The most common sexual psychological diseases are: narcissistic psychological disorder; Fetishism psychological disorder; Psychological disorder of voyeurism and homosexuality. These phenomena and behaviors of sexual psychological disorders are called sexual metamorphosis in psychology.
Specifically, sexual perversion refers to any habitual and addictive sexual behavior that directly causes genital excitement to satisfy sexual desire except voluntary sexual intercourse between the two sexes. His addiction has three characteristics: first, the behavior of satisfying sexual desire is other than voluntary sexual intercourse, including the variation of sexual object and sexual satisfaction, which violates social customs; Sexual perversion is a habitual behavior, and only a few abnormal behaviors cannot be identified as sexual perversion; Three-sex abnormal behavior is a kind of idiosyncratic behavior, that is, individuals have a special hobby for this kind of behavior, so they enjoy it and pursue it deliberately.
From a psychological point of view, we find that patients with sexual perversion are generally not promiscuous people with hypersexuality. Most of them have low sexual desire and can't even complete normal sexual life. Not all of them are morally corrupt hooligans. Most patients are generally well adapted to society, conscientious, introverted, shy and elegant, with normal moral and ethical concepts, and feel guilty about their sexual perversion and violation of social norms.
Then let's talk about some common symptoms of sexual perversion in detail about its symptoms, behavior and psychological diagnosis.
There is a young man who comes from a cadre family, but only has a junior high school education, and his work performance in the unit is quite good. However, I am introverted and unsociable. I'm 27 years old, but I haven't got a girlfriend yet. One night when I masturbated, I had a strong desire to peek at a woman taking a bath. I climbed into my neighbor's house three times to peep, but I failed.
But when I peeked for the last time, I found that there were women's intimate clothes such as bras and briefs in the bathroom, so I couldn't help stealing them. After touching, I feel very comfortable, accompanied by sexual pleasure. Therefore, I often recall this incident at night, and cause strong sexual excitement and masturbation. Since then, I have only been obsessed with women's belongings, but I don't want to see women taking a bath. I often go out to steal women's personal belongings at night.
Psychoanalysis of fetishism
From the psychological analysis of fetishism, we can know that the patient is a pervert who gets strong sexual excitement and satisfaction by getting intimate objects of the opposite sex. Most fetishists are men, and their psychological and behavioral characteristics are mainly materialistic, adventurous and contradictory.
Fetishism also includes morbid attachment to a specific part of the opposite sex, that is, taking the non-sexy part of the opposite sex as the object of sexual activity to arouse sexual excitement, while putting normal sexual behavior in a secondary position or ignoring it. For example, fetishism is sexual excitement for women's hair; Foot fetishism is a strange phenomenon such as being interested in women's feet or shoes.
The manifestations and behaviors of fetishism
Let's talk about the performance of the patient's sexual desire: the general fetishist is not interested in the opposite sex itself, and his sexual desire especially points to the objects of the opposite sex, especially personal items, such as underwear, underwear, bra, gloves, shoes and socks, handkerchiefs, skirts, coats, menstrual paper, menstrual bands, hairpins, necklaces, statues, portraits and so on. By touching, seeing, smelling and kissing these objects, patients have strong sexual excitement and satisfaction.
Most patients take risks to buy their favorite items, and they will not buy their favorite women's items themselves. Patients always risk theft and reputation damage, and try their best to obtain and collect their favorite heterosexual items. If you can't succeed, you will have anxiety.
However, they will also have contradictions about their own behavior, and the psychology of fetishists before and after stealing worship is also quite complicated and contradictory. Before you succeed, you often feel anxious, nervous and uneasy. Once you succeed. Although sexual psychology is satisfied, it often leads to psychological conflicts such as self-blame, regret, depression, pain and inferiority because of hating one's behavior. Therefore, there is often a heart to make up, and there is no way to make up.
The cause of fetishism
The causes of fetishism are not too complicated. Generally, there are the following opinions and comments.
First, the impact of accidental events, most patients' fetishism was initially associated with some accidental events, but after repeated several times, it became a pathological conditioned reflex. Sometimes a deep impression will also cause a fixed psychological shadow, mostly in adolescence.
