I watched a movie last night, and I couldn't sleep all night because I had something to deal with. At that time, I felt that there was nothing I could do, so I made up my mind to say malicious words, for his good and for my family's good. "You worry me, you know! ..... If you want something, what shall we do? ! ""Although I don't want to, I still want to say that I hope this is the last time. You don't have to go home if you come back late after drinking too much next time! "
But this morning, my mind suddenly turned. I didn't wake him up, but called my brother and asked him to help send the children.
I used to complain that he ignored his family and children for other people's business. Now I think asking my brother to send my second child is just a way for children and uncles to enhance their feelings.
You can't eat today if you haven't finished the housework you agreed with your child yesterday. I am very calm, and the children accept it calmly. Fold the quilt and take the garbage before leaving.
Before the rules were set, they could not be seriously implemented. I'm either worried about my child's disobedience or my child's hunger.
Then I called my mother and heard that she was worried about me. It was freezing cold yesterday, and I was afraid of going out to deliver things to my boss, and my illness got worse. I have also analyzed that my illness is caused by running, washing my hair and taking a bath in the morning. I have said it many times to remind me that it will not be a bad thing!
I used to think that my mother talked too much and repeated it so many times that I knew everything. Now, listening to my mother's criticism of me again and again, I feel very warm and tell my mother that I won't get up early to run, take a shower or wash my hair in the morning. Tell mom to remember to wear a hat, too. It's cold now.
Then call her mother-in-law, see what she is doing, and tell her to put on more clothes, take care of herself and stop being tired. My mother-in-law said excitedly, "When my child was young, I only cared about my work at home. Your mother takes care of the children for you. Now that you are ill, it's my turn to take care of you. I still can't finish the work. Your mother takes care of you. " You still miss me! ""I live a better understanding of this disease, what happens, how to stay. Things are constantly changing. Everyone takes care of themselves. Who knows what will happen in the future? Healthy families can take care of each other. "
What my mother-in-law used to say was my true thoughts, but I didn't want to say it. Now I can say calmly, "I complained before, but I was sick, come on." I hope everyone can be healthy. People are the most important, and everyone should live well. I won't worry about him anymore. I'm too tired to change things. "
Then, I recommend the film to my study partner and contact my patients.
I have contacted the world many times in a short time, and I am very happy. In the middle of the phone, you can still hear the songs of birds, and sometimes you can hear the school bells in the distance. Everything around seems to light up.
Then I got the news that my sister-in-law said that she would help me cook at noon and let me rest. I didn't shirk it as usual, because my fingers and wrists really hurt again when I went out last night.
These are all changes after watching the movie. I suddenly forgave them and put them down.
Suddenly thought of an example, how can you step on the accelerator and brake at the same time!
I used to be like this. I have worked hard in all aspects, but I still can't let go of my grievance model. How can a wronged person run fast!
Now release the brakes, let go of yourself, forgive others, and live in the present, so that the world will be broad and bright and the soul will be light and free! So happy!