My family style is excellent. My family is more traditional. Although my parents' thoughts are more modern now, my parents' thoughts are more traditional. I remember my father often said to us: "If the family style is positive, then the children and grandchildren are positive, then the original owner is positive, then the country is positive." Family style is the moral standard of a family. In my family, there is also a family style that taught me how to be a kind and filial person.
Be a filial person. My mother often teaches me to be filial to my elders. Especially for grandma. I often hear adults say, "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the hardest to get along with, but I think mother and grandmother get along very well and are often praised by neighbors." But she is very strict with us.
I remember once, my grandmother accidentally broke something I loved, and I lost my temper at her. Seeing that I was so sad, grandma said with distress, "It's all grandma's fault. My grandmother is old, and her hands and feet are not flexible and useless. " Willy-nilly, I shouted at my grandmother, "Get out, my business is none of your business." Then I slammed the door and asked grandma to call me whatever she wanted. I just ignored her and said something I shouldn't have said. Maybe it's because what I said hurt grandma's heart too much Grandma said with tears sadly, "I'm leaving, and you don't have to worry about it when I die." Grandma said, sitting in the living room crying sadly. Mom came back and saw grandma crying, so she quickly asked what was going on. Grandma told her mother the whole story. Hearing this, the mother quickly comforted her grandmother and said, "Children are not sensible, don't take it to heart." Then he came to my room and severely criticized me. Finally, he said to me earnestly, "does anyone know how hard grandma used to work?" Because grandpa passed away when your father was very young, the burden of the family was all on grandma, who brought up several parents and aunts with great pains and suffered a lot. " As I spoke, I found my mother's eyes moist. I suddenly remembered my mother's usual kindness to my grandmother and her love for me. Before my mother finished, I ran out and hugged my sad grandmother and said, "Grandma, I'm sorry, it's my fault. I shouldn't be angry with you. I was wrong. Forgive me. " Grandma saw me crying so sadly that I didn't know what to do.
Family style is the face of a family. I should remember what my elders said about family style.
My family style is excellent. A stream gurgles. The sun shines on it, and the stream becomes sparkling. On both sides, there are several towering trees. A gust of wind blew and the leaves rustled, as if playing beautiful music.
Suddenly, a harsh voice broke the harmony: "Mom, why is that person so short?" How ugly! " "I saw me six years ago, talking loudly with my mother standing beside me in front of my fingers. Looking in the direction of the finger, there is a woman with dwarfism. Pale, short and thin, she ran back with her head down and trembling. My mother quickly blocked my mouth, pulled me aside and said to me, "You child, you really don't understand! "Just that aunt is a dwarf, so she is so short. She is already very unfortunate, and with what you said, she will feel even more inferior! " I nodded puzzled.
Six years ago, my mother taught me to respect others. Six years later.
One day in recent weeks, grandma accidentally put too much salt when cooking. As soon as I took a bite, I spit it out and frowned and shouted, "Who cooked this dish?" It tastes terrible! "My mother immediately stared my one eye. I seemed to understand the meaning and closed my mouth at once. At this time, Grandpa came to round the field: "It's not salty, it's quite good!" " "Mom and dad also nodded frequently. Seeing this scene, I understand a truth: my family is very hard every day, especially my grandmother. We can often see the back of her farming in vegetable fields, the way she works in the middle of the night and her busy body in the kitchen. I should respect grandma's labor achievements instead of blaming her blindly. Thinking of this, I immediately changed my mouth: "The one I just ate was a little salty, and the others were delicious!" " "Say that finish, I filled a big bowl of food and ate it. The family laughed when they saw this scene!
Learn to respect others. Everyone in the family abides by this rule. Gradually, it has become our family style. Because of it, our family is very happy.
My family style is excellent. As the saying goes, "there are national laws and family rules." Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be established. " National law is the foundation of the country, which will make this country and society stable and harmonious, while family rules will make our family harmonious and happy. Let me talk about our family rules.
