Gentle, independent and strong, modern women are given more and more expectations and higher requirements in the workplace and family.
But if I choose one of these qualities, I will not hesitate to choose rationality.
The more you grow up, the more you understand that the clarity and clarity brought by reason can be achieved. Those reasonable judgments based on rationality will often make things develop in a better direction, and those who follow rational thinking will stop at the right time and make life less painful and suffering.
Rationality is the scarcest quality of women.
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A woman with rational thinking ability can always grasp her emotions perfectly, and she can be rock-solid in the face of emergencies, with a tiger in her heart and a delicate fragrance of roses on her body.
In the book "Muslim Funeral", facing the sudden death of her father, 15-year-old eldest daughter Bill showed maturity and reason beyond her age.
She used reason to control her emotions, appease her broken mother and sister, arrange her father's funeral, and find a way out for the development of Qizhenzhai.
This kind of jade is admirable and impressive.
I used to like that kind of gentle and lovely little girl, but with the gradual growth of age and the continuous improvement of experience, I suddenly found that my favorite type has changed.
To be exact, I don't like it, but appreciate it.
They have the same quality: rationality.
Because of rationality, they can support themselves to become stronger with their inner emotional twists and turns as the backing. Those waves not only didn't crush them, but made their brilliant and unique lives.
Do they have no feelings? Yes, and their feelings are no less than others.
But they have feminine charm and gentleness, and at the same time they have a rational restraint and calmness.
Coleau said: Great brains are hermaphroditic. This sentence is perfect for women with rational thinking ability.
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At present, many women have poor psychological endurance, and it is easy to overreact when they encounter events beyond their psychological expectations.
Take idolization, a woman as an example, we can see the terrible appearance of people after losing their minds.
There are countless such examples, which are sad and regrettable, but ridiculous and even pitiful.
Greek writer euripides said: When emotion suppresses reason, this is the root of evil in the world.
Most rational women think with their brains, not with their eyes. They will screen what they see and hear, and think with wisdom, instead of misappropriating emotions to vent.
Many times, some "keyboard men" are also full of blood to tell the so-called "justice", thinking that they are defending the brightest and most correct side, but I don't know that many times when the facts gradually surface, often those "keyboard men" who are screaming will be slapped.
Then they will suddenly realize that what they lacked at the beginning was rational thinking and the ability to judge things reasonably.
If a person lets emotions control his own reason and lacks the ability of rational thinking and reasonable judgment, then it is a person's sorrow and the sorrow of this society.
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And what are those women who have rational thinking ability?
In the face of complicated life, those women with rational thinking will treat all kinds of trivial things in life with a healthy and sober mind, and will not be arrogant and unhurried, and settle themselves and their families.
Aring Zhang, the founder of Dr. Chunyu, died of angina pectoris caused by overwork, which shocked people in the industry and the media. At the same time, I feel deeply sorry for him-he is young and promising, and his future will be infinitely bright.
However, Aring Zhang's wife surprised many people. She showed great restraint and calmness. She should arrange her husband's affairs, care about his unfinished business, and stabilize the panic of employees.
Her heart was bleeding, but her performance made everything seem less flustered. She knows that she can't change the facts, but she can do what she has to do.
This is the maturity and calmness of a woman with rational thinking.
Similarly, at work, rational women will not be bound by work, let alone make their work messy.
They prioritize, do things in an orderly way, and arrange their work properly. proper limit is very good.
At this time, others will not despise her because she is a woman, but treat her as a real colleague and send her admiration and respect.
Andy in Ode to Joy, who is calm and restrained at work, is a role model for many women. What I like best is her morning run every morning, the books she keeps at home, the computer she keeps on her desk, and her quiet and down-to-earth working attitude.
Rational women are mostly self-disciplined, have good self-management and emotional control ability, and then stride forward.
Do you think rational women live very tired and hard? But the fact is different: rational women will face less emotional setbacks and work difficulties than emotional women, and their lives will be smoother.
They clearly know what they need and don't need to care about anything. They spend their time on the cutting edge and never stop thinking about life and improving themselves.
No one's life is smooth sailing, but those rational women are indeed less turbulent than the average person's life.
Rationality is the quality that women want most.
Thank you for coming. I am Yuehua, a stubborn girl in Taurus in 1992, and I have never stopped growing. Her words are inspirational and warm, growing and healing, and she is eager to go to the future with you.
Let the present be practical and the future shine. Let's go together, come on!