For women, physical and mental health also includes anxiety about body shape and appearance. Frankly speaking, there is really no need to abide by aesthetic standards. Physical and mental health is most important. There is also the mentality level. Because women are generally emotional, their mentality is very prone to ups and downs. In the long run, the body will have problems, and it is also good to vent moderately. Then there is self-discipline, and the phrase "self-discipline can do whatever you want" is really not empty. Look at these relatively highly successful people, they all have the greatest degree of arbitrariness. Therefore, they not only rationally deal with big and small things in life and work, but also succeed. There is a saying in western countries: "The cup should be filled with love for yourself first, and the overflowing part should be used to love others." Women have many identities. If you want to take care of the people around you, you must be healthy first, and then you can take care of others with all your heart. We are usually very busy at work, and the work pressure in our lives is also great. In any case, we should pay attention to health, care about our health, and then consider other things.
2. Money is self-confidence. In order to learn how to save money, most of us now spend as much as we earn. With the attitude of "drink today, get drunk today", don't look for money until you need it urgently, you can only borrow it. Women, whether they are full-time wives or superhuman mothers who have to take care of their families and work, know more about the importance of money. In fact, they understand that money represents confidence in the world. With money in hand, there is no hurry, and there is no need to please others and look at their faces.
I have seen the TV series "North South", in which the story played by Wang impressed me deeply. He is from the mainland. After he was admitted to the Finance Department of Beijing University of Economics and Business, he was attracted by the melancholy temperament of a literary youth and fell in love. Finally, when they were in their junior year, they had the crystallization of love, so You Shan could only choose to start a business. Unexpectedly, after marriage, she was severely hit by her husband, children and mother-in-law, and her fantasy of love was completely shattered.
My husband is a treasure mother, and he has no financial resources, but he needs money to reach out and contact his mother. A baby diaper and a bottle of baby milk powder all depend on his special face. But in the eyes of her mother-in-law, You Shanshan took a fancy to her son's local hukou. Therefore, after marriage, her mother-in-law has always looked down on You Shanshan and pointed at many of her personal behaviors. The two men quarreled, and neither would let anyone. You Shanshan had no choice. She endured it for two years for the baby.
Finally, my mother-in-law couldn't help it and asked for a divorce. In order to deal with a completely unreliable husband and a tough mother-in-law, You Shanshan filed for divorce. After the divorce, you Shanshan was heartbroken, but with her overall strength, she started a business and made a lot of money. Never look at anyone's face again. Margaret Thatcher once said, "Money is not an end, but a means to success". Women's greater self-confidence is to be better themselves, make a living and make love. In this way, you should not be afraid of losing. In any case, you have the ability to make two catch up with three. Therefore, some women always say that marriage is insecure and it is good to be single, so that money can give you a sense of security, self-confidence and life security, and you will have the right to choose.