The length of life is limited, but the width of life is infinite. Life, seemingly long, is actually just a moment.
Day after day, I can't help it. Even if you use ten horses to pull back time, it's no use.
People are alive, happy is a day, worry is a day, crying is a day, relaxation is a day, poverty is a day, wealth is a day ... you have to choose how to spend it, that is your own determination.
The environment is born of the heart! Crying all day is a waste.
Bai said: "Imperfection is an important part of perfection." If you let go of all imperfections, you will be close to perfection. We all understand why you want to give up, but why don't you give up?
I advise you that living is a blessing. Don't push yourself too hard.
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If you are not afraid of death, what are you afraid of?
A reader told me the day before yesterday: "When people are 50 years old, their children are still young and their parents are old. However, I have several physical conditions and a mortgage to pay. Force yourself to work overtime and stay up late every day. I have been thinking that when the mortgage is finished, I can't drag my family down. "
When people reach the age of 50, they have to face the fact that they are getting old. However, people who are fifty years old are really not old. It's just that it's too early to talk about death, and I'm not qualified to talk about youth.
A person can choose to die in order not to drag down his family, so why not choose to live?
People often complain that "life is too difficult", but you have to understand that there are always more roads than difficulties, and no matter how difficult it is, you can survive.
How can people live? The only hurdle I can't get through is my heart. You shut out all hope, and life loses hope; You refuse all your dreams and can only live in a daze; You never want to open your heart, you can only seal your heart, lock up your love and cry secretly until dawn.
Life and death cannot be resigned to fate, but one's own choice.
How to live and what you want to live is actually in your own hands, which seems to be arranged by God.
Indulge yourself, that is, give your destiny to others, that is, give yourself to destiny; Grasping oneself means grasping fate, grasping the direction of life and truly creating happiness.
No one lives an easy life, just bite the bullet and stick to it. You see the happiness of others, but you don't see the sadness on others' faces and the scars in their hearts.
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In life, one thought is a magic, and one thought is a Buddha.
Many things need to be reconsidered. Look at it from another angle, and you will be relaxed. The smile on the face of the poor is no worse than that on the face of the rich, and each has its own blessing.
As for love, someone will love you if they leave you. People who leave you are people who have no chance. It's no use trying to stay. People who love you as much as their lives are the right people.
What should come will come, and what should not come will wait. On the road of "waiting for love", don't just wait. You should take the initiative to seize the opportunity and force yourself to become better. Good people don't worry about not being loved, really.
Regarding money, you can get back the money you lost in another way; Poor days are actually a time to test you and a process of accumulating wealth; Rich days are still the time to test your wisdom and morality.
The ancients said, "Virtue carries things." Only people with good moral character can have more money and become the master of money, not the slave of money.
About family. "Every family has its own problems." If you go around looking for someone to complain, your family will get worse and worse. If you know how to bow your head in front of your family, your pain will disappear. Family affairs are trivial matters, so you don't have to worry about them.
Bow your head in front of your family Although you lost, your blessings increased. Harmonious family, everyone has a smile on his face; It's good enough for a clean family to live in it. Without a big house, there can be laughter in a small room.
About health. I can only advise you not to trade your life for money. Health is the greatest wealth, and you should always remember this truth. A person's health is not only responsible for himself, but also for his family.
"There is no dutiful son before the hospital bed for a long time", and the illness of elderly parents will make their children very annoyed and troublesome. If someone else is sick, it will be even more troublesome.
Time will tell you that there are no perfect people in the world, and there is no job that really suits you. Everything has two sides. If you feel uncomfortable on either side, then things will become a "double-edged sword". When you look pleasing to the eye on both sides, your heart will be peaceful and there will be light.
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Let it go. It is a blessing to get through it.
We often say, "Push yourself and you will succeed." But you should know that when you push yourself, you should stop and do what you can. It is doomed to be impossible. What's the use of pushing yourself?
To be a man, you should learn to "add" and know how to "subtract".
You cherish happiness, and happiness will gradually increase; If you have good thoughts, you can accumulate virtues and blessings; If you care about others, you will meet noble people; You keep the beauty, and there will always be warmth in your heart.
The subtraction of life is: live one day less, suffer one day and waste one day. Let go of the pain and your heart will be relaxed; Put down the pressure and your body will be healthy; Abandon desire, and there is hope in life.
From now on, you should learn to toss yourself, and also know how to turn and let everything go with the flow.
If it rains, you can't stop it Just remember to bring an umbrella. God wants the sun to shine, but he can't control it, so take a good bath; It's windy in winter, so it's no use complaining. Hiding at home to keep warm is also a blessing. ......
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Concluding remarks.
If you fall, get up and walk. Don't talk to anyone when you are in pain. Don't always stare at your own pain. Tired, have a good rest, bitter, add some sweetness to life.
I believe that a person came into this world not for pain, but for happiness.
People have joys and sorrows, the moon is full of rain and shine, and their hearts are bittersweet, and they live day by day.
Irretrievable, forget it; If you are doomed to fail, give up.
Strive hard, love with your heart, have a clear conscience, and peace of mind is bliss.
Author: coarse grains in cloth.
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