Xiao Zhang recently bought a mobile phone for his son Guang Guang, who is in primary school, so that he can talk to his children every day. At first, the lamp was only used to make a phone call with Xiao Zhang, and there was no other use. However, as students have more and more mobile phones, Guang Guang became addicted to games after a group of children exchanged games. Sometimes it takes two or even three hours to do homework in the evening. Xiao Zhang often reminds Guang Guang, but it is basically useless.
Xiao Zhang thinks that children playing like this will only affect their study and eyesight, but forcing children not to play may not be effective. So Xiao Zhang thought about it all night and discussed it with Guang Guang the next day. He told Guang Guang that as long as he finishes his homework within one hour every day, he can play with his mobile phone for a while, provided that he can't play with his mobile phone and perfunctory his homework.
After hearing his father put forward this method, Guang Guang thought it was OK, so he agreed with Xiao Zhang. Later, Guang Guang was able to finish his homework quickly while ensuring the quality of his homework every day. Because of this, Guang Guang's academic performance has never fallen behind, and he has always been the top three in his class.
Now, because of the epidemic, it is difficult for children to use their mobile phones when they can only surf the Internet at school. Children don't have strong self-control, so it is difficult to ensure that they can concentrate on online classes without playing mobile phones. Once children play mobile phones, they will not only forget the content of the teacher's lecture, but also affect their study. At the same time, excessive use of mobile phones will also affect his physical and mental health.
1, affecting children's normal social interaction.
Children immersed in the world of mobile phones for a long time will gradually lose their ability to communicate with people in real life. There is a friend who plays mobile phone at home for a long time and can't talk when he comes out for a party. Therefore, children playing mobile phones for a long time will affect their communication skills and language skills.
2. Self-control ability will become worse.
Adults have poor self-control ability on mobile phones, let alone children. After children become accustomed to playing mobile phones, they will be unable to concentrate on their studies or do other things, and their self-control will become worse and worse. Moreover, children who play more mobile games will become angry easily and have a bad temper.
3. Affect children's health
Because the mobile phone screen is small, children will like to put their eyes close to the mobile phone screen. After a long time, their eyesight will decline, and even they will be blind in severe cases. In addition, if children keep their mobile phones around, playing mobile phones at night will reduce sleep time, which is not conducive to children's growth, and playing mobile phones at night is more likely to increase the probability of children's myopia.
In today's era of advanced technology, it is hard to avoid using mobile phones for consumption and entertainment, including children sometimes need to use computers and mobile phones to find information, but if mobile phones can play a positive role in children, they need to rely on parents to guide and educate their children.
1, three chapters with children
In order to prevent children from being dependent or addicted to mobile phones, parents can reward their children to play mobile phones. If children finish their studies and homework within the specified time, they can be rewarded to play mobile phones, so that their learning situation will not be affected, and at the same time, the time for children to play mobile phones can be controlled, so that children will not be addicted to mobile phones.
Parents should also set an example.
If children are studying around, parents should try not to use mobile phones. Even if they want to use the mobile phone, they should not let the sound content affect their children's study. Of course, they can also set an example for their children without playing around, so that they can feel the thoughtfulness of their parents, so that their children will not develop the habit of playing mobile phones.
3. Spend more time with your children
Many treasure moms and dads like playing mobile phones very much, so they ignore their children. In this way, in order to be around their parents, children will watch mobile phones with their parents, which will affect their children over time. Therefore, when children are young, spend as much time as possible with them instead of playing with mobile phones. You can try to accompany your child to draw, play with toys and play games, and you can also cultivate your child's practical ability and enhance parent-child feelings.
Everything has two sides, so parents need to guide their children to pass on the positive side to their children and not let the negative side affect them. If children are addicted to mobile phones, parents should also give them correct education and guidance so that they can effectively get rid of bad habits.