For example, a young man is on a bus, and there are many people. His face is next to a girl with long hair. Her hair touches his face. The smell of her hair passed through his nostrils and entered his heart and lungs, which made him unable to help but have a violent impulse. As everyone knows, this accidental meeting aroused his sexual desire, and later this man became a lifelong addict.
The second is the psychological problems in adolescence. Many patients' fetishism is related to the social and cultural environment and sexual experience of adolescence. In junior high school, there is little contact between men and women, especially in junior high school, boys and girls seldom talk, which makes some teenagers turn their sexual impulses to some symbols of the opposite sex.
Third, abnormal sexual psychological development, fetishists generally have the characteristics of abnormal sexual psychological development, some are introverted, often play unsuccessful male roles in sexual relations, resulting in strong anxiety, and then through psychological defense mechanism, the sexual impulse target is transferred to female products.
Lack of sexual knowledge, curiosity and some problems in consciousness are also the reasons for fetishism. Mild fetishism in adolescence generally disappears or lessens after marriage. However, serious fetishists need special treatment to correct them. Psychotherapy is mainly used to treat fetishism. Overall, the treatment effect is good.
Psychotherapy of fetishism
Psychotherapy for fetishists can adopt the following specific therapies and carry out targeted treatment in steps:
We can induce patients to achieve the purpose of treatment through cognitive understanding therapy. Psychologists should analyze the origin and formation process of fetishism, as well as the nature and harm of fetishism according to the degree of patients' illness, so that patients can have a correct understanding of their own diseases, thus improving their determination and confidence in treatment and achieving the purpose of treatment. This therapy is divided into three steps.
First, we should raise awareness, even if patients realize that it is ridiculous to vent their sexual desire in the form of female products, which is a retrogressive behavior in the process of growing up. As a result, they belittled themselves and embarked on the road of self-destruction. People with brains shouldn't do this.
The second is to analyze the harm, that is, to analyze the harm of fetishism to oneself, others and society on the basis of patients' understanding. If the psychologist can show the women's articles stolen by the patient, he will seriously say to the patient, "Because people's health level is different, things used by others are likely to be infected with germs, and if they are stolen, they will also infect themselves, making the patient aware of the terrible consequences of their actions.
The third is to carry out sexual knowledge education, that is, to teach patients healthy sexual knowledge and encourage them to establish healthy sexual concepts, so as to finally make patients understand that it is normal for people to ask for sex at a certain age, but their satisfaction should conform to the behavioral characteristics and social norms of adults.
When I was 2 1 year old, I often meditated on women's nakedness and always looked for opportunities. It happened that one summer evening, he passed by the ladies' room and saw a beautiful young woman enter the toilet. He felt nervous and excited at once, so he grabbed the window and peeped in.
I feel very happy after achieving my goal. After that, I had the psychology of seeing more women's lower parts before I enjoyed myself, so I made full use of various opportunities to peep.
One night, he peeked at the girl taking a bath through the window outside the bathhouse, was caught red-handed and sent to the public security department for detention for half a month. In recent years, he has been arrested, beaten, severely criticized and punished many times, and his family has advised him many times, but he just can't change.
In this regard, he himself feels pain, frustration and contradiction. In desperation, I had to come to the psychological clinic for treatment.
Psychoanalysis of voyeurism
From the psychological point of view, voyeurism, also known as voyeurism, refers to a sexual perversion phenomenon that obtains sexual pleasure by peeping at the naked body, genitals or sexual intercourse of others of the opposite sex.
Most voyeurs are adult males, and their main psychopathic behaviors have several characteristics:
One is concealment, which means that the patient's voyeurism is very secretive, and he often uses special places and special means to peep at the genitals of the opposite sex, which is not easy to be found. For example, secretly dig a small hole in the wall, look through the crack of the door, use the reflection of the mirror, and even dress up as a woman to sneak into the women's bathroom or toilet.
