After listening to the lecture on adolescence, it is urgent to have 500 words of self-love education.
Outside the school, you can easily see some boys humming songs like "Why not play on the earth, no matter how many years you waste …" while smoking cigarettes. You can easily see it in the shadow of a corner of the road.
A pair of male and female middle school students carrying schoolbags are inseparable; Of course, it is not difficult for you to see students who are full of foul language when they have a little argument with others. When the teacher says a few words, they dare to blow their beards and stare, flashing eyes full of hatred but dare not vent their anger ... Therefore, we think it is imperative to carry out "self-love education" among students. Self-love education is self-esteem, self-respect, self-motivation, self-confidence, self-improvement and self-reliance; Be responsible for yourself, be strict with yourself, be lenient with others, be positive and benefit others, in order to truly benefit yourself. Selfishness, complacency, bring disgrace to oneself, self-destruction. The first point of "self-love education" is to help lonely and indifferent students overcome diseases and devote themselves to their studies with healthy psychology and full energy. According to the psychological survey just finished by the State Education Commission, there are 500,000 autistic children in China, and the problem is very serious. Among college students, the proportion of boys with mental health problems is 24.72%, and the proportion of girls is 1 1.88%. Among the middle school students in 14- 18 age group, the problem in 17 age group is the most serious. 1From June 5 to February, 1995, seven students from Shenyang No.8 Middle School committed suicide by taking sleeping pills. The only reason they committed suicide was that it was boring to live.
In the severe loneliness and indifference, many students are in a daze, stealing boats and breaking cans like losing their immunity. Juvenile criminal gangs such as "One Phoenix in Kowloon" and "Eight donkey kong" came into being.
According to the statistics of the Ministry of Public Security, the crime rate of primary and secondary school students has reached 72% of juvenile delinquency. What a shocking number!
Secondly, helping students overcome their weariness of learning is an important aspect of implementing "self-love education". A survey conducted by Jining Education Commission in the second half of last year showed that the rate of primary and secondary school students' weariness was as high as 47%, that is, nearly half of them hated school, school, homework and teachers. Although the reasons for being tired of learning are nothing more than social influence, family influence and mutual infection among classmates, as a school, we are fully responsible for stepping up efforts to help students overcome this "disease". Students don't even love learning, which is the biggest "don't love themselves"!
The third is to carry out labor education. According to some data, many countries pay attention to arranging certain working hours for primary school students. The average in the United States is 1.2 hours, in South Korea it is 0.7 hours, in France it is 0.6 hours, and in China it is only 0.2 hours, that is, children are allowed to "work" 12 minutes every day. Many parents in cities don't even arrange working hours for their children. We should remember that labor education is the education of labor quality, and it is also related to the future living standards and happiness of citizens. We should realize that a carefree and smooth childhood environment is the most suitable soil for turning a good child into a lazy child. Therefore, I think that labor education is an effective "self-love education", which makes students love labor and experience the hardships of labor, so as to cherish their youth, learning opportunities and themselves. The best teacher in America said, "The best students do housework!" "
Fourth, ideological and political lessons must not be relaxed. In view of the rising trend of juvenile delinquency, teachers are obliged to take appropriate measures to instill in students the concept of the rule of law and the correct outlook on life, values and love. The first few aspects are easy to understand. Now, what we want to ask is whether we can teach young students a noble concept of love in an appropriate way, which is a new topic and problem facing education in the new period. According to Wen Wei Po data, the minimum age of crime in China is 14 years old, and the minimum STD patient is only 17 years old!
According to the investigation of some puppy love students, "Love creed" is actually a popular song: I don't want to last forever, I just want to have it. A survey of 20,000 cases of sexual behavior ended with 1.990 shows that the rate of sexual experience among middle school students in China is about 0.9%, with more than 1 10,000 people. Six years later, how should we look at this problem? I met such a person when I interviewed and investigated the long reportage "China Soul Landscape" for more than half a year.
