Chapter 1: Respect
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Respecting others is a virtue, and being respected is a kind of happiness.
In America, there is such a true story. One afternoon, a fashionable middle-aged woman took a little boy into the garden downstairs of the headquarters building of the famous American enterprise "Yalian Group". They were sitting on the bench, and the woman was talking to the boy with an angry face.
Not far away, an old man with white hair is cleaning up the garbage. The little boy finally couldn't stand the woman's loud scolding. He's sad?
Cry quietly. The woman took out a shiny toilet paper from her satchel, dried the tears for the boy and threw the paper on the ground. The old man glanced at the middle-aged woman, and she glanced at the old man casually. Without saying anything, the old man came over and picked up the paper and threw it into the trash can. The woman kept cursing and the boy kept crying. After a while, the woman threw the paper on the ground to wipe her tears again.
The old man came over and picked up the paper, and then went back to his original place to continue his work. When the old man just bent down to clean up, the woman left a third group of toilet paper. In this way, the woman finally threw six or seven groups of paper, and the old man took pains to pick it up six or seven times. The woman suddenly pointed to the old man and said to the little boy, "You saw it! If you don't go to school now, you will be as worthless as him in the future, doing these despicable jobs. " The old man is still not angry. He calmly said to the middle-aged woman, "madam, this garden is the private garden of the Asian Union Group. According to the regulations, only employees of the group can come in. "
The woman said confidently: "Of course, I am the department manager of a company under the' Yalian Group' and work in this building!" He took out a business card and threw it on the old man. The old man picked up his business card from the ground and threw it into the trash can. And took out his cell phone from his pocket.
Dialed a call. This woman is very angry. She was about to make a theory when she found a man coming in a hurry and standing in front of the old man respectfully. The old man said to the man, "I now propose to remove this lady from the post of' Asian Union Group'!" "Ok, I'll follow your instructions at once!" The man repeatedly replied. After the old man finished speaking, he went straight to the little boy and said to him gently, "People should not only know how to study hard, but more importantly, know how to respect everyone." Say that finish, he walked to the building.
Middle-aged women changed from anger to consternation. He knows this man. He is the director of all branches of Yalian Group. "How can you be respectful to a cleaner?" She asked in surprise. The man said to the woman with sympathetic eyes, "He is not a cleaner, but the president of Yalian Group." The middle-aged woman suddenly collapsed on the bench.
After reading this story, I was deeply touched. Respect seems to be a big deal, but it is so easy to do. Everyone is equal. Only when you respect others first will others be kind to you, so that society will be harmonious.
Chapter 2: Respect yourself and others.
I remember the concert I went to a while ago made me very angry. The scene at that time made me get to know some people again. It was like this:
The concert was a quartet, which was very good. Their timbre is sometimes crisp and bright, and sometimes deep and beautiful ... they can always bring people into a different realm, and people have to immerse themselves in it. However, I am angry because ...
The man sitting in front of me was the family of one of the musicians (I called them musicians). They were fine at first, because their relatives were on the stage. Then, a piano solo began, and the hands jumped on the black and white keys, making touching notes. I'm drunk. However, the voice that is not harmonious with this beautiful music makes the people in front of me noisy. I suddenly understood why they did it, not only because their relatives were not on the stage, but also because they became so annoying and buzzed like a group of flies. After a while, the program ended, and it was their relatives' turn to sing solo. When they sleep, they stand up straight, and immediately they are quiet and don't praise them. I really can't stand it.
After the concert, I have been "watching movies" in my mind. I recall that scene over and over again, and the more I think about it, the more angry I get. Now some people don't understand elegant art, but they can't at least respect others! Imagine what the people sitting in front of me would think if they were performing on the stage and everyone was talking at the bottom. I will be so sad that I will even cry. I think about their actions in that concert again and find that those people are still so selfish and only applaud their families! I think everyone wants applause for their programs, so since you want others to give you applause, why don't you take the initiative to give others applause? Others, like you, want applause and recognition. I cry for people who have met such a scene! They used to practice hard before the performance, and no one could see them; Everyone can't see the tears and sweat that have been left for the performance. The audience can only see the surface, but no one thinks about how much effort he has put into the performance! With their efforts, it is worth applauding them, or at least respecting them.
At this point, my heart seems to have been exhausted and said so much. Actually, I just want to emphasize one point to you. Please give heartfelt applause to those who have worked hard for us, at least respect them!
