1955 September 16, Zhang Haidi was born in Jinan, Shandong province. Originally a lovely and beautiful little girl, she was paraplegic because of hemangioma at the age of 5.
From then on, young Zhang Haidi lost the opportunity to go to school, but under the guidance of her father Zhang Tanfu, she did not lose confidence in life, but put a mirror in front of her bed and studied tirelessly. With the help and encouragement of his father, Zhang Haidi taught himself all the courses in primary and secondary schools, taught himself English, Japanese, German and other languages, and finally taught himself postgraduate courses.
1983, Zhang Haidi was awarded the title of "Excellent Communist Youth League Member". This year, she was just 28 years old, and she officially started her literary career. She translated The Beach Clinic, modoc and Little Miller's Travel. And created questions about life, dreams in wheelchairs, etc. And dreams in wheelchairs.
But even though Zhang Haidi has achieved a lot, she is not satisfied with her present achievements. Instead, she used her inspirational influence to appeal to people from all walks of life to pay attention to the life and work of the disabled.
In Zhang Haidi's case, practical actions, such as frequent visits to welfare homes, caring for the elderly who are widowed and infirm, caring for disabled children and their families, and even subsidizing disabled children to study and see a doctor, are constantly calling on all sectors of society to bring more help and warmth to these disabled families or children.
At this time, regardless of her physical discomfort, Zhang Haidi continued to actively participate in various speeches, encouraging people who are as unfortunate as her, encouraging everyone to strive for self-improvement, self-confidence and courage, and helping them regain the courage to start and the strength to face difficulties.
It can be said that Zhang Haidi is like a candle, constantly burning herself and illuminating others, and she also inspires everyone to move forward with her self-improvement, brilliance and smile.
Zhang Haidi once said: To live is to be a person who is beneficial to society. I can't live in mediocrity If I live, I have to study and do more for the masses. Since it is a meteor, we should leave the light to people and give everything to them.
Although Zhang Haidi was paraplegic, she still had a romantic personality and longed for the sweetness of love, but emotionally, she also experienced many setbacks and sorrows.
/kloc-When he was 0/5 years old, Zhang Haidi fell in love with the boy who grew up with a girl, but one day the boy brought a girl to Zhang Haidi, and the love fire that Zhang Haidi had just ignited was extinguished instantly.
It's just that she didn't blame the boy and understood his choice. After all, most boys still want their girlfriends or wives to be healthy, and it is understandable that their paraplegia is not favored by boys. But even if Zhang Haidi understands the truth of feelings, she still has a crush on the boy she likes. This is Zhang Haidi's first love.
The second time, Zhang Haidi met a man he liked, and the other person seemed to have a good impression on her. He also said an ambiguous sentence: Heidi, next time I come, you will really feel happy.
With the longing for love, let Zhang Haidi, like all people in love, not only look forward to happiness, but also look forward to a better marriage life. However, a few years later, in a letter written by a man to Zhang Haidi, an intimate photo of a man and his girlfriend appeared, which naturally frustrated Zhang Haidi's fiery heart.
However, God never shuts one door but he opens another. Just when Zhang Haidi lost confidence in love, the only thrill came unexpectedly.
198119 Wang Zuoliang opened the People's Daily that day and was attracted by the article "Ling Ling, a paralyzed girl, is like a fire". Lingling, a paralyzed girl, is the nickname of Zhang Haidi. When Wang Zuoliang saw this girl's deeds, he immediately wrote an enthusiastic letter and sent it to Zhang Haidi thousands of miles away.
Wang Zuoliang, a Shanghainese, is an intellectual youth who goes to the countryside. He jumped the queue as a farmer in Lujiang County, Anhui Province, and later became an excellent teacher. With their frequent correspondence, they found that the more they talked, the more speculative they became, and the more they felt that the other person was the one they were looking for. So under the ideal of friendship and * * *, they finally decided on a love relationship and tied the knot.
It's just that Zhang Haidi and Wang Zuoliang didn't get married, and the media didn't know. It's just that two people decide to live a harmonious life and grow old hand in hand.