Second, it is adventurous. Relevant statistics show that 95% voyeurism is aimed at strangers of the opposite sex, and the motivation of voyeurism is mainly to pursue adventure and excitement. Therefore, voyeurism patients have no interest in the nudity of their sexual partners, and have no obvious interest in the public and public exposure of the opposite sex; But as long as it is an adventurous and exciting situation, even if the opposite sex is not naked, it can cause sexual excitement and satisfaction. On the other hand, if the environment is safe, the same behavior will lose its sexual significance.
Third, masturbation, patients are often accompanied by masturbation when peeking, in order to obtain sexual pleasure; Others masturbate alone when recalling the voyeuristic scene, causing sexual excitement and satisfaction.
The fourth is periodicity, that is to say, once voyeurism is formed, patients will try their best to find various opportunities to peep, and even risk being discovered, discredited and destroyed.
Most patients are introverted, shy and shy, and rarely associate with society. They lack the ability to communicate with women, often single, or their marriage fails and they lack normal sex life.
The reason for voyeurism
The reasons of voyeurism mostly come from the bad influence of childhood, and the patients are mostly the result of bad visual temptation or bad experience in childhood, which hinders the development of sexual psychology. A typical case is that the patient saw his mother's nakedness or peeped at his parents' sexual intercourse in childhood, which had some adverse physical and mental reactions.
Another reason is the bad influence of pornographic culture. After watching pornographic books or videos, some young people will have a strong interest in the opposite sex because of their inherent sexual buds and impulses, and then get sexual satisfaction after watching them. When sex is mature, you can experience sexual pleasure by peeping at the naked or sexual behavior of the opposite sex.
Another reason is the bad influence of sexual repression, that is to say, mental retardation or other reasons will lead to voyeurism. For example, because of mental retardation, lack of sexual knowledge, low sexual self-confidence, fear of sexual behavior, and certain sexual dysfunction, it is easy to promote the motivation to spy on the opposite sex nudity or other human behaviors.
Psychologists should establish a good doctor-patient relationship when treating patients and give them spiritual understanding and support. Psychologists tell patients that voyeurism is a psychological problem and can be cured. Don't worry, this can stabilize the patient's mood, and then help the patient to establish confidence in the treatment of voyeurism and mobilize the enthusiasm of treatment, which is of great assistance to the treatment.
Psychotherapy of voyeurism
For voyeurism, a variety of treatment methods are usually used comprehensively, mainly psychotherapy.
First of all, we should establish a good doctor-patient relationship with patients through psychological support therapy and give them spiritual understanding and support. And tell the patient that the disease is only a psychological problem, and it will get better soon, so that the patient can stabilize his mood and then mobilize the enthusiasm of treatment.
One is free association therapy, which guides patients to freely associate childhood scenes, past experiences, personal trauma and dreams related to voyeurism, so that patients can freely express their thoughts, events and concepts in their minds without choice. The purpose of free association therapy is to find out the root of voyeurism, explore the depressed pathogenic plots or conflicts in patients' subconscious, bring them to the field of consciousness, let patients understand, and re-establish realistic and healthy sexual psychology on this basis.
Second, cognitive comprehension therapy. After finding the root of voyeurism, psychologists can help patients with cognitive analysis according to the cause, so that patients can understand and achieve the purpose of treatment. For example, explain the sexual psychological performance of normal people at different ages to patients, and point out the naivety and pathological nature of their voyeurism and behavior; Patients are required to think carefully about the characteristics and social norms of adult sexual activities, and then think about the consequences of an adult voyeurism, and write a written experience, so that patients can truly realize the abnormality of this behavior and its incompatibility with social morality.
Third, through aversion therapy, guide patients to imagine being caught peeping, especially let patients think carefully about the serious consequences, so that patients have extreme fear of peeping and its consequences, and then inhibit abnormal sexual impulses; On the spot, bear the blame of others and their own inner embarrassment, and point out the consequences of not changing. And give vicious stimulation such as electric shock, which makes them disgusted with voyeurism.