Chapter III: Respect? bright red
Everyone should have their own circle of friends and social circles. The better your interpersonal relationship, the more interesting and energetic your life will be. Therefore, it is said that "friendship builds life", and respect is the nutrition that can make a person's interpersonal relationship tree grow healthily.
The word "respect" means treating everyone equally. Think about it: when others hold their own views on a matter, respecting their views will make a matter have many perspectives. The various cultural factors that make up this world are also based on respect. It is also respect, which makes us have more friends. When we respect others, others begin to respect us. Respect each other, so that the most basic friendship is established. The friendship that people are familiar with every day also comes from this.
Many people know how to respect others, but they don't put them into action. Adding sugar to coffee is bound to be more delicious. Similarly, integrating respect into life is bound to be more interesting. It's a pity that some people are so miserable: they know that coffee with sugar is better, but they still drink it hard in "bitter caress" I believe everyone agrees that such people are fools, but unfortunately they will not reflect on themselves: Do I have this ridiculous "spirit"? Yes, please change yourself. Learn to respect, so you become the commander-in-chief and control the basic strategies of life.
Respect is reflected in every detail of life. To put it simply, you salute the teacher before class at school every day, which shows respect for the teacher's performance. Others have their own works or articles, and you don't destroy them or do things that make them unhappy. This is the embodiment of respecting others' property and labor. Others have physical defects and ignore them; Others care about you and don't forget to return; Others have their own concept consciousness, so they may as well accept it; Others are good at what they are not good at, and oppose jealousy. If you are jealous of a very good person and even hate him, then you should reflect on your own character. Not all people have achieved perfect respect, even those who have "hate" feelings for those excellent people can be vividly remembered. In short, if you want to learn to respect, you should first start with various details in your life, reflect on yourself step by step, and then correct yourself step by step, so as to improve your quality and morality and enrich your life.
When the world is respected, people respect and tolerate each other. Finally, warmth will light up every corner of the world. Everyone in this world will taste the sweetness of respect; Therefore, many wars, the wicked will not have, can be avoided!
Chapter Four: Chen Yanping who respects life out of morality.
After the earthquake in Japan, perhaps out of the original intention of not forgetting the national humiliation, some people applauded, but others expressed their condolences and regrets out of morality. History is unforgettable, but we are not qualified to applaud the passing of more than 1600 lives, but should respect every life out of morality.
People who respect life out of morality still exist in this violent society. When a group of students were threatened by the oncoming bus crossing the road, Zhang Lili, the "most beautiful female teacher", pushed away the students around her ... The students survived, but she lost her legs. In fact, she can classify this as a traffic accident and avoid liability disputes. But instead of looking on coldly, she chose morality, respected students' lives and made a feat that made Fan Paopao feel ashamed. If she doesn't stand up at the critical moment, then I think she may feel guilty for "losing morality and not respecting life" for life. Wu Bin, the most beautiful driver in Hang Cheng, and Zhou Chong, the hero of saving lives in Guangzhou, showed people the special coolness of this summer with their high-profile respect for life.
Some people respect every life out of morality, but some people abandon morality for so-called interests, for self-protection and for meddling. What is the difference between watching other people's lives die and being indifferent, and trampling on life? There are countless food safety problems in "Xiaoyueyue", "Peng Yu Case" and "Xu Yunhe Case" in Foshan, but no one has helped the fallen old people ... who betrayed morality and trampled on life, how can they live up to the dignity of life?
Confucius said, "A gentleman's way, there is no place in the world, no Mo Ye, so there is no ratio of benevolence and righteousness." Yes, for a real gentleman, everything he does is moral. This is especially true for life. Taking morality as the starting point and respecting every life is their highest pursuit. The French philosopher Montaigne said, "The essence of life lies in death." It is true that people are born to die, but we can't shorten the distance between others and death if we abandon morality and don't respect their lives.
In today's society, people always think disapprovingly that things that have nothing to do with themselves are irrelevant, but they never thought that the word "morality" still exists in this world. As the saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." If one day we are about to lose our lives because of an accident, do we want others to laugh and applaud for a while, or do we want others to help us out of morality and respect for our lives? It is conceivable that no one wants to be as indifferent as the former. Now, let's not betray morality and trample on other people's lives. At the moment of quick success and impetuousness, everyone in society should respect life out of morality, even if the object is an ex-enemy like Japan.
Individuals and society, no matter which group, are all made up of life. Only by respecting every life out of morality can the world be harmonious and stable!