To cultivate children's awareness of healthy communication, parents are most concerned about the healthy growth of their children. In the process of growing up, there will be happiness and trouble. Cultivating children's communication skills is conducive to their future development and sharing their awareness of cultivating children's healthy communication.
Cultivate children's awareness of healthy communication 1 Girls will gradually mature in adolescence, and naturally they will be curious about the opposite sex. Many girls are banned by their parents on the issue of interacting with students of the opposite sex, which will prompt them to adopt perfunctory or deceptive methods to deal with their parents, but it is not conducive to their education. Parents should first be open to girls' heterosexual friendship, and don't always doubt her puppy love.
Ms. Gong is very wise in dealing with the relationship between her daughter Xiaoru and her opposite sex classmates. She thinks: first of all, we should be open-minded and broad-minded, and then our daughter can listen to her teaching and communicate with students of the opposite sex healthily.
Once, one of Xiaoru's classmates passed by their downstairs on the way to school and stood there shouting Xiaoru's name. Xiaoru was in the bathroom and heard crying. Ms. Gong poked her head out of the window. When the boy saw it, he lost interest and left. Ms. Gong asked her daughter if that boy was her classmate. Her daughter answered "yes" and her mother smiled and said nothing. Xiaoru was surprised. Thinking that her mother would blame her, she asked her mother, "Mom, don't you doubt my relationship with that boy?" Mom smiled and said, "Aren't you classmates? It is normal for him to let you go to school together. What is there to doubt? " Xiaoru said: "To tell the truth, we are really ordinary friends, but we are also very happy at ordinary times. It's a bit impolite for him to call me downstairs today. I am afraid that you will be angry. " Mother said, "silly child, everyone has gone through this stage." If your mother won't even let you contact the opposite sex students, you will become afraid to interact with the opposite sex in the future, and you will blame your mother. " Mom doesn't have to doubt your relationship with friends of the opposite sex. If you can handle the relationship with friends of the opposite sex generously and naturally, your popularity will not be very bad. "Xiaoru heard this, and felt that her mother understood her very well, secretly glad that she had such an enlightened mother.
If parents can look at the relationship between girls and heterosexual friends with an open mind, then girls will get along with heterosexual friends with a sunny mind and proper purpose, so parents don't have to worry about her relationship with heterosexual friends. In the example, Xiaoru's mother, Ms. Gong, is an enlightened mother, and her handling method can be used for reference by all parents.
Cultivate children's awareness of healthy communication II. The importance of communication.
1, people are social animals, and people can't live alone. Everyone needs to get information from others every day, learn from others' experience and wisdom, communicate and coordinate, and cooperate to complete the work, so it is very necessary to cultivate interpersonal skills.
2. Children's social development refers to active social communication, establishing harmonious social relations, mastering and observing certain codes of conduct, and controlling their own behavioral abilities to adapt to the psychological characteristics of society.
The future society needs our next generation to have strong social communication and activity ability. Today, however, our children are all only children. They have parents, grandparents, grandparents and other relatives who love and care about them and give them whatever they want, for fear that they can't wait for him. They have lived in a unit similar to an "independent kingdom" since birth, and they are "little emperors" in this "kingdom". They don't lack anything, but they lack opportunities to communicate and cooperate with others. They all have a bad habit more or less-they don't fit in. For example, some children are selfish and don't let others touch his or her things; Some children are a little domineering and love to lose their temper; There are also some children who don't like to talk and blush when they meet people. These bad habits will hinder their future social activities. Therefore, it is very necessary to cultivate social skills from early childhood.
4. Whether children can actively adapt to various environments in the future, whether they can coordinate the relationship with others and the collective, whether they can bravely shoulder social responsibilities, and whether they can treat life optimistically depends on their life accumulation and education in early childhood. In a sense, social education in early childhood is more important than spreading knowledge and training skills.
Second, the reasons that affect children's communication skills
1. Almost all the children in the city are only children. They are easily spoiled since childhood, and generally have the characteristics of self-willed.
2. Living in the world of reinforced concrete for a long time, I lack the opportunity to communicate with nature, especially the feeling of running in nature with my partners, and I can't feel the information and happiness from nature. Their collective consciousness and team spirit are weaker, and they will rely more on their families than children in rural areas. In addition, because their family conditions are better, many things need not be taken care of by themselves, and their parents will take their place, which makes many children lose the opportunity to communicate with others.
With modern equipment such as TV, DVD and computer, children can kill time without leaving home. The more you watch TV, the worse your interpersonal skills. Because when watching TV, people always passively accept information, and their imagination and initiative are greatly limited. In the process of human development, children need to make eye contact with others, need to make physical contact and communication with others, need to actively form a unique image in their minds, and need to experience the effects of their actions. But television deprived them of these opportunities. In other words, the opportunity to experience touch, action, dialogue, etc. It's all reduced.
4. Children's personality and mental illness will also affect their communication skills.
So, how to cultivate children's communicative competence?
1, create an environment and opportunities for children to communicate.
2. Carry out sharing activities and teach children communication methods.
3. Hold festivals to increase opportunities for children to communicate.
4. Play role games to improve children's communication skills.
5. Be good at discovering advantages and creating opportunities for collective communication.
6. Pay attention to the individual differences of children in communication.
7. Pay attention to setting an example for parents.