Adolescent psychological counselors point out that it is very important for parents to educate their children about sex during their growth. Then sex education can be carried out from the following aspects:
First, after a child is born, it is necessary to confuse the child in terms of gender, name and dress, thus affecting the child's sexual orientation.
Second, with the improvement of speech function, parents should integrate sex education into daily life, such as books, pictorial, stories and so on. Let children have a natural understanding of natural reproduction.
Third, children's interest in their own bodies is a good start for parents to carry out sex education. It is natural for children to know their bodies before going to bed and taking a bath, especially to keep a natural attitude towards their reproductive organs, and not to cast a mysterious shame on them. At the same time, when conducting sex education for children, guide them to develop good hygiene habits.
Fourth, parents should not take an evasive attitude towards their children's questions about sex, but should answer them in a language that children can understand and accept, especially on the question of "how did I come?" This is a common problem.
Fifth, parents are the best mentors for their children, and their own behavior is also a good example. Sincere parents can set a good example for their children. Children love life and can treat sexual problems correctly.
The adolescent psychological counselor of Wizards' free psychological counseling hotline pointed out that it is normal for adolescent men and women to have a good impression on the opposite sex, and it is also a necessary stage of adolescent psychological development. In western countries, there is no such word as "puppy love". Generally, "adolescent love" is used to describe this beautiful love. In fact, in the face of children's adolescent love, what parents need most is not to stop or mislead, but to understand and guide.