First of all, we should have a positive learning attitude. Attitude is feeling and belief, which largely determines how we perceive its environment and how to devote ourselves to the final work. Attitude forms a psychological stereotype, which will affect how we look at our career. If you want to succeed in your career, you must keep a positive attitude towards learning.
Learning is like a battlefield. Only by studying wholeheartedly, not afraid of difficulties and meeting challenges can we have the last laugh. God is fair, and everything is the same to us. The same teachers teach and the same learning environment, why do some learn well and some learn poorly? Why not look for reasons from yourself? In class, the teacher taught us to speak actively and talk about our own experiences. I thought I knew everything, so I deserted and was dumbfounded when I was doing my homework. I don't know where to fill it out. This kind of situation is still a bit common in class, just to do the problem. Reminds me that "the fish wants what I want, and the bear's paw wants what I want." You can't have your cake and eat it. The one who gets the fish takes the bear's paw. " We study like paws and play like fish. You can't have it both ways. Playing will bring happiness, and then it will be empty. Learning will bring knowledge, and after mastering knowledge, there will be endless wealth. Our intelligence is not lower than others, but we lack an attitude, an attitude of being positive, not afraid of difficulties and settling down to learn. This is the key to failure. Down-to-earth, earnest is the secret of success. Playing and learning are opposites, and they are bound to succeed.
The second is to have an optimistic attitude towards life. I remember a scholar vividly compared life: a person's life is like a baby's first cry. Although bitter, it is brand-new and tender. No matter what setbacks and hardships you encounter, nothing can beat you as long as you don't give up on yourself. Optimism is an open-minded performance, the purpose of good health, the foundation of interpersonal communication, the guarantee of smooth work and the magic weapon to avoid setbacks. Look at the world with optimism, the world is infinitely beautiful and full of hope. Our life will be full of sunshine, and learning will be easier, so that we can learn faster and better.
The next step is a healthy attitude and a grateful attitude. Success requires a healthy mind. A philosopher said, "Your mentality is your real master." A great man once said, "Either you control life, or life controls you." Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. "Why can Napoleon resist the pressure and dominate the world? Why did Hamming Keller still have a bright dream when he was blind? The secret is that a "healthy mind" is at work! As long as we are optimistic and generous everywhere, bad emotions will be far away from us, and we can live happily every day, and we can create a sunny sky in students' psychology and fill the hearts of educated people with warm sunshine!
Gratitude and filial piety are the first, and gratitude and filial piety are the source. Parents give us life and nurture us to grow up. In my life, how much effort, price and sacrifice my parents have paid for us. We are the work of our parents, and we have devoted their efforts. Motherly love is the most selfless and greatest love in the world, and the kindness of dripping water still needs to be rewarded by the spring, let alone the kindness of parents! We really should thank our parents and all those who help and care about us, but this does not include all gratitude. Gratitude is a positive thinking and tolerant attitude. Gratitude is a state of mind and a debt buried in our hearts for a lifetime. If a person only appreciates those who have helped him, it is still stingy. Be indifferent to gratitude. Grateful people will also be guilty people, and innocent people will not be grateful. They will be called by Chinese medicine. I remember a poem called "Pain", which wrote: "Pain is a medicine given to us by God, as deep as a sea of suffering. ....., what is lost from joy can often be recovered from pain. The pain is profound, and it is the tuition we pay for a lifetime. ……"。 We should also be grateful to those who have hurt ourselves, because they have honed your mentality; Be grateful to those who have deceived yourself, because they have improved your wisdom; Be grateful to those who once despised yourself, because they awakened your self-esteem; Be grateful for failure, because it makes you a rich man. ...
Besides, I think we all need tolerance and understanding. In this way, there is no trouble. Isn't happiness eternal? So I suggest that when I get along with my colleagues, I should think more and remember the contributions of others for a long time. For those who have opposed you and hurt you, for those unpleasant past events and emotions, let them drift with the wind. If we are all like Marshal Zhu De said in his poem. If you have a good world outlook and an open mind, you will naturally have nothing to think about, your spirit will naturally be relaxed and happy, your mood will naturally be beautiful and broad, you can treat others generously and peacefully, and you can create a better world.
It is common for students to have misunderstandings and even conflicts. The key is how to solve the contradiction. Tolerance of others will take the initiative to forgive others' mistakes and laugh it off; Some people can turn enemies into friends and conquer others with tolerance. These practices are conducive to solving problems and harmonizing friends. Love can resolve conflicts, eliminate suspicion, jealousy and hatred and make the world a better place. The sea is wide, the blue sky is wider than the sea, and our hearts are wider than the blue sky. People don't haggle over trifles and get furious. This is a different performance between an open-minded person and a person who is never willing to let himself suffer. "A great heart is like an ocean. There may be icebergs, but it will never freeze. Friends let us learn to be open-minded and be an open-minded person! Only in this way can we solve the contradiction.
I think we all know now, so be a healthy and sunny person!