My family is an ordinary family, but also a happy family of five, my father-in-law, my mother-in-law, my husband and I, and a lovely daughter. Like most families, our family is just an ordinary family without vigorous deeds, but our family is law-abiding, respectful, enterprising and dedicated, helpful, harmonious and warm, and deeply loved by the unit, neighborhood and society.
First, respect and love each other and live in harmony.
Mutual respect and love are the foundation of family harmony and the source of family happiness. My husband and I are high school classmates. For the sake of family, I came to Tonggu from my hometown in 2005 and started a new life. In the past few years after marriage, my husband and wife have taken care of each other and trusted each other in their lives; Understand and support each other in their work. At home, we often exchange work experience, learn from each other's strengths, enlighten each other and help each other when we are confused. Since we got married, we have been living with our parents-in-law. I treat my parents-in-law as parents to honor me. When you encounter something you don't understand, ask them for advice, listen to their opinions and exchange views on the problem. Usually, we commemorate them in different ways, such as buying them delicious food, buying them good clothes and giving them gifts on their birthdays. Similarly, the two old people take care of my daughter-in-law as their own daughter, and often buy things I like to eat at home, leaving me anything delicious first; When I got sick with a cold, my mother-in-law helped me to fetch water to soak my feet and bring tea and medicine, just like her daughter. Although these are trivial things, it is not enough to mention them, but they are like catalysts to make my feelings with my parents-in-law increasingly harmonious and my family harmonious and happy. Many people ask us, "Why are our feelings as harmonious as mother and daughter?" We believe that nothing can't be solved as long as we look at the problem from the other side's point of view and think about it. In daily life, parents-in-law also attach great importance to educating people by example. As the saying goes, "a successful person must be supported by an excellent person", I should say "yes"
Harmonious family "is the support. My mother-in-law and husband and I are both busy at work and often work overtime. Since my father-in-law retired to the second line, in order to support the work of his wife, son and daughter-in-law, and not to distract us from family affairs, he has taken the initiative to take care of his granddaughter, do housework, grow vegetables and raise poultry, which is orderly at home and abroad. He is not only the pillar of the family, but also the strong backing of our hard work. In my new family, although everyone has different personalities, cultures and interests, there are few contradictions and conflicts in the family. Everyone can understand each other, respect the old and love the young, be democratic and equal, be tolerant and humble, and form a polite family style of mutual understanding, respect, equality and care. In 2006, our family was named "Five Good Courtesy Families" in Yichun.
Second, love their jobs and promote each other.
At home, my mother-in-law often teaches our younger generation to "do what they do, love what they do", "have the spirit of not being afraid of hardships and tiredness", "learn more useful knowledge, understand the strengths of brothers and sisters, and strive to enrich themselves" to contribute to the family and society. She teaches and does this, and influences us with her own practical actions. My mother-in-law is a person with strong dedication and high sense of responsibility. She treats her work diligently and pragmatically, strives for perfection, and often goes deep into reality and investigates and studies. She participated in the research project of Heyuan environmental protection, which was fully affirmed by CPPCC leaders and relevant experts. During her tenure as a member of the provincial CPPCC and chairman of the county CPPCC, she discussed how the party Committee thought; What the government does, she will help; She called it what the public expected. She wrote "Suggestions on Speeding up the Construction of Chang-Tong Expressway" and delivered a speech at the joint meeting of the CPPCC National Committee, which attracted the attention of the leaders of the provincial party committee and government and laid the necessary foundation for speeding up the construction of Chang-Tong Expressway. My husband and I have been following the example of my mother-in-law and constantly improving our overall quality. After work, timely understand and understand the party's line, principles and policies, vigorously understand the knowledge of market economy, and constantly learn scientific and cultural knowledge, legal knowledge and professional knowledge. We took part in the adult college entrance examination, and after several years of hard work, we all got undergraduate diplomas. At work, we are also conscientious and devoted to our work. As the director of the county women's Federation office, I overcome the difficulties of small population and heavy workload and work hard.