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I. Description of the case
Segment 1: Yusi's children are smart and sensible, and they are very popular with teachers! I just got up at noon that day, and the girls were all waiting in line to comb their hair. Lele said, "Teacher, Yusi cut in line." Yus looked at me and said nothing. I said gently, "If you really cut in line, would you please wait in line again?" We should be children who know manners! "Yu Si listened to my words and silently curled his lips and began to cry. ...
The second paragraph: One day in class, the children were very interested in learning and actively answered questions. In order to let more children express themselves, I can only ask each child once. It also affirmed and praised the baby who often raised his hand. Just after the activity, the children of Yus came running to me with tears in their eyes. I didn't know until I asked carefully that it was because the teacher didn't ask her often that she began to cry! I explained, comforted and encouraged her to be strong! But she didn't listen and cried for a long time before she stopped.
Second, the case analysis
Later, I chatted with Yusi's mother and learned that Yusi lives in a big family, and everyone in the family likes babies very much. Everyone dotes on her and lets her do everything. She has developed a delicate and crying character and can't stand any grievances. For example, parents always obey the baby's wishes under the torture of their children crying; In addition, children have poor self-control, emotional instability, impulsive, and often use stubbornness to vent their dissatisfaction, which further encourages wayward behavior. When the baby is disobedient, the parents feel helpless, so they let themselves go and become willful over time.
Third, educational strategies.
1. Take game activities to correct.
In view of thinking about language, I designed some activities in my class. Through these activities, the baby can raise awareness and actively coordinate the relationship between himself and the environment, thus reducing the occurrence of willful behavior. For example, the language activity "I have grown up", through observation and telling, allows Yus to compare himself with the present and know that he has grown up and is more sensible. Encourage her to be a small host in corner activities and learn to obey the rules, restrain herself and unite and help each other in performances. In health activities, constantly exercise children's strong will.
2. Implement short-term "cold treatment".
Sometimes, it is necessary for teachers to deliberately ignore children's bad behaviors, especially impulsive thinking, and implement short-term "cold treatment" when necessary. For example, in an outdoor activity, she deliberately disobeyed and ran to other areas to play. I said, "Don't go there, today is not our activity area." In silence, suddenly began to cry. I was trying to comfort him. You could have told me a few times before, which would only add fuel to the fire and she would cry more and more fiercely. So I ignored him, and gradually her voice became smaller. Seeing that she was basically calm, I quietly said to him, "Good boy corrects mistakes, and the teacher likes it very much." When she meets her wayward behavior when she is active again, she can be temporarily deprived of the right to participate in an activity. After several times, the language of thinking has made great progress.
3. Seize the opportunity and encourage in time.
Teachers should be good at discovering and capturing valuable educational opportunities in daily life and conducting random education. Once, Yus accidentally broke her finger in outdoor activities, but she didn't cry. After I saw it, I said in front of the whole class in time, "Look! Yusi was great today, and I won't cry for a little thing in the future, will I? " From then on, whenever Yus wanted to cry, I encouraged him with it and really made great progress.
4. Family cooperation.
The purpose of education is to let children maintain positive and happy emotions, positive and healthy emotions and behaviors at home, in the garden and in society, which requires the close cooperation of teachers and parents. Parents who ask for timely affirmation of their children's positive practices; Know the reasons why children make mistakes in advance, don't solve problems by hitting people, but teach him the methods and skills to solve contradictions correctly. Guide others to be kind and polite.
After a period of education and correction, the willful behavior of thinking language has been reduced and obvious progress has been made in all aspects. He can come to kindergarten happily, his mood is stable during the activity, and his requirements for his mother are reduced. Become fond of painting and have patience. Know how to get along well with peers. Knowing how to obey the rules and not crying at will can better control your behavior. His peers also recognized him, often recommended him as the team leader, and constantly urged him to control his bad behavior. However, to put an end to willful behavior completely, kindergarten and family Qi Xin need to work together convincingly and gradually realize it. The children of Yusi will become naive, lively and all-round children.
extreme
Serena is a junior, a child with strong personality, intelligence, courtesy and love of labor, and also a very free child. I made an investigation on such a special child:
First, the family:
His parents are self-employed owners, mainly selling flowers. Busy at work, I always feel that my children are very good. Serena has lived in such a family environment since childhood, which has a certain influence on his growth. His parents' love for him is a kind of indulgence, and he doesn't know how to educate his children. The educational methods are different when there are problems, which makes him very indulgent and aggressive in kindergarten.
Second, the kindergarten:
From small class to large class, several teachers said: He is a naughty boy, who often plays pranks and puts nose-sucking paper in other children's clothes. In view of this situation, I discussed and studied with his teacher: I think naughty children also have their bright spots, so we should start with his bright spots and carry out education that pays something back.
Advantages:
Love labor, often help children move chairs and help teachers clean tables in class. Smart and eager to learn, although I can't speak clearly, I especially like telling stories and have strong oral expression skills. After listening to the child's story once or twice, the teacher will tell it to other children.
Disadvantages: poor self-control, lack of discipline and strong attack ability.
Physiology:
He can't speak clearly because his tongue is different from other children's. The tongue sticking out is round, while other children are sharp. It may be the tongue, he can't say clearly, and there may be physiological differences.
I asked his parents this question, and his parents always said: Busy, no time to take him to the doctor.
Serena will become a primary school student this year. He studied and lived in our kindergarten for three years, and his ability has been developed in all directions. I sincerely wish Serena a better development in the new learning environment. At the same time, I also hope that his parents will take some time to go to the hospital after work to check Serena's physical defects and give full play to Serena's advantages in oral expression.
Tisso
In real life, if you hear "Why are you so annoying?" "Look at you, why are you always doing bad things? Your new car is broken again?" And so on, it must be that adults are scolding naughty children. As a result, adults are full of helplessness and anger, while children are full of fear and bewilderment. # # What a naughty boy.
# # When he first entered kindergarten, his playfulness was often revealed: he climbed all over the floor, grabbed toys, hit people, and wet the bed almost every day during his nap. If you ask him, he will frown and stare at you with a little stubbornness and rebellion. This semester, I had a detailed communication with my parents and introduced my children to them. At the same time, we also know that parents are busy at work on weekdays and hire hourly workers to pick up and drop off their children. They don't give enough guidance to children, and they advocate letting nature take its course conceptually, which leads to children's indifference to right and wrong and more bad behaviors. After some communication, we have a common understanding of children's behavior.
# Although naughty, the child is innocent, and we began to accept him with our heart. A praise book was established for him to encourage children's positive behavior by sending small stickers. Parents' ideas have also changed. The day after the parent-teacher conference, # came to the kindergarten wearing clean clothes. In order to prevent children from wetting the bed, we wake up # # to urinate during a nap every day; Encourage him in group activities; Teach him how to communicate with others when he is free; Give him a small sticker as long as he makes a little progress. This week, we also made him the head of the small table. At that time, we told him to take care of himself before taking care of the children. He nodded firmly and said, "I am a good boy."
Starting from # #, I think we should accept "naughty" children from the following three aspects: first, love children rationally; Second, respect children and give them some free space. Third, be good at discovering the advantages of children and give them praise in time.