Family rules, that is, family style, are the ethos of a family, which is reflected in filial piety in our family. Mom and dad often say "filial piety is the first virtue". Respecting elders, listening to them and not talking back are all manifestations of filial piety. There is a habit in our family. Of course, I believe this is a very good habit. At ordinary times, when our family eats together, we have to wait for everyone to arrive. Grandma, dad and mom are all sitting in their respective positions. My sister and I can only eat chopsticks first. You can't eat delicious food alone, you should take the initiative to give it to your elders. I remember once, there were some pieces of beef on the plate. My mother put them together first for my grandmother, then for my father, and finally for my sister and me. I asked my mother, "Why don't you eat? Don't you like beef very much? " My mother smiled and said to me, "Because I am old and young." After listening to my mother's words, I was very moved and quickly gave the beef clip in the bowl to my mother. I deeply realized the mother's good intentions of showing filial piety to her mother-in-law and hurting her children!
Unconsciously, under the example of parents, filial piety has become the crown of my sister and me, and it is also what we are most proud of and inherit!
I often hear people praise my sister and me, saying that these two children are well-educated, sensible and polite. Whenever this happens, I will be secretly happy. Because not only are we praised, but I also think my mother's face is more glorious. This is the result of my mother's daily education and an example for my parents.
Family style and family education will have different performances in every family. Good family style and family education require the joint efforts of every member of the family. The bad aspects should be corrected in time, and the good aspects should continue!
My family style is excellent. The old saying once said, "sneak into the night with the wind, and moisten things silently." It can be seen that the influence of good family style on children's body and mind is subtle and far-reaching. Influenced by the family style of "filial piety" and "loving children", I gradually grew up healthily.
I still remember when I was a child, every Chinese New Year was my happiest time, and we gathered in the old house for reunion. When I see those mouth-watering delicacies on the table, my saliva always falls down unwillingly. Even so, I never reach for it. Because my mother told me from an early age that it is not easy for elders to raise children. We should be filial to them and wait until they eat first. So the oldest elder in the family must come first for the first meal. At this time, parents, uncles and aunts will also put delicious food into the bowls of their elders, setting a good example for us, and we gradually understand filial piety. As the old saying goes, "All virtues and filial piety come first". The younger generation is filial to their elders and always has a grateful heart for them. Only in this way can a family live in harmony and develop actively. Although I haven't been back to reunite with my extended family for many years, the concept of filial piety has been lingering in my heart and I dare not forget it at any time!
We should not only respect our elders, but also love our next generation. When I was very young, my parents used the story of "Kong Rong made pears" to educate me to be a caring person. They told me that if there are delicious or fun things at home, don't share them with my brothers and sisters, let them choose first and be a good boy like Kong Rong. I listened to my parents. Every time there is something good at home, I always let my brothers and sisters choose first, and I never compete with them or contradict them. Therefore, our family always gets along well, and there is almost no contradiction. There is always a happy smile on our face.
With a good family style, good morality will be born; With good morality, people will always abide by harmony; People live in harmony, and the whole country and society will present a harmonious atmosphere! It can be seen that a good family style plays an important role! A good family style is worth inheriting!
My family style is excellent. My family is an ordinary and warm family, and it is also a family with good inheritance.
My grandparents always get up early every day, prepare breakfast, clean up and are busy outside. What my grandparents often tell me at ordinary times is "diligent hands and feet, a day's plan lies in the morning", "Everything is packed early, this is for Li Lisuo", and then tell me to eat well and rest on time, which has helped me develop good living habits since childhood.
My grandparents live a simple life. Every time my parents buy something, they will say, "Life is good now, so we can't waste it." Although my grandparents live frugally, they especially support "study hard" so that my mother and aunts can go to college. Now that the aunts are married and married, everyone chats by video when they are free, just online at the same time, just like a meeting; On holidays, everyone gets together in a lively way, and they feel so happy in their hearts!
