We are going to have a debate. I object. The topic is: views on the education of tiger mother and wolf father. How can I refute it?

I don't agree with the education method of tiger mother and wolf father. First: it is essentially a kind of violence that forces children to obey their own will. The educational methods they use will only make children know how to obey. Educating children in this way will make them have no independent thoughts. Wolf parents are likely to raise sheep sons and daughters. This is a slave education. Children's personality will be distorted and education will vary from person to person. Second, many educational methods are control and substitution, which is wrong. It should be guidance and inspiration, and it should be companionship and guidance. The education of children should be "natural", follow children's interests and safeguard children's nature. Education should be the integration of interest training, thinking training, behavior training and intellectual inspiration. So our view is that sheep parents are good.

I found several arguments: 1. Long-term beatings will distort children's psychology and become the shadow of life. 2. Under the violence at home, 2 1.3% of children commit crimes with psychological distortion, 12.5% commit suicide, and the rest fight and collapse. Wolf dad is just an example. Long-term depression and humiliation will break out one day, and the consequences are unpredictable. So you can still say wolf mom and dad?

There are so many people flocking to the "tiger mother and wolf father" education, which shows that the worship of "success" in society has penetrated into the field of education. Parents ignore their children's mental health and happy growth, and think that as long as they are admitted to a prestigious school, they will be "successful". A child who is physically and mentally healthy is not a good boy in his parents' mind. Only children who wear the aura of famous schools on their heads are what they want and valuable. This is the fundamental reason why the education of "tiger mother and wolf father" has been supported.

Therefore, if this "wolf dad" education is sought after and promoted, then the "dark fire" of exam-oriented education will intensify with this "wolf dad" education. At present, exam-oriented education has become a' cancer' that affects the future development of education in China. To make China's education develop healthily and rapidly, we must understand this' cancer'.