A man is not nice to you because he listens to his mother. Are you still married?

When you see me on Zhihu, there is a question: What kind of man can you accept the most? The top three are cheating, violence and baby boy. The first and second are not unjust at all, and the third is actually Ma Baonan! Some people even say that it is better to marry an unfilial son than a mother! It seems that Ma Baonan has become a monster in the eyes of young women, and everyone is talking about it.

What kind of man is a baby boy? In this era of labeling when a word is inconsistent, I am afraid that only the parties can understand the truth! My family has a neighbor, Zhou Jie, whose husband died of illness in his early forties. At that time, their only son, Dongzi, was still studying in other provinces. After several years of hardship, Zhou Jie quietly saved money to pay off the debts her husband borrowed in the hospital, and also sponsored Dongzi to finish his graduate studies. Dongzi stayed in the provincial capital to work after graduation, and received good treatment in all aspects. He also lived up to expectations. After working for a year, he took out a mortgage on a house, and after decorating it, he entertained himself with Zhou Jie.

Dongzi is very filial. He travels with Zhou Jie every holiday. He feels sorry for his mother's hard work these years and now wants her to enjoy life when conditions are good. But Zhou Jie felt sorry for the money and anxious about her son's marriage. Not only did she not want to go out to play, but she also privately found a temporary worker to serve the elderly in a nursing home near her home, and asked someone to tell Dongzi about her marriage. Dongzi can't beat his mother. She made friends with a girl through a colleague's introduction, got along well, and got married after a year of love.

I don't know why, but now many young wives think that their mother-in-law is someone else! To say more is to try to control or interfere in her life, refuse to accept the kindness of "others" and completely ignore the man who belongs to her now. Born in October, he was taken care of by "others" and brought up with hardships. "Others" is really not others, she is a mother, even if the child is eighty years old, she is still a child in her heart! So sometimes she will inevitably care about the children's lives, give ideas and make suggestions, all for the children's happiness, and be afraid that the children will go the wrong way and take detours.

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