My dad has a pile of materials on his desk. He said, "You have to keep learning new things and accumulate them bit by bit." He often doesn't rest all weekend. Although my father is very busy, whenever he is free, he will ask me about my performance, talk to me about everything, or play chess, watch movies, swim and take a walk together. He also took me to Beijing and Xi 'an, visited his university, visited his teachers and classmates, and enjoyed different city scenery, which made me feel that learning was really a happy and fulfilling thing.
My mother is a teacher. A few days before she gave birth to my sister, she was preparing lessons, giving lectures, and sometimes correcting students' papers at home until late at night. My mother often tells me "study hard and set a good example for my sister" and "teachers are very hard, so we must respect them".
These are a few short stories handed down from my family, and there is no great truth. My elders teach me by example, care about me and make me grow up happily!
My family style is excellent. Every family has its own family style. I sum up that there are four family styles in my family: first, positive; Second, thrift; Third, be honest and trustworthy; Fourth, respect the old and love the young. Although there are only four short articles, it is not that simple to do in practice.
First of all, being positive is a personality quality, which is the most decisive, leading and guiding factor. My father taught me from an early age that one must have a positive attitude towards life and learning. Don't be afraid of the difficulties in life or study, because the difficulties are to be overcome.
Diligence and thrift are the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation. Although I am a happy child who grew up in a beautiful environment, my family has developed a good habit of thrift. As a primary school student, I should start from small things, start from bit by bit, consciously shape a clean character and save a drop of water and a grain of rice. "Water drops make a river, and rice grains make a basket." "If you are diligent, you will have nothing to eat."
The ancients said, "Honesty is gold". Remember the story of the wolf coming? If we sow the seeds of honesty and trustworthiness in our hearts from an early age, take good care of them, water them regularly, fertilize them and kill insects, it will surely blossom a beautiful flower of civilization! If everyone does this, will our society be far from civilization?
Respecting the old and loving the young is the essence of China's fine moral tradition, and it is a manifestation of respecting oneself. Everyone has his childhood, and everyone will grow old one day. From generation to generation, from children to the elderly, whether in ancient or modern society, there is one thing in common, that is, to carry forward the fine tradition of respecting the elderly and loving the young.
My parents always lead by example and lead me to study hard and be positive, which makes me develop good living habits and positive learning attitude. To my parents' pride, I took the initiative to learn guzheng in my spare time and won the first prize of "Junior Star Torch".
My family style is excellent. As the saying goes, "Without rules, there is no Fiona Fang." That is to say, there are national laws, school rules and family style. My family style is: "Be a good person and study hard."
My family taught me to be a good person since I was a child.
My father taught me to keep my promise. I remember a weekend in the second grade, because of my good behavior, my father allowed me to play computer games for an hour. But that's it. I've spent more time playing games, and my father put away the computer seriously. After that, he said to me earnestly, "Tang Lin, keep your word, or you will be in trouble when you grow up!" "
My sister told me to be honest. Because "people don't believe it, they don't know what they can do." One day in third grade, I accidentally broke my sister's favorite glass. I was afraid of being scolded, but in the end, I just plucked up my courage and apologized to my sister. But my sister forgave me and said something meaningful to me: "It doesn't matter if the glass is broken. If you lose your integrity, no one will believe you."
My mother taught me to be modest. In an exam in the fourth grade, I got the first place in my class. When I got home, I proudly told my mother. My mother kindly said to me, "Tang Lin is great!" Make persistent efforts, but remember:' modesty benefits all the losses.' "
My family not only taught me to be a good person, but also taught me to study hard.
I was addicted to the internet in the fifth grade, so I only got more than 80 points in the mid-term exam. On the way home, I was afraid of what my mother would do to me. But even when I got home, my mother said to me, "Failure is not terrible, but falling down is terrible!" " You should take this as a starting point and strive for better results next time. "Then my mother and I analyzed the reasons and solved the problem for me. With the help of my mother and my unremitting efforts, my grades have soared. I got excellent results in the final exam.