A boy in Grade Two is "very close to everything". Finally, a cliche: don't give up "poor students" and don't "kill them with a stick". Many schools have ways to deal with "poor students" such as "diversion and stratification", which often makes underachievers feel inferior, destroys their self-motivation and is difficult to educate. Professor Dong Fuhe of Tianjin University said: Years of teaching practice has proved that the fast-slow class has saved a batch and abandoned a batch, and self-love education is really not good. The most important thing is to let the underachievers summon up courage and let them re-establish their lofty ideals. In Xue Ji, the educational strategy of predecessors is summarized as "saving the lost by doing good", while the underachievers need more love and deeper love. "To achieve talent, don't suffer from its inner quality is not beautiful, suffering from her husband's teacher's knowledge is unknown. The teacher's learning situation is unknown. Although it is beautiful, it is impossible. " Let's remember what Hao Cheng said!
"Self-love education" is urgent.
After listening to the lecture on adolescent knowledge, we learned a lot about youth, which benefited me a lot.
In the lecture, I learned that adolescence generally refers to the period between 10 and 19. During adolescence, the body shape will change greatly, and the height, weight, internal organs and bones will increase rapidly. Adolescence should pay special attention to nutrition, eat more protein-rich food, fresh fruits and vegetables, do more radio gymnastics, exercise reasonably and avoid catching a cold.
For us girls, we should pay attention to hygiene. We can't swim or sit in the bathtub. Can't eat cold food; Maintain an optimistic and comfortable mood and get enough sleep; Exercise properly, not violently; We should prevent colds and eat less salt. Also pay attention to keep warm and eat less sex food.
Adolescence is a precious period in life. We should grasp this period well and study hard. If we ignore this period, we will regret it all our lives. Students, let's join hands to grasp youth and cheer for it!
I have heard of adolescence, which means looking forward to the past now and regretting what I think now in the future. Thinking, why didn't you slow down at the beginning?
The sunshine mentality of adolescence [after reading the sunshine mentality]
Reflections on shaping the sunshine mentality
Sunshine nourishes the growth of all things. Without sunshine, flowers and trees will wither. Without sunshine, there would be no light on the earth. Sunshine is the embodiment of vitality, and "sunshine" is indispensable in our life!
The quality of life depends on your daily state of mind. If you can guarantee that you are in a good mood now, you can guarantee that you are in a good mood today. If you can keep yourself in a good mood every day, you will get a good quality of life and experience a beautiful life that others can't. Enjoy life with a sunny mind and be good at discovering beauty. There is no shortage of beauty in life, but discovery. Learn to appreciate every moment, love life, and not forgiving others means giving others a chance to continue to hurt you. Learn to let go, forget what should be forgotten and remember what should be remembered. So, try your best, and don't let him go. If we can think like this, our mood will be better and our mentality will be better.
Mentality is the control tower for us to control life. Different mentality leads to different lives, and this difference will be very different. Mentality determines fate, and mentality determines success or failure. Mentality is acquired. We can achieve our career and change our lives by cultivating our mentality.
In real life and work, we can easily find that many people often sulk and complain about things that are helpless and subjectively unchangeable; They don't consider the objective differences of hometown, foreign land, family and enterprise, because the world is colorful, and everyone has different life experiences, different families, different specialties and different living and growing environments; There is no need to feel inferior and lose faith because you are inferior to others in some aspects, because you must have many abilities or specialties that others do not have, but you have not been discovered by others or you have not found the right opportunity to display them; Each of us can accept the fact that we can't change, and try to adjust our mentality on the premise of accepting the objective environment. If we can't change things, we will change our attitude towards this matter. If you can't change others, change yourself. The matter itself is not important, what matters is people's attitude towards it. When attitudes change, things will change.
Since "you can't decide the length of life, but you can expand its width, you can't change your natural appearance, but you can always smile, you can't expect to control others, but you can master yourself well;"
[Sunshine Mentality Comment] Essay: Everything in this world is done by hope. If a farmer never wants a corn to grow into a seed, he will not peel it; A bachelor will never get married if he never wants to have children; A businessman will not go to work if he doesn't want to make a profit from it.
