According to the pursuit of love in love, psychologists further divide love into healthy and unhealthy categories. Healthy love is manifested in:
1) Don't be overly infatuated, aggressive, possessive of love, and fully respect each other;
2) Giving love to the other person makes you feel happier than asking for love from the other person, and taking the happiness of the other person as your satisfaction;
3) It is the combination of independent personalities. Unhealthy love is manifested in:
1) overestimate each other and idealize their own personality;
2) The feeling of being too infatuated and blindly asking the other person to show love is often morbidly exaggerated;
3) lack of consideration and love, only showing their strong possessiveness;
4) Pay attention to the pursuit of appearance. People are never isolated in society, but at different stages of life, the emphasis of interpersonal relationships that have an important impact on mental health is also different.
For college students, the parent-child relationship, teacher-student relationship and peer group relationship that once had an important influence are giving way to the love relationship between the two sexes. In fact, the significance of love relationship to college students has gone beyond this relationship itself, but as the basis of their self-identity and self-worth