Now I understand that people are unhappy only because they can't get what they want and don't cherish what they get, so they feel tired.
In fact, people are happy to live. Don't let trivial things bother you, who is unique in this world.
In this life, except for these three "lovers", nothing else is worth it.
First love "health"
What is the most important thing in this life? Some people say marriage and career, others say family and children.
In fact, health is the most important thing, so the first lover's name is "health". Because health is 1, money, love, marriage and family are all behind 0.
However, many people do not attach importance to health, thinking that while they are young, they often ignore that health is the foundation of everything. I feel that I am far away from birth, illness and death. I don't know how important health is until I get sick.
When there is no health, what is to realize your dream and what is to promise your lover.
So when doing things, just try your best, don't be too hard on yourself, be nice to yourself; Cry when you are sad, don't think too much and indulge in it.
Remember: health is the foundation of everything. A table full of delicious food, you have to have a good mouth, even if you have money, you have to have a life.
The second lover is "happy"
Wealth in this life is not as good as health, and longevity is not as good as happiness. Life is alive and people come and go. Some people are gloomy every day, while others are happy every day.
Today I am unhappy because of my poor work, and tomorrow I am unhappy because of a neighbor's words. Reflect on whether you have done something right, whether others don't like you, and it's hard to feel happy when you are immersed in sad emotions every day.
In fact, many things are caused by thinking too much. As long as people are alive, it will not be smooth sailing. There will always be people who like you for no reason, and there will always be people who hate you for no reason. Don't think too much, torture yourself, life is precious, and time should be reserved for more important people and things.
It's best to think clearly about many things, forget it, as long as you have a clear conscience, there will be no regrets.
A lot of things, as long as you try your best, no matter how big the thing is, it is not a problem to get through it.
Life is like a dream, crying and laughing every day. Why do you want to live wrinkled, happy and happy?
The third lover "happiness"
When you have "health" and "happiness", people begin to pursue the third lover "happiness".
The third lover is hard to get, and many people can't be happy all their lives. Lev tolstoy said: Happy families are all similar; Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
Yes, many people think that happiness means a happy family, filial piety to parents, smooth work and loving husband and wife, but there is no uniform standard for happiness.
The poor say money is happiness, the rich say leisure is happiness, the sick say health is happiness, the beggar says food is happiness, and the family unfortunately says home is happiness.
In fact, happiness is satisfaction. When you get what you want, it is happiness.
Many times we always look up to and envy the happiness of others. In fact, others also envy your happiness. Knowing how to be content and cherish everything you have is the real happiness.
Only by grasping health and enjoying happiness can we have happiness. People with a good attitude will be good all their lives.