After listening to "One-armed Master Huang You's Inspirational Gratitude Speech", I feel grateful and learn to be grateful. Thanksgiving parents, grateful teachers, grateful to all those who love me, grateful to society. Love is an eternal theme, everyone needs love, because love makes the world wonderful. After listening to teacher Huang You's inspirational thanksgiving speech, I deeply realized the greatness of love, quietly. ...
Adolescence is a period of rapid changes in physiology, psychology and social behavior, a period of qualitative change in life, a period of breaking away from the way of understanding in childhood, producing new self-concepts and psychologically rebuilding life. How to cultivate teenagers' healthy psychology?
(1) Correct self-concept. Correct self-concept is an important condition for mental health. Only when a person knows himself correctly can he behave appropriately, adapt to study and work, develop himself diligently and educate himself actively. If his self-concept is incorrect, he may think highly of himself, think himself great and do things beyond his power. He may also feel ashamed and refuse to express himself truly, thus forming a heavy psychological burden and unable to calm down.
(2) Moderate ambition. It is necessary to understand the requirements of society for individuals, which are allowed by the environment and which are not allowed, and their changing trends. We should be good at comprehensively analyzing the advantages and disadvantages of individuals and the advantages and disadvantages of the environment, tap the favorable factors of the environment, give full play to the advantages of individuals, on the one hand, fight against fate, transform the objective, on the other hand, adjust the subjective, determine the appropriate level of ambition, and avoid doing things that cause setbacks;
(3) Harmonious interpersonal relationship. When getting along with people, their positive attitude (such as respect, trust, friendship, etc. ) is always more than negative attitude (such as hatred, doubt, fear, etc. ), and they have a sense of unity, security and * * * for the collective they belong to, and they are always willing to sacrifice their personal desires for the happiness of the collective;
The harmony between individual and society. When their own needs and desires conflict with the requirements of society and the happiness of others, they should give up and modify their own action plans in order to seek harmony with society;
(5) Pour out the accumulated depression in your heart. Long-term suppression of ideological and emotional contradictions in the heart will affect brain function and cause psychological obstacles. Only by pouring out your emotional problems can you feel comfortable and play a certain stabilizing role.
Three stages of adolescent sexual psychological development
Adolescence is the intermediate stage of children's transition to adults. During this period, children have undergone drastic changes in physiology and psychology, especially with the development of sexual organs and the emergence of secondary sexual characteristics, boys and girls have also undergone great changes in psychology, reflecting obvious sexual psychological characteristics.
Teenagers generally go through the following three stages of development in sexual psychology.
1. Temporary alienation from the opposite sex
In the short period of youth development, middle school students tend to avoid students of the opposite sex, which is most obvious for girls. This is mainly related to physiological factors. Because of the appearance of the second sex, middle school students feel at a loss and shy about their own drastic changes, instinctively alienate the opposite sex, and even hate the opposite sex.
This period will last about 1 year. After the onset of puberty, because the differences between boys and girls in shape and function are more and more obvious, the childhood of unrestrained slapstick and laughter ended in mutual contact, and there was a brief alienation.
They seldom associate with each other in their studies and activities. Because of the different personalities of men and women, boys will feel that girls are delicate, timid and open-minded at this stage; Girls, on the other hand, hate boys' rudeness, naughty and ignorance. This phenomenon generally appears in the upper grades of primary school to the first and second grades of junior high school.
2. Respect for the elderly
In the middle stage of adolescent development, middle school students often arouse their admiration, admiration and yearning for some outstanding people in literature, sports, knowledge and appearance (mostly elderly people of the same sex or the opposite sex) in the surrounding environment, and try their best to imitate the words and deeds of these elderly people, even fascinated.
