Hello! I'm Brother Zhong, a farmer.
What do you think is the most terrible thing? Personally, I think the most terrible thing is myself, because the biggest enemy in life is myself. Only by overcoming your own mentality can you be afraid of nothing.
For example, we often encounter terrible things in our lives, some are dark, some are afraid of injections, some are afraid of failure, some are afraid of illness, and some are afraid of having no money. Life has different personalities, so there are different shadows to be feared. Only by overcoming all the terrible things in my heart, overcoming all the terrible things in my heart, all the terrible things are no longer terrible.
Like this time in COVID-19, no one was afraid of infection, but my medical staff turned the terrible infection into motivation and responsibility, turned the terrible infection into not terrible, walked in the front line of fighting the epidemic, overcame many difficulties and turned the terrible infection into dawn. Only by overcoming the terrible infection can it be no longer terrible.
Life is not dead, and death is not terrible. In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of. If there is anything more terrible, it is terrible, and I regret it.
Thank you very much for your recommendation! I think the most terrible thing is to be a man and forget your original heart. First, what is the initial heart? The initial heart is the beginning of sincerity and kindness in life, or his initial life goal and value orientation. In the mid-1960s, I was born in a remote mountain village in Neijiang City, Sichuan Province. My parents are farmers and there are five brothers and sisters in my family. At that time, the rural conditions were very poor, and the problems of food and clothing in my family and children's schooling were big problems. I have a deep understanding of the hardships and pains my parents have paid for it! So from being sensible, I vowed to "jump out of the farm and repay my parents." This is my initial heart! Second, what is not to forget your initiative? For decades, I have been very grateful to my parents for their hard work and pay. The first is "jumping out of farmers". In order to realize this initial intention, I worked hard at school. Although the school environment is poor and the teachers are different, I got excellent grades from primary school to high school, and finally I was admitted to the university and jumped out of the agricultural school. I was the first college student in our village (then called the brigade), winning honor for my parents. At that time, I applied for a military school. The cadets in the military academy are well paid. All food and clothing are free, and there is a monthly allowance. My parents also enjoyed military treatment. Therefore, during my five years in college, I not only didn't spend my parents a penny, but also saved my family allowances, meals and other subsidies. After graduating from college, I was assigned to a unit along the coast of Fujian. It is not easy to "repay my parents" because I am thousands of miles away from home. In order to have more opportunities to repay my parents, I settled in Sichuan. Although I have been separated from my lover for more than ten years, I am really satisfied, because I have more than one month's family leave every year, and I have at least the opportunity to visit my parents and accompany them every year. In order to repay my parents earlier and better, I was uneasy in the army and always wanted to change jobs and return to my hometown as soon as possible. I still worked in the army for thirteen years, and it was not until 2000 that I switched jobs and returned to the institutions in Neijiang City. Another 20 years passed. I am very happy, although the unit benefit is not good, and the workplace is not good. Because I am only 30 kilometers away from home now, I can go back to my hometown to see my parents at least every month. My parents are now over 80 years old and in good health. Every time I bring my wife and children home, my family is very happy. I'm really happy! Because this is the life I want. My parents have always been hardworking and thrifty, especially my old father, who still works underground. I have never been reluctant to spend the money I gave him, and now I still have hundreds of thousands of savings, saying that I want to reduce the burden on our children. Whenever the crops he grows are harvested, he is always as happy as a child. Children have to repay their parents, and parents always think of their children. Perhaps this is the best mode for two generations to get along! Third, what is the most terrible thing about violating the initial heart? In real life, many people go against their original intentions, some fail to cherish their immediate life after jumping out of the farm, some corrupt and ruin their future, some forget their parents' upbringing, some are unfilial and even insult their parents, and some are selfish and arrogant and don't know their last name ... These people forget their original intentions and fail to keep the bottom line of life, and the final result is terrible! The terrible thing is that the initial heart is not there, and the pain is accompanied. This is not the life you want! Therefore, one's life must not forget one's original intention, one's original intention. So a person must stick to his obsession and work hard all his life.
The picture shows the old father happy when collecting beans.
The picture shows the first family meeting after the epidemic.
The picture shows the lover and daughter peeling beans with the old mother.
The picture shows the old father cooking with his big brother.
The most terrible thing is to impose your own ideas on others.
Once I was walking down the street with my friends, I saw a beautiful girl wearing cool clothes and a beautiful tattoo on her collarbone. My friend suddenly said, this girl looks like a gangster. I have heard many people say such things. Those who have tattoos, smoke and drink are "bad boys". Sometimes people comment on those people as if others had done something heinous.
When I was young, my mother told me not to play with naughty children who often got poor grades, because they would lead me astray. When I grow up, my mother often divides people into "excellent people" and "inferior people" according to the standards of economy, education and occupation.
