1, don't panic.
If you find your child watching some unhealthy videos. First of all, don't make a fuss, because you know more than half of your peers are doing similar things. This shows that children have grown up, which is a normal thing in adolescence.
2. Give your child some information
We know he needs to know some information now. But you don't have to talk to him. Find some suitable videos and put them on the computer. Buy one or two ordinary books and put them on the table. We need to let him accept the correct information and indirectly tell him that it is normal, instead of feeling embarrassed and nervous.
Learn to trust and respect him.
You should give him trust and respect. A child who is always respected will never feel inferior. He will be a decent and generous person.
It is not easy to label children.
For children who watch unhealthy videos, you should avoid putting too negative labels on them in your mind, such as "children don't study well" and "children behave badly", which will destroy the relationship between you and your children. At the same time, it will also make children feel ashamed and wronged.
Expand knowledge:
1, for children entering adolescence, it is normal to be curious about sex. At this stage, their sexual desire will gradually increase. Watching videos and pictures is just a way for them to explore.
2. Parents find their children watching unhealthy videos. At this time, parents need to guide their children to correct their concepts and tell them like friends that you are too young to see these things. When you grow up, you will gradually understand these things, but not now. Don't embarrass the child, it will make him rebel.
Many parenting experts suggest that after children enter adolescence, they should read more books about adolescence, let them know what normal changes will take place in their psychology and body, how to deal with them, help them establish correct concepts and treat adolescent love rationally, which is more effective than parents saying a thousand words.