Second, be patient. Most parents just say a few words. If they can't do it, they will start working. We should guide the children slowly. Their understanding of society has just begun. How can they tell good from evil like you? If children are born, they don't need parents.
Third, put down your identity and make friends with him, so that you can know what he is thinking, likes and dislikes. He is willing to listen to you and communicate with you.
Fourth, respect children's choices and don't pin your dreams on children. The world is not your master. Nothing is right or wrong, nothing is good or bad, let alone let the children go the way you gave them. He wants to go his own way. Some people will say that the child is too young to understand and let him go his own way. What if he goes astray? I mean, I told you not to help him choose, but you must help him correct it. When he goes further and further on this road, you should help him correct it in time, but don't help him make any choice.
Fifth, reduce the comparison, which is the most terrible. Women like to compare with others best. When they were young, they compared looks, money, boyfriends and even a new dress. Later, compared with children, children often begin to get tired of their parents in this comparison, and then get tired of their parents' words and deeds. You have to believe that in this comparison, the child will be destroyed by you.
Sixth, don't insist, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the most correct choice.