Situation 2: Self-abased, lazy to change, conservative and lazy, but also try to pretend to avoid being looked down upon.
Either way, it is a healthy personality, and it is not a sign of progress. In love, you may attract the naive opposite sex, but once the other person is mature and rational, he will definitely see through you and leave you. After all, it is not life that determines what we do, but what we decide what kind of life we want to live.