My wife is lazy, what should I do?

My wife is lazy and eats snacks all over the floor, and the dust on the cupboard can extract a complete palm print. Looking back at her, nothing happened. Looking at the mess at home after marriage, I found that my wife's diligence and virtue before marriage were all false, and it was really miserable to face her laziness after marriage! First, the wife is lazy. She does nothing about housework, but she is too lazy. She basically does nothing at home except washing underwear. Cooking? If she cooks, I must be dreaming! Washing dishes, clearing the table, mopping the floor, cleaning the room, ironing clothes and washing clothes are all impossible. What should I do? Solution: 1 On the bright side, at least she washed her underwear. Before, a brother complained that his wife's underwear was piled up, and then she threw it away. You are much happier than him. If you love her very much, you must be reluctant to let her suffer. Think about it, lest she become a yellow-faced woman prematurely. Show yourself more, do it yourself, and have plenty of food and clothing! Ask someone to do it for you. Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. If she just can't do housework, let her earn money and then hire an hourly worker to do these jobs instead of her. Second, the wife is lazy. I spoiled her. I felt sorry for my wife when she was pregnant. I didn't ask her to do anything. I didn't expect her laziness to become a habit. I didn't do any housework before giving birth. Even the children are not diligent and do nothing but feed. Every day when I go home, I watch TV and play computer, and the child cries and ignores it. I was told to do anything. I'm mom and dad, my husband and nanny, and I have to go to work. I am almost exhausted. I tried to communicate with her several times, but she always felt that giving birth was very painful. I agree with her, but she must also understand me! I can't hold on any longer. What should I do? Solution: 1 What do you call this? Can't you live if you commit a crime? Who says pregnant women can't do housework? Proper exercise is good for your health. All this is an afterthought, but you must realize that the present situation is basically your own making. First of all, you have to start from yourself and get rid of your habit of doing everything. Since you are psychologically unbalanced, don't do everything. If she doesn't do it, don't do it. Don't spoil her. 2, regardless of the children, you still use it, but this is a bit too much. How can a mother be so selfish? This habit cannot be condoned. When the child is crying, whenever necessary, if she orders you, just tell her that she is a mother and she has the responsibility and obligation to take care of the child. If she can ignore the children in order to be angry with you, it is not a problem of laziness, but a problem of personality. The problem will be very big. You should seriously consider whether you can spend your life with such a person. Talk to her about your hard work and troubles. * * * We can discuss a solution together, earn money and hire hourly workers, but the bottom line is that she must do her mother's duty and take care of the children by herself. Try to ask her parents for help. If she has reasonable parents, it is better to talk to them and let them come forward to educate her daughter. But don't complain to your parents, lest the problem be complicated and the relationship with your mother-in-law deteriorate. Faced with the problem of his wife being lazy, many male compatriots are complaining.