Fourthly, sex therapy can control or correct the voyeurism of patients by improving the relationship between husband and wife; For unmarried male patients, it is very good to control their voyeurism through normal love, marriage and harmonious sexual relations. Many patients can be transformed into potential voyeurs or after such comprehensive treatment, voyeurism will be gradually eliminated, voyeurism impulse will be gradually reduced, behavior will be corrected, emotions will gradually return to normal, life beliefs and self-control ability will be strengthened, so that they can live and work with peace of mind.
There is a male doctor studying medicine. After graduation, I worked as a physician in a hospital, and my career can be said to be in full swing. However, he is the oldest, but he has never seen his girlfriend. There are also many talented and attractive girls among his colleagues, who always seem indifferent and uninterested. In his mind, he only has a crush on those handsome guys.
He himself couldn't tell when he began to have this same-sex mentality. He only remembers that he was particularly interested in handsome men when he was in high school, and he was even more troubled by such emotions after he went to college. To this end, he tried to control himself and communicate with others like a normal man. Therefore, he has a particularly good relationship with his classmates. He is as good as a brother with a male classmate and has the same feelings that women love men.
Who knows, in the last year of college, the department asked him to live in the international student building to help international students study. In this way, he lives in a room alone, and that male classmate often comes to see him. One night; The boy was in his room, and finally he complained bitterly about his feelings for the boy; Perhaps out of sympathy for his friend, the boy hugged him and he kissed him ... it has been many times since this time.
Later, he went to graduate school and became a doctor, and the boy went to work in a company, so they separated. After that, he always tried his best to change himself, but it was always in vain. Even if he saw a beautiful girl, there was not a ripple in his heart. But when he saw some handsome men, he couldn't help looking at them more. He clearly knows that he is abnormal and gay, but he can't get rid of it. Therefore, his heart is very painful.
Psychoanalysis of homosexuality
Homosexuality refers to sexual desire and behavior of the same sex, that is, love or sexual relationship between men and women. According to statistics, gay men account for about 3% and women 1%. The behavior of gay and lesbian patients is different: the relationship between gay men is not fixed, they often change gay objects, and many people even engage in homosexual activities collectively except two people; The sexual activities of gay men are often centered on satisfying sexual desire.
Lesbians are single-minded and have a fixed and lasting relationship; The two can exchange active and passive roles, and some often take the initiative, behave masculine and even wear men's clothes.
Some homosexual patients only have sex with the same sex in thought and behavior, but not with the opposite sex; Others are in an ambiguous state, that is, they have sex with both the same sex and the opposite sex, but they are biased towards men and have a weak tendency to have sex with the opposite sex, so that it is often difficult to establish or maintain normal family relations.
The cause of homosexuality
There is no conclusion on the real reason of homosexuality in psychology. Generally speaking, psychologists believe that the causes of homosexuality may involve several factors.
One reason may be related to childhood role identity disorder, because many patients' homosexual tendencies are caused by childhood role identity disorder. If the little girl often gropes with the boy, she agrees with the boy's behavior and expects to be a real man. In addition, adults call her a "tomboy" and the boys around her regard her as a gay playmate, which further strengthens her male consciousness. Therefore, her identity and her gender role will be confused, and her lifestyle will be masculine step by step.
One reason is the limited gender development of the family. If the early family education methods are not good, the development of sexual psychology and heterosexual love will be limited. If some parents really want to have a boy or girl for a certain purpose, but fail to do so, as a result, children often wear clothes of the opposite sex and dress up as the opposite sex from an early age, which affects the normal development of their sexual psychology; These will show some vague and unconscious signs of homosexuality. When the sexual physiology of adolescence changes, the situation will deteriorate rapidly. They begin to have a good impression on the same sex, but they have no interest in the opposite sex, or even dislike it, and then develop into homosexuality.
On both sides of homosexuality. Only one person may be truly gay, and the other person may participate in homosexual activities just for fun. It may also be out of sympathy. It could also be threats and coercion. Men and women who dislike the organs of the opposite sex are usually the most prone to homosexual tendencies. So psychotherapy is mainly used for real gay patients. Any single therapy is not ideal for the treatment of homosexuality, and comprehensive therapy must be adopted. In order to make it recover.
