Xiaomei and I are fellow villagers and both married in this city. I go to the hospital for a physical examination every year. She was the woman doctor when I had a gynecological examination. When she checked my identity information, she suddenly smiled and said, "So we are fellow villagers."
Since then, we have become good friends, often walking together, chatting, sharing the joys and sorrows of life, and I have also learned a lot about the ups and downs of being a doctor.
Last year, something happened Xiaomei almost did something bad with kindness, swearing that her neighbors would come to her for medicine, and she would never be soft-hearted and must resolutely refuse.
Here's the thing:
Xiaomei is a gynecologist. My mother-in-law is happy to marry such a capable daughter-in-law. She talked with her neighbors for three days: "My daughter-in-law is a doctor in a big hospital, and she is very powerful."
After giving her mother-in-law a big mouth, Xiaomei's status as a "doctor" is well known in the community. Whenever there is a need to see a doctor, female neighbors will come to Xiaomei for consultation.
If it involves the content of gynecology, Xiaomei will seriously answer them one by one and give professional advice, such as how to pay attention in life, or need to go to the hospital for further examination.
Once, Aunt Liu, Xiaomei's neighbor, came to see her and said that she had a cold, a runny nose, a cough and a cold. She asked Xiaomei to prescribe some medicine for her.
Xiaomei immediately said, "I'm a gynecologist and I don't know how to see a cold." You'd better hang a number in the hospital and see a specialist. "
Aunt Liu was a little unhappy. She said there were all kinds of patients in the hospital. She just had a slight cold, so she took some cold medicine and didn't want to go to the hospital to suffer.
Xiaomei's mother-in-law also said, "Xiaomei, just show it to Aunt Liu. I won't go if I can't go to the hospital. "
Unable to withstand their entreaties, Xiaomei took a thermometer to take aunt Liu's temperature, which was normal. She carefully observed aunt Liu's condition and analyzed that Liu Shen was a common cold caused by a cold.
Although Xiaomei is a gynecologist, she usually likes to study and has research in different fields. Symptoms like the common cold can still be seen. At first, she refused Aunt Liu because she didn't want to get into trouble.
Xiaomei said to Aunt Liu, "You have a cold, which is caused by a cold. Please keep warm these days and soak your feet with Jiang Shui twice a day. " .
Then she prescribed a simple over-the-counter medicine and asked Aunt Liu to go to the drugstore to buy medicine.
Xiaomei repeatedly stressed that if the symptoms have not improved after three days, she must go to the hospital to see a doctor.
Aunt Liu said thank you and left happily.
I thought it was over, and Xiaomei didn't take it to heart.
Once after work, Xiaomei saw Aunt Liu waiting for the elevator, so she greeted her with a smile and stepped up her pace to catch up. But I didn't expect Aunt Liu to see it without seeing it. As soon as she got into the elevator, she closed the elevator door and went straight up.
Xiaomei's smile stayed on her face, a little puzzling, and she didn't know where she had offended Aunt Liu.
After returning home, Xiaomei became more and more puzzled and told her mother-in-law about the reaction of meeting Aunt Liu in the elevator.
Mother-in-law sighed and said, Aunt Liu said that eating the cold medicine you prescribed was not only bad, but also worse. ...
Hearing this, Xiaomei's brain buzzed and thought, Oh, no, she really did something bad with kindness.
But on second thought, it's not right. I prescribe common cold medicine, which corresponds to Aunt Liu's cold symptoms. Even if you get better slowly, you will never get worse.
Xiaomei decided to get to the bottom of it and took her mother-in-law to Aunt Liu's house.
After aunt Liu knew the purpose of their coming, she impatiently put the medicine bought from the drugstore in front of Xiaomei. Xiaomei picked up the medicine and saw that it was not her own prescription at all.
Aunt Liu's cold is caused by a cold, and it is the feeling of a cold. Although the medicine she bought is also a cold medicine, it is a medicine for treating colds. Treating fever with medicine is definitely ineffective, or even worse.
It turned out that Aunt Liu took the prescription to a small pharmacy opened by an acquaintance, and there was no medicine on the prescription. An acquaintance introduced other cold medicines to Aunt Liu, saying that their functions are the same.