When I was chatting with my cousin, I said that life was too hard, and I would never get married and have children, because the responsibilities of marriage, family and parenthood were too great, and I was not ready for all this. Now I seem to live in an abyss. If I live in a swamp, don't drag others into it. My cousin accused me angrily. She called me selfish. She said that everyone should be filial to their parents, and the best way to be filial is to get married and have children.
I don't agree with their ideas, but I think everyone is an independent individual, and society is interesting because of their differences, but I'm afraid they want to impose their ideas on me.
In fact, people who tattoo, smoke and drink are not necessarily bad children. I have seen many tattooed "social gangsters" helping others. They are lovely and kind, and I have seen many "upper class" bullying people who are weaker than themselves. I remember when I was in junior high school, I accidentally knocked down the bike next to me when I stopped my bike. Domino effect caused a row of bicycles to fall down. It was a senior who was often criticized by the school to help me hold the fourth bike, which didn't happen. The headmaster with him said, "What are you doing with your hands? How interesting it is to fall. " . How interesting! Their grades determine most people's impression of them.
Getting married and having children is everyone's freedom. Even if you choose not to get married and have children, it won't infringe anyone's interests, right? In this society, if you are unmarried and childless, or like the same sex, it seems to some people that you have done something outrageous. People are free, aren't they? As long as you don't hurt others, just choose.
Imposing one's own ideas on others is the most terrible thing in my opinion.
Some people are afraid of bugs, and when they see them, they turn pale and tremble all over. Some people are afraid of thunder. As soon as they heard the thunder, they were afraid to drill directly into the cracks in the cupboard. Some people are afraid of well ropes ... the most terrible thing is ghosts, some people are confused, and some people find it difficult to identify them in the dark. In a word, ghost is the most terrible thing, it makes you lose your mind, even makes you lose your mind. Some people do nasty things because they are afraid of exposure. Some people owe money to others and are afraid that others will ask for debts. Some people are afraid of losing their jobs, being lovelorn, …, being bullied, … different people have different anxieties, so it's hard to say what is the most terrible. Ask me what I am most afraid of, lest my friends betray me and get into trouble. Be careful when making friends!
Since ancient times, the human heart is the most terrible. As the saying goes, no matter how perfect and kind they seem on the surface, no one knows what they really think. Especially in the workplace, if you talk to him, you can tell him everything. Turn around and there are many smiling tigers. As the old saying goes, everyone loves him. Of course, when we do things, we should also treat others with a sincere heart and finally gain the trust and support of others! ! ! (Image taken from the Internet)
Glad to answer this question! I am Xiaohua! I think the most terrible thing is not the end of the incident, nor is it a big earthquake. The most terrible thing is that life is worse than death, but there is nothing you can do.
1. This country is in trouble. In the event of a catastrophe, the country faces economic backwardness, economic recession without food rations, and so on. It is afraid of being bullied by other powerful countries, occupying its own country, and finally becoming the slaves of others, which makes the family ruined and the country restless, just like when Mao Zedong's leaders fought, just like the scene of the Nanjing Massacre.
I am most afraid of getting sick. I am afraid that after I get married, I will have children and suddenly get sick, especially for us ordinary people and poor households. It can be said that it has dragged down a family and dragged down children. If there is any misfortune, how pitiful it is to leave children in this world.
I am most afraid of not having food. As the saying goes, food is the most important thing for people. If there is a sudden drought, farmers will lose their food income, and the national food will not be enough. Like my grandmother's generation, many people will starve to death.
So, 1. I hope the country is prosperous ... 2. I hope health is capital. 3. I hope China will promote planting more. Food is our fundamental problem. Without food, money may starve to death.
These are the three things I personally think I am most afraid of.
I think the most terrible thing is that I have no money. 1. I have no money, and I can't see if I am sick.
No money, no business opportunities.
3. no money. I want to get dressed and eat delicious food, but I can't afford it.
Without money, you can't travel and see the world.
In short, there is nothing without money. Don't get sick or go bankrupt.
Confusion and depression. Seeing this problem, two words come to mind. Without personal experience, they may not be able to make themselves clear, and sympathy cannot be shared. So why say these two words? Mainly because depression has pushed me into the abyss of two words. I'm afraid to do anything slightly difficult. I'm afraid I can't do it well. I'm afraid I'll make mistakes again. I am afraid that I will doubt myself inexplicably and think of depression again. Playing games is afraid of losing, learning to solve problems is afraid of not learning, and afraid of not solving them. I'm afraid of everything that may fail. I can't resist the fear and helplessness brought by failure. It will confuse me. Even now, I can't think about my memory normally. I just want to live quietly and happily, but it has become an extravagant hope. I have no plans for the future and I am not responsible for the past. In fact, besides depression, there are many things that affect me and deepen my depression, but I won't talk about it here. This is not a conversation. I talked about it in many places, including seeing a psychiatrist. Nothing can really help me. I'm just expressing my opinion that the world is beautiful, provided that I live happily.
The most terrible thing is that the wrong is right, the false is true, the inhuman behavior is noble, and the dark abyss is portrayed as a bright future!