1, social function. Socialization is realized through the interaction between individuals and social environment, which is the only way for students to grow from natural persons to social persons. The process of human socialization began from the day of birth, and people fell into interpersonal communication from birth: first, they relied on the care of their parents to provide them with food, clothing, shelter and care. At the same time, he should also accept the influence of his parents and others to adapt his behavior to the needs of the surrounding environment. Therefore, interpersonal relationship is a bridge of personal socialization. For teenagers, the most important thing is to communicate with peers, which has the greatest influence on people because it is an equal relationship. In contact with their peers, teenagers find that some of their words and deeds are liked by their peers. In return, this kind of liking will increase the frequency of these words and deeds, on the contrary, it will reduce the frequency of some words and deeds. In this way, they gradually learned to adjust their behavior. In adolescence, teenagers often listen to the opinions of their peers, and their influence may exceed that of parents and teachers. If the family is the first place for people to socialize, then the partner is the second place. In the communication with family members and peers, I have accumulated the experience of social life and learned the necessary knowledge, skills, attitudes, ethics and social norms, so as to gradually get rid of the tendency of self-centeredness, realize the existence of collectives and society, realize my position and responsibility in society, learn to get along with and compete on an equal footing, and form the habit of abiding by laws and moral norms, thus becoming self-reliant in society and gaining social recognition.
2. The role of physical and mental health and development. The most important adaptation of students' psychological adaptation is the adaptation to interpersonal relationships. The mental health problems of students are mainly caused by the imbalance of interpersonal relationships. Interpersonal communication can regulate people's psychology. Frequent communication with people will enrich people's spiritual life, meet people's psychological needs, and feel happy and gratified. If they lose the opportunity to communicate with others, or rarely communicate with others, they will feel empty and lost. If they have more troubles and sorrows, they will feel happy and gratified.
As a member of society, people have a strong need to get along with others. Through mutual communication, telling personal feelings, love, hate and fear will cause mutual feelings, thus psychologically generating a sense of belonging and security. Bacon put it most thoroughly: "When you feel angry and depressed because of setbacks, you can relieve it by talking to your close friends." . Otherwise, this kind of depression will make people sick ... only to friends can you talk about your troubles and happiness, fears and hopes, questions and comfort.
In short, all the burdens on your mind are shared through the shoulders of friendship. "In life, it is not difficult to find that people who have more time and space for communication tend to have richer spiritual life and healthier body and mind. On the contrary, those who are withdrawn and unsociable tend to have more troubles and worries, so there will be more physical and mental health problems. If you want to know more about students' mental health, please go to Baibai Safety Net.