Is to realize the importance of self-improvement. Personality perfection refers to the result of a person's constant self-cognition, self-improvement and perfection. In psychology, personality generally refers to a person's unique and relatively stable behavior pattern. The famous British psychologist Eysenck pointed out: "Personality is the personal character, temperament, ability and physiological characteristics that determine a person's adaptation to the environment."
Therefore, in life, how others look at you and talk about you are illuminating the advantages and disadvantages of your personality. In this respect, you can only improve yourself through constant attention. This is different from children, who are urged by their parents all day to correct their shortcomings and form some standardized behaviors. The perfect personality of an adult is that he can't pass himself, can't read his own spells, and can't fight himself.
(B) cultivate self-confidence
Is to build a belief. In psychology, personality generally refers to the sum of cognition, emotion, motivation and behavior acquired by a person. In the first 10 years of life, congenital inheritance plays a leading role in individual personality, but with the growth of age, the personality factors cultivated after birth play a more and more leading role. Therefore, personality is actually a behavior way for individuals to adapt to the environment. Therefore, people can change their personality through conscious cultivation and efforts.
Cultivate self-criticism
Is to evaluate yourself objectively. Sometimes people tend to be arrogant and ignore the opinions and suggestions given by others. But in fact, others' evaluation of themselves may be more objective and specific than self-evaluation. We should avoid self-isolation, trust others and accept the shortcomings pointed out by others with an open mind. In fact, no matter how the other person is, for us, it is a mirror that can be reflected from me. At the same time, we should consciously expand our social circle and get more feedback from people. Only in this way can we know and improve ourselves more comprehensively and objectively.
(D) cultivate self-discipline
Is to put it into action Even a small change or symbolic plan is a hundred times better than a plan that stays in your mind. Believe that you can grow and change, and believe that action is the best way to change yourself and get close to your ideal personality. Especially when the idea of self-improvement is just born, it is the most motivated time to act, so we should act as soon as possible.