First, moderately care for children, don't spoil them. Excessive care and spoil can easily make children overly self-centered and become arrogant people.
Second, don't bribe children, let them understand the relationship between obligations and rights from an early age, and everyone will not enjoy rights if they don't fulfill their obligations. Power and obligation are equal.
Third, help children expand their social circle, encourage children to live, study and play with many friends, and learn how to get along with others through communication.
Fourth, don't force children to do things they can't do. Children's self-confidence needs to be gradually accumulated and cultivated through successful experiences, and children can't be forced to do things they can't do.
Fifth, the attitude towards children should be gentle and firm. Avoid high control and high pressure. It is easy to make children feel inferior, timid and unhealthy.
6. Don't frighten children unnecessarily and deceitfully, which will erase the good impression of parents in their children's minds. Often the authority of parents gradually disappears.
Seven, don't hurt and belittle children in public and in front of others, so as not to cause children to bear grudges and be shy and damage their self-esteem.
8. Praise the child reasonably and moderately. The child has achieved results. Praise what he has done a little. Excessive praise will make the child have a bad psychology of vanity. Let children know their own advantages and feel the sincerity of recognition.
Nine, maintain a stable emotional attitude, treat children, don't be moody, make children at a loss, and form a sensitive, suspicious, emotionally unstable and timid character.