This incident hit Xiaomei hard, but she said it was just a common cold. If there is another serious illness, I will kindly help you, but no matter which link goes wrong, it may delay the illness and the consequences will be unimaginable.
Since then, Xiaomei has resolutely not treated her neighbors at home, nor prescribed medicines, even over-the-counter medicines.
I'm a doctor. My neighbors come to my house to prescribe medicine when they have a cold. How can they refuse?
In this case, you can give some advice to your neighbors within your professional scope, but you can still ask your neighbors to see a doctor and prescribe medicine. Just say that as a doctor, there are strict disciplinary requirements and you can't prescribe drugs without permission.
If you meet a patient who doesn't belong to your major, say that you have a major in medicine. I'm not familiar with this disease, and I don't know how to read books or prescribe medicine. In order not to delay the illness, it is better to go to a specialist for diagnosis as soon as possible.
I think I can refuse directly, for example, tell her that I can't prescribe drugs for others in private, and I will take the responsibility if something goes wrong, so you still go to the hospital for examination.
As a designer, I have the same troubles as you. Usually, many people come to me to design logo, posters and pictures for free. I was embarrassed to refuse because of human relations before, until too many people came to me for free, and people would think you deserved it. If you help 10 times, you will be a sinner if you don't help once. Let's talk about money directly. If I am embarrassed to talk about money, I will say that I am busy. I recommend my friend to do it for you, and then add my friend, and my friend will quote directly. Now irrelevant people ask me for help, so I will quote them directly. People say, oh, why is it so expensive? I said is it expensive? I usually charge my clients twice as much. I only reported a little hard work. You see, do it if you want, or forget it if you don't want. Business cannot be just. In this way, no one asked me for help for a long time. Even if my best friend asks me for help, she will give me a hard red envelope symbolically. On the contrary, she is an outsider with a thick skin. This is what I eat, so you don't respect my labor and my work, and I don't need to sell your face.
Move it. This has happened to doctors in my department. He is still young. Since the neighbors know that he is a doctor, he often knocks at the door in the middle of the night, which is unbearable. Finally, he moved and never revealed his career again. Save people at work and return to life after work. Doctors are on call at the hospital 24 hours a day. They are very nervous. How many people are most afraid of phone ringing in the middle of the night? So the best solution is to move.
It's too easy to refuse. You are not allowed to practice medicine outside the workplace now! If there is an accident, you should bear legal responsibility! If something goes wrong, be careful of being sued!
You can tell your neighbors that you can't bear the responsibility if there is something wrong with prescribing medicine. If you are sick, you should go to the hospital to do the necessary examination, so that your health can be assured and safe. If the neighbors are still looking for you, you can help open it if you can accept it. If you can't accept it, you can only offend your neighbors.
Neighbors ask you for a prescription. Do you still want the registration fee? Why don't you want to prescribe medicine? Is it because you didn't get a commission in the medicine you prescribed? A good neighbour is better than a brother in the next village. Don't you need your old neighbor in case of any emergency? No wonder they are all called Mr. rotten and widowed doctors.
To tell the truth, I can make suggestions, but I'd better go to the hospital to prescribe the right medicine. Although I am a doctor, not everyone in the engineering field knows it. How can I be responsible if something goes wrong? If something goes wrong, I can't bear the responsibility. The most important thing is that it is illegal for doctors to prescribe drugs privately. I won't give advice if I don't come in the future.
Many years ago, we had a clinic here where patients came during the day. The doctor said that it is recommended to go to the hospital for examination, which is a bit serious! The patient didn't go, so in the middle of the night, his family smashed the doctor's door and asked him to have a look. If the doctor doesn't go, tell him to go to the hospital at once! The patient's family found various excuses to say that they didn't have a car, but somehow they lost their liquid roof for a while and went to the hospital early tomorrow morning. All kinds of prayers are neighbors, and they can't go from the ruins. The doctor really can't infuse, and the patient is dead! The patient's family sued the doctor, and the doctor lost100000!
For the first time, it should not be said that the hospital has a rule that private doctors are not allowed to write prescriptions, which is responsible.
First of all, you must be a warm-hearted doctor. Neighbors who ask you for medicine must think they have high medical skills and, well, good personalities. If it's a frequent neighbor. They are very grateful. You can help. If you are impolite or unfamiliar, you can not open the door. Or, I'm not sure. After all, doctors are kind.