Shakespeare once said, "Books are the nourishment of the whole world." In my study, I have a good habit: I love reading. From the moment I entered primary school, I began to read some story books. In recent years, I began to contact some literary books, such as Camel Xiangzi, Old Things in the South of the City, and Little Peas by the Window. I'll take out one as soon as I have time.
China has been a country famous for its etiquette since ancient times. As China people-our children, we must also carry forward this spirit. Only in this way can we be worthy of our ancestors and an heir!
One Saturday night, I was happy to have dinner with my parents and grandparents. The TV in Logger Vick is about to start. I put the remaining half bowl of rice aside and said I wouldn't eat the rest. Grandpa was very unhappy and said that he couldn't waste food. I can finish all these meals, and I can't leave leftovers just because I want to watch TV.
My father told me the story of his childhood at this time. When my father grew up as a child, my grandfather had to go out on time for work. My father poured the rice left in the bowl into the ditch. Later, Grandpa found out, and Dad was severely punished by Grandpa.
It turned out that grandpa was a poor country when he was a child, and he often didn't have enough to eat, but he had to do a lot of things. At that time, the biggest wish was to eat enough, so grandpa especially cherished food. Grandpa said that the meal was hard-won, and he was particularly angry when he saw my father wasting food that day. After my father was punished, he remembered not to waste food.
Father said that now that the country is rich and strong, the family will no longer worry about not having enough to eat, but the tradition of thrift and not extravagance and waste cannot be lost. This is very helpful for me to form good habits in the future.
At this time, grandma talked about the past. She buys things with tickets, rice with food stamps and meat with meat stamps ... On holidays, she has to get up early and wait at least four or five hours to get a fixed amount of food. Especially for a while, everyone didn't care much about food. As a result, after the food was wasted, there was no food to eat, so everyone had to dig leaves in the mountains hungry to eat. Now that I think about it, it's really hard!
Listen, listen, I feel embarrassed. I really don't know when I'll be blessed. I'm always picky about eating. Now that I think about it, my grandparents' childhood life really makes me incredible! Thinking of this, I looked at the food on the table, smiled shyly, and then began to eat slowly. I suddenly found that the food I didn't like was so delicious.
It is sweet to recall that bitter experience on a special day. Although the gloom of that era is gone forever, our bright life really needs our "growth" forever!
My excellent family style composition 9 "The school has school rules, family rules, family rules" is a common saying. But when asked, "What is your family style? What is a tutor? " These questions will make students dumbfounded.
My family style is "filial piety", honoring parents and respecting elders. My parents always tell me: all virtues are filial first! Family style is a motto that should be kept in mind. With it, everyone can stand in the society and go further! Keep in mind the family style, lay a solid foundation in life, take firm steps and become a pillar of the country!
I remember when I was a child, every time I went to play with my good friends, I would forget the home time stipulated by my parents, and I would go back very late if I had fun. The adults were very anxious, so my mother said to me seriously, "How do you set the time? Why do you always break the rules and come back so late? " Now everyone stipulates that you can't make the same mistake three times, agree? "I nodded and promised my mother that I would abide by the rules next time and go home on time.
The good times didn't last long, and my old habits relapsed. One summer vacation, when my homework was finished, I went to play with my friends. My mother asked me to go home at 6: 30 at the latest, so as not to affect other people's family's dinner time. I agreed. Everyone had a good time. Her mother invited me to her house for dinner again and again, and I readily accepted. After a while, my mother told me to go home, so I had to go home, because it was past 7: 30. When I got home, I was severely criticized by my mother. I know my mistake is not coming home on time. Eating in other people's homes not only bothers others, but also brings a burden to others. Make up your mind never to do it again.
Now I finally understand what "family style, family training and family education" are. "Family style" is the ethos of a family. Once the family style is corrupted, the family's ideology and morality will also deteriorate, and it is difficult for the family to cultivate excellent offspring. If there is no "family training", then future generations will be spoiled. Only by letting him (her) know the mistake will he (she) correct it, and then he (she) will be educated slowly. I think this is "family style, family training and family education"!