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Gavin Gao Dong Xuan's divorce is not a day or two, but after Gavin Gao's accident, Dong Xuan spared no effort to rush about for her and attended her husband's trial many times. People still think that this couple is very loving.
However, after all, the enemy can't compete with the real interests. Choosing divorce is also to save property and save yourself.
Today, we're going to talk about a marriage in which the man cheated and went to prison. What should this woman do?
This time, Dong Xuan gave everyone a reference standard, which is worth learning.
The first step, in this incident, when things just happened, Dong Xuan chose to stand on her husband's side and speak for him.
Second, when the evidence gradually surfaced, Dong Xuan began to play the role of never leaving, as can be seen from her many trips to the country where her husband had an accident.
The third step is the gradual return of Dong Xuan. Sometimes she will take part in some activities and get some attention. Sometimes she will take her daughter to the camera to increase the audience's goodwill.
The fourth step is to announce the divorce. The company they once formed changed its shareholding ratio. Many people speculate that the main reason for divorce is to protect Dong Xuan's own property.
This is the end of the event. Is there an unrealistic and indifferent marriage in the present marriage?
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Many people have love when they walk into the door of marriage, and so do stars.
During love, most couples can't get into marriage without love. After all, marriage is no joke. But after entering the marriage, I found that life is really not full of affection and moisture, and real life will force a person to change a lot.
Some people can't help complaining about their spouses when their marriage life is unsatisfactory, but marriage is really a matter for two people, and each party has great responsibilities.
There was once a friend, a senior, who was looking forward to and happy when she entered the marriage hall with her husband who had been in love for 5 years.
Sister Xue thinks she is the happiest woman in the world. My husband is tall and handsome, considerate and kind to himself, and his husband's family has good economic conditions.
But after living, I found my husband is a playboy, flirting with female colleagues after work and hooking up with other women.
Sister Xue was once very painful, thinking that it was all her own fault and could not win back her husband's heart.
Later, once her husband capsized in the gutter, it turned out that she was having an affair with a married woman, and when she learned about it, she was beaten up by her husband, demanding damages for her reputation, or she would go to her husband's unit in Xue Jie to make trouble.
At that time, Xue Jie and her husband just bought a house, and there was no money at home. Xue Jie found someone to borrow money and solved the problem.
Sister Xue was really bent on running the family well at that time, hoping that her husband would wake up from this lesson and stop philandering in the future.
But who knows, after her husband passed this incident, she felt that Xue Jie could not live without him. A wife didn't make any noise after her husband cheated, and even came forward to solve her husband's mess. How much can this woman live without a husband?
So Xue Jie's husband is even more powerful.
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Later, after being hit again and again, Xue Jie completely despaired of her husband.
Xue Jie began to quietly sort out the family's finances and took out an iou, all of which were evidence of paying for her husband's derailment.
The husband also knew that he was really indefensible in this marriage, so he also seriously discussed with Sister Xue what to do.
Sister Xue said that after so many years, there is nothing at home except this house that is still being loaned, so let's sell the house.
My husband didn't agree, and my senior sister said that you should borrow money and replace the money you owed before.
Later, the husband agreed to sell the house, and after removing the loans and debts, all the remaining money was taken away and filed for divorce.
Senior finally sued the plaintiff for divorce, and the husband was the wrong party. The court ruled that the property belongs to the woman, the custody of the child also belongs to the woman, and the man has to pay child support.
After winning the case, Sister Xue immediately took the balance of selling the house and made a down payment on a small bungalow, with a monthly payment of 1000 yuan, which was quite easy.
At this point, Sister Xue's ex-husband could not accept the reality at all. He thinks Sister Can Xue can't live without him. This is a joke. You can coax her like you used to.
Who knows that Xue Jie didn't give him a chance at all, and went directly to a lawyer to take the legal route. The ex-husband was caught off guard.
I thought the woman who couldn't live without herself left in a blink of an eye, not only leaving, but also taking all her wealth, even her children. Which man is willing to accept this reality? !
But for Sister Xue, this is the only way. She said, "I gave him another chance, but did he repent?" How can there be eternal love and selfless people in this world? For him, I paid the bill with money again and again, and stepped on my pride and self-esteem again and again, in exchange for repentance. Even if you don't think about yourself, you have to think about your children. My future cannot be ruined by this person. "
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The love that once existed and the love that once died have been destroyed, leaving only "reason" and "sobriety".
After the death of love, at least there should be something around you, instead of losing everything in a failed relationship.
Yi Shu said, "I want to have a lot of love and a lot of money. If there is no love, it would be nice to have a lot of money. "
Many men blame women for being materialistic and heartless, but have they ever thought about the harm they have done to women? ! Which woman is heartless from the beginning? How many women are eager to work with a man when they first fall in love? It becomes realistic and material after injury.
After Xue Jie divorced her husband, Xue Jie's husband kept telling people that Xue Jie was heartless and ridiculous, but Xue Jie didn't care. She said as long as she lived her own life and stayed away from this love rat.
Just like Gavin Gao and Dong Xuan divorced, they parted ways from once a model couple to now. Whether Dong Xuan can't continue to "pretend to sleep" in this relationship or to protect personal property from being implicated, it is reasonable. After all, don't forget that it was Gavin Gao who made the mistake first, and Dong Xuan also showed forbearance.
Both men and women should do their duty in marriage and not do whatever they want, otherwise they will eventually be bitten by themselves.