3. Longing for the opposite sex
With the continuous development of body and mind, teenagers are full of curiosity, anxiety and even fear about the development of secondary sexual characteristics, and are eager to know about sexual knowledge. In the late adolescence, with the maturity of sexual development, middle school students tend to be interested in the opposite sex of the same age, hoping to get in touch with him or her, or trying to attract his or her attention on various occasions. However, because middle school students are emotionally unstable and have strong self-awareness, they are prone to conflicts in the process of contact, or they quarrel or even break up because of trivial matters, so their communication partners will change, showing that Zhang San is good today, and Li Si is good tomorrow.
Temporary alienation from the opposite sex lasts for a short time. After this short period of time, boys and girls soon have a close need and have a psychological attraction to each other. I like playing games, doing homework and participating in various social activities together. If the development of teenagers' sexual consciousness in this period is not correctly guided, there may be bad tendencies such as puppy love. Even ignore homework and group activities. Naturally, normal sexual intercourse between men and women should be accepted and encouraged. Liking the opposite sex does not mean falling in love. Teenagers should grasp it correctly.
How to help children through adolescence is not to educate more (especially to preach, he will stay away from you and regret it), but to communicate more, treat them equally, and be like friends. It is a trick to play jokes on children often.
Growing up happily in adolescence, I feel happy after listening to it, just like a beautiful colorful phoenix emitting holy light to purify everyone's soul; Happiness is like a shelter from the wind and rain, dedicated to the unknown; Happiness is like a piece of honey, sweet to everyone's heart, and the angel of happiness will always be with me. On the road of my growth, I was always full of happiness.
I am happy because I give. A tabloid competition to celebrate the centenary of our school. Hearing this news, I was secretly pleased: painting is my strong point, and this time I will show my talents. After coming home from school, I confidently took out my pen and paper and prepared to do it at one go. But things are not as simple as I thought, and I felt at a loss when I first started designing the layout. It just confirms an ancient saying, "It's easier to think of than to do." But I am not discouraged. I insist on designing and painting. How time flies! It's half past ten in the blink of an eye. I just feel my arms are sore, and I have been fighting and sleepy. I rubbed my eyes and reminded myself: Don't fall asleep. The teacher is still waiting to receive the manuscript tomorrow. How can I live up to the teacher's ardent hope for me? I pulled myself together and didn't finish it until after midnight. At this time, I felt relieved.
00 the next morning, I handed my tabloid to my teacher and found it "perfect". After reading it, the teacher pointed out many shortcomings to me. After repeated revisions, my tabloid has become more refined. The day of awarding prizes has finally arrived! On that day, all the teachers and students gathered in the playground to hold an award ceremony, and I listened to the list of winners in fear and trembling. When I heard my name, my heart almost jumped into my throat. God helps those who help themselves. I actually won the only special prize in my grade group. I excitedly ran to the podium, holding a glittering and translucent trophy in my hand and a bright smile on my face. The students in the audience cast envious eyes on me, and the teacher smiled with relief. I am happy about this, from which I know that as long as I work hard, I will get something. Although I am tired, I feel happy.
I am happy because I have the love of my parents. Strict father's loving mother doesn't often appear in my life. A serious father will not treat his beloved daughter with a straight face, but he will not laugh happily all day. I thought my father's smile was bought with grades, but later I realized it wasn't. As long as I can grow up healthily and happily, they will be satisfied. Mom won't make me fight naval battles. She always reminds me with actions: form good study habits from childhood, and good habits can benefit you for life. Now I am the first in my study, and I have won many prizes for painting. How much effort and sweat have been devoted to parents here. They are unknown every day and take pains to send me to and from school.
I clearly remember going to a classmate's house to play without informing my father in advance. When I remembered to call my father, it was nearly an hour before school was over. After dialing the phone, my father's hoarse voice and heavy gasps came from the phone. It's not hard to imagine my father looking for me, asking around and running around. I am immersed in the love of my parents every day. Will I be unhappy?
I am very happy, because I can play games and laugh with my friends. I am happy, because I can understand the true meaning of being a man from the teacher's criticism; I am happy because my parents love me and teach me truth and life experience. Happiness is everywhere, happiness is everywhere, as long as you dig, look and explore, you will eventually find it and get it. I am looking for happiness in my growth, and I am thriving in happiness!
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