Zhang Haidi, who thinks her love is perfect and her life is happy, was awarded the title of "Self-improvement Model" by China Disabled Persons' Federation at 199 1. It's a pity that she came again and got basal cell carcinoma, that is, melanoma appeared on her nose. This disease usually only appears in the skin diseases of the elderly, but it grows on Zhang Haidi's nose.
Zhang Haidi, who was ill, soon had skin ulceration on his nose, and even his nose bones were exposed, so he had to try his luck through surgery. Before the operation, Zhang Haidi said to her husband, "If I survive, I will be very lucky. I hope I can still live with you, but if I die, it's time. I've been holding you back for years. I told my friends that if I die, let them find you a healthy woman better than me. "
When the husband heard his wife say this, he just held her hand tightly. Under the eyes of the public, a big man's eyes were instantly moist. Fortunately, Zhang Haidi's operation was very successful, and it was very painful during the operation, but she didn't shed a tear or let out a cry.
It's just that my husband shed tears because of his wife's cramp His hand holding his wife is colder than her cramped hand.
That's why Zhang Haidi scored 90 points for this marriage, but they didn't have children. Zhang Haidi once asked her husband: We have no children. What should we do when we are old?
Wang Zuoliang clasped Zhang Haidi's hand and said, "At that time, we went to the nursing home together." . This sentence is not only Wang Zuoliang's promise to his wife, but also that there will be no estrangement between them because of children's problems.
In order to make up for the regret of not having children, Zhang Haidi kept a dog as a "child" and named it Bench. Wang Zuoliang told his wife that after retirement, he would take care of her while studying, and then they would go to a nursing home to live.
Zhang Haidi, who is happily married, has the most legendary experience. Through her own efforts, she has also been admitted to the first batch of disabled people with lower limbs in China.
I have to say that Zhang Haidi's love is undoubtedly the most beautiful. Although incomplete, in the ocean of love, these are just "condiments" in life.
As romain rolland wrote in Michelangelo, there is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life after seeing the truth of life clearly.
1998165438+10. In October, Heidi shared a new book, Questioning of Life. I saw her wearing a white cashmere coat, a bright red scarf and newly bought black high-heeled booties. It seems that Zhang Haidi, which often appears in front of the public, is elegant, calm and sunny.
It can be said that we can hardly see Zhang Haidi's frowning expression. She always gives us a peaceful, cheerful, strong and elegant temperament. But in fact, every time she appears in public, she suffers unbearable pain for ordinary people.
Yang Lan said in an interview with The Truth Under the Aura that Zhang Haidi is usually in pain? And Zhang Haidi is used to answering, because at ordinary times, whether it is a meeting or an activity, it is a few hours, and sometimes it doesn't last. Whenever it doesn't last, he will give himself a mint to refresh himself.
Looking at it from another angle, it is difficult for normal people to sit for hours. Besides, Zhang Haidi totally relies on elbows to support his whole body weight. If you look carefully, in fact, Zhang Haidi's elbow has long been covered with thick cocoons, which makes people feel distressed.
Heidi's request to herself is this: I ask myself not only to live, but also to live poetically. This poem covers a wide range of contents, including the pursuit of a perfect life. A lot of tenacity and tenacity are actually produced in the defense of beauty. It makes people cherish life more, and it also makes people who ruined their previous lives think about another life. If we say that that person can go on through painful tempering, his tenacity and tenacity will bring another thing to life.
It was out of self-demand that Zhang Haidi made a presentation in fluent English in Kuala Lumpur at the age of 60 as the president of the Chinese Paralympic Games, which once again showed her confidence, elegance and aura to the fullest.
Charming Zhang Haidi, it is her indomitable desire for life and longing for beauty that makes Wang Zuoliang full of love and admiration for her, and also makes two people with the same frequency live a glimmer of light in the trivial marriage.
The best love is not to say "I love you" all day, but to be as sweet as ever after a dull time.
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