harmonious family, he also wants to create a quiet growth environment for his son. When the couple clashed again, Guo Jingfei coaxed his wife with his sweet mouth and humor: "You are so beautiful today. You look great in cheongsam. " "My wife is made of special materials. She can direct the play or take care of the baby. She knows how to manage money and family. I am the biggest beneficiary of marriage. " "Look at the floor at home. Clean enough to look in the mirror. Bread crumbs fall to the ground, pick them up and you can eat them ... "
At first, Bao Li bit her husband's sweet bait and calmed down in the praise of Guo Jingfei. After many times, she stopped listening to her husband's advice, her face was ugly and her words were ugly. In order to avoid an escalation of the conflict, Guo Jingfei remained silent. The husband can't talk, so Bao Li forced him to argue with himself. Because of her slow temper, Bao Li never became hysterical. She chattered like an old lady and talked about her unhappy past over and over again. The torture of making tea with cold water made Guo Jingfei's brain ache, so he simply hid with his son in his arms.
At this time, public opinion added another stroke to Bao Li's bad mood. After Guo Jingfei became famous, some media began to compare him with his brother-in-law, saying that he still didn't have Lu, and his mother-in-law certainly liked him better. In fact, brothers-in-law never care who is more famous. They are as handsome, as excellent, as close as brothers, and often interact in Weibo. When they meet in Shanghai, they will have coffee together and go fishing on the Bund. Once, Guo Jingfei and Lu Yi were filming in a film crew, and Lu Yi playfully put ice cream on Guo Jingfei's neck and face. In order to "revenge" his brother-in-law, Guo Jingfei locked Lu Yi in a simple toilet with a chopstick ... No matter how the media interpreted it, it didn't affect the feelings between Guo Jingfei and Lu Yi.
Bao Li is deeply disturbed by this. On holidays, she went back to her parents' home with her husband and sister, and her relatives and friends also focused on Lu Yi, which inevitably left Guo Jingfei in the cold. Relatives and friends are not snobs, just because they knew Lu Yi earlier and became more familiar with him casually. Bao Li was misunderstood and had nowhere to vent her negative emotions, so she struggled with her husband: "No matter how docile a woman is, she will also have a competitive heart. If your career is better, I can hold my head high in front of my relatives and friends. " Guo Jingfei didn't care: "I think I am excellent. Before I am 50 years old, I will definitely encounter a drama that is too hot. " In this case, it is impossible for Bao Li's heart to be solved. When she went back to her parents' house, she had a quarrel with her husband. ...
The great change of his wife has brought pressure and troubles to Guo Jingfei. I thought hiding with my son could ease the contradiction between husband and wife, but it made Bao Li even more mad and sad. It turns out that Paulie is fragile and insecure because she stays at home all the year round and is out of touch with society: she is no longer the glamorous actress and director at the beginning, but a yellow-faced woman who walks around the stove. Her husband avoided contradictions, but Bao Li mistakenly thought that he hated himself and didn't even bother to talk to her, which made him feel sad. Struggling, she doesn't know how far this marriage can go.
In order to regain self-confidence and save the marriage, in October 20 15 165438 10, Bao Li proposed to her husband, "I have been a housewife for four years, and I have been bored at home for more than 1000 days. Now that my son is in kindergarten, I want to return to film and television. " Guo Jingfei asked his wife, "Don't we cooperate well?" ? A woman is always fighting outside, which is not conducive to the stability of the family. Bao Li was furious: "If I work as a free nanny at home, will my marriage be stable? Our careers are not on the same channel, and you hate me more and more. If I complain a few words, you will hide. I don't know when I'll be kicked out of the house. "
From his wife's words, Guo Jingfei heard two signals: First, he was worried about career inequality and marriage was insecure; Second, my wife has been bored at home for too long and wants to go out for some air. Guo Jingfei's heart hurt, and he sincerely apologized to Bao Li: "I'm sorry, I've been filming outside all these years, and my life is wonderful, but I ignored your psychological feelings. I thought I would lead an honest and clean life, give you the power of family economy, write your name on the house and car, and be a hundred excellent husbands. Now I know that my understanding of a good husband is too superficial. Lack of proper psychological and emotional communication between husband and wife and lack of romantic passion will only deepen the rift. " The husband still knows himself as well as before, and Paulie shed two lines of tears.
Guo Jingfei patted his wife on the shoulder: "I have always felt that no woman in this world is more suitable for me than you. You are gentle, strong and forbearing, and you sacrificed your career to make me. You are both my good wife and my benefactor. I won't leave you as long as the earth doesn't explode. " Bao Li was moved by her husband's sincerity: "My son is too young to live without me. I'd better be a full-time housewife, but I don't want to repeat the lonely and monotonous life before. " Guo Jingfei humorously promised: "I am a man with romantic cells and will fly with you."
Since then, Guo Jingfei has been filming in Beijing and Shanghai as much as possible. If he were in Shanghai, he wouldn't stay in the crew hotel, and he would go home every day. When he went to Beijing to shoot, he took his wife and children, and arranged for Bao Li to reunite with her parents, relatives and friends, so that she could enjoy the warmth of her extended family. In the past, Guo Jingfei turned off many TV talk shows, especially unwilling to appear with Bao Li, and unwilling to expose his private life. Now, in order to spend more time with his wife, he broke the precepts.
In the spring of 20 16, the couple were invited to participate in the reality show column "True Confessions" of Guangxi TV Station. In a scenic place, Guo Jingfei led Bao Li through a cave formed 700 million years ago. The stone inside is like fluff, and it will fly when you blow it with your mouth. The couple walked back and forth hand in hand for four hours, and then Guo Jingfei confessed to his wife with a recording pen: "Wife, I have never given you the ultimate romance. This 700 million-year-old landscape is unrepeatable, which is the ultimate romance I give you. I want to use 700 million years of history to seal my love for you. " Then, he put the recorder in the cave and sealed it permanently. Paulie and her husband hugged and cried.
In the autumn of 20 17, Guo Jingfei and his wife participated in the interview of Extraordinary Quiet Distance on a cruise ship. Seasick, he threw up and took a rest. He and his wife appeared in the studio happily. The interview lasted for seven days, and Guo Jingfei gave Paulie an unconventional romance: making a calendar to record the most solemn events, such as their first meeting in a restaurant, cheating the hukou to get a marriage certificate, buying a house to settle down, and the birth of their son. Then Guo Jingfei turned to his wife's page and said, "We have been married for 65,438+00 years, and we will stick to our marriage for 40, 50 and 60 years. As you sow, you reap, and we get the whole universe! " The beautiful past came to mind, and Bao Li relived the road of love and marriage in his memory and shed tears at the scene. ...
2065438+March 2009, 46 episodes of the urban emotional drama "Everything is OK" premiered in Zhejiang, Jiangsu Satellite TV, Iqiyi, Youku, Tencent and other online platforms. The ratings of single episode reached 2. 138%, ranking first in China. The hot spots reflected in the play have become the topic of discussion among the whole people. With the role of Su Mingcheng, Guo Jingfei became a first-line star.
In July, 20021year, Guo Jingfei and Bao Li were married 16 years ago. Looking back on their emotional history, Guo Jingfei was filled with emotion: "It is said that flash marriage is hasty and unreliable, and it is a short-lived dynasty. But I think that as long as two people really love each other, have a tacit understanding in marriage and support each other, flash marriage can last forever! "
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