Psychotherapy of homosexuality
Psychologists believe that the treatment of homosexual patients is mainly psychotherapy, because any single therapy is not ideal for the treatment of homosexuality, and comprehensive therapy can be effective. There are probably four common treatments, namely cognitive understanding therapy, desensitization therapy, aversion therapy and marriage therapy.
Let's talk about this cognitive comprehension therapy, also referred to as comprehension therapy, also called China psychoanalysis. Psychologists first use cognitive understanding therapy to help patients find the early causes of sexual psychopathy, so that patients can recall their childhood family relationships, gender role experiences, the most influential events, the most influential people and so on. Then analyze the influence of these events and characters on patients' psychology and behavior, because many patients' homosexual identity is caused by abnormal experiences in their early years to varying degrees.
After helping patients find out the cause and have a correct understanding, psychologists will adopt other therapies to gradually destroy the abnormal dynamic stereotypes they have formed and establish normal sexual psychology and behavior patterns.
Let's talk about desensitization therapy. This therapy is a behavioral adjustment method that mainly understands the patients' aversion and anxiety to the opposite sex and the key issues of normal sexual behavior through psychological consultation, and then uses the principle of conditioned reflex to gradually weaken the patients' allergic adverse reactions to the opposite sex on the basis of relaxation until they are eliminated.
This desensitization therapy is divided into three steps:
The first step is to build confidence in the treatment. Explain to the client the basic principle and specific steps of desensitization, so that patients can understand that their fear of the opposite sex is habitual and can be eliminated through learning.
The second step is to rank the degree of fear. Psychologists and patients list a series of events related to the fear or anxiety of the opposite sex together, and then arrange or rank these events from the weakest to the strongest. The weakest event refers to the event farthest from the fear or anxiety situation in time and space, while the strongest event is the opposite, sometimes the fear or anxiety situation itself, which can generally be listed as 15~20.
The third step is to implement desensitization training. Psychologists first help patients with mental relaxation, that is, imagine physical relaxation training, and then ask patients to describe the weakest event in their heterosexual fear or anxiety level. If the patient still feels nervous or painful when recalling the event, the psychologist will help him relax or concentrate on imagining other pleasant experiences until the patient is no longer afraid or anxious and can consciously cope.
When the imaginary desensitization training is successful, psychologists should encourage patients to use their own desensitization methods in real life to overcome the usual allergic reactions of the opposite sex until they can communicate with the opposite sex freely.
Another therapy is aversion therapy. First prepare a few photos or pictures of the same sex that can arouse the sexual excitement of patients, and at the same time prepare a small bottle of ammonia water. When the patient picks up a photo or picture to enjoy and gradually becomes sexually excited, open the ammonia bottle stopper and put it under the patient's nose. The smell of ammonia makes the patient feel disgusted, and at the same time leads the patient to imagine that the smell is emitted from the picture in front of him until the patient reacts to the picture or photo.
If ammonia stimulation is not enough to make the patient have an aversion reaction, we can try to enhance the aversion stimulation, such as playing harsh sounds with a tape recorder or rubbing foam on the glass to make harsh sounds. When the patient has an aversion reaction to the same-sex photos or pictures in the harsh sound and the smell of ammonia gas, stop aversion to stimulation, such as playing a piece of the patient's favorite music or his favorite fragrance, and at the same time replace the same-sex pictures with the opposite-sex pictures to guide the patient to experience the wonderful situation carefully.
Such a strong contrast experience can encourage patients to gradually give up their love affair with the same sex and become interested in the opposite sex, and finally become normal heterosexuality.
The last therapy is marriage therapy, which is suitable for those patients who have obvious inner contradictions, are willing to change their homosexual status, take the initiative to see a doctor and actively cooperate with the treatment, especially those with high knowledge level. On the basis of the above treatment, marriage therapy can be supplemented, that is, patients can get married and have sex with the opposite sex, forming a pleasant opposite sex experience, thus eliminating homosexual tendencies.