case analysis

After lunch, most children are quietly playing after-dinner games. At this time, I heard a few little girls quarreling and walked over. The arguments are Xin Wei, Han Han and Lan Lan. The teacher asked, "What's the matter?" Han Han: "Xin Wei secretly didn't ask Lan Lan to be my friend, but the teacher said that we are all good friends and I didn't do anything wrong." I said, "Now that you have grown up, you have the idea of making friends by yourself. The teacher also wants to be good friends with you. How do you think you can solve it yourself? " This is Xin Wei crying, and light light blue cried when she saw it.

In the afternoon, when the children were having lunch, Xin Wei clashed with another child. The teacher saw it, but there was no intervention in the past, leaving the children to deal with things by themselves. When I left the garden, I quietly told my mother about Xin Wei's performance in the garden that day and asked her to go home and pay attention to Xin Wei's mood. In the evening, Xin Wei's mother called me quietly when she got home, saying that Xin Wei came home and cried with her father that the children in kindergarten didn't make friends with her, and she didn't have any friends.

Case study:

After communicating with Xin Wei's mother on WeChat, I told her everything that happened in kindergarten these days, and her mother recalled an incident at the weekend. Xin Wei had a conflict with a sister who grew up together, and her sister had gone to primary school to deal with her feelings, so she instigated another good friend not to be friends with Xin Wei. She never wore makeup until she went home alone. When she came home that afternoon, Xin Wei cried. I stayed up all night. I always tell my parents sadly that I don't have any friends. As soon as I came to kindergarten, all kinds of disputes appeared in the case just now. Xin Wei is a sensible child, and she is more affectionate to her friends. Now that she is almost six years old, she will pay more attention to this emotional treatment. She has her own way of making friends. She has a big personality and hurts her sister, so she imitates her sister's way to keep her good friends. Measures:

After contacting Xin Wei's mother, I learned the ins and outs of the matter and discussed with her how to make Xin Wei open her heart. Xin Wei's heart or her sister's feelings broke down, so I asked my mother to get in touch with her sister's mother and get together at the party once, so that she could make up with her sister and stop worrying about losing anything. Later, several children played together again and all returned to normal. They also said that we should be good friends forever.