Some men with virgin complex have always held a grudge against their wives after suspecting that they are not virgins. Being cold to your wife will show signs of cold violence.
The "virgin complex" is a psychological shadow that puzzles many men, and it is also a hot topic on the Internet. The survey shows that most men want their wives to be virgins on their wedding night.
Some people say that a man is always eager to be the first man of the woman he loves, while a woman wants to be the last woman of the man she loves. In a sense, this statement may reflect the differences between men and women in love.
Some people say that a man can't stand being compared with his ex-boyfriend in sex, which may be related to his lack of confidence in sex. Therefore, as far as men are concerned, behind the psychology of attaching importance to hymen, there is also a sense of sexual uneasiness and childishness of men.
Some people say that paying attention to the hymen shows men's strong self-awareness and possessiveness.
So, how should men jump out of the psychological shadow of "virgin complex"? Let's take a look today.
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There is no need to ask those irrelevant past.
Although most things between husband and wife should be honest, everyone should allow themselves some privacy with each other. It is barbaric for anyone to completely invade each other's privacy in marriage and family life, and it is uncivilized and immoral to completely deprive themselves or each other of their privacy.
Modern marriage is based on the equality between men and women, but this one is sometimes not realized. For example, women can generally forgive and accept each other's past sexual experiences, while men are often unable to forgive or unwilling to accept women's past sexual experiences. This is an old idea that women are men's private goods and property, and men should not only possess women's present, but also their past. The reason why you are always so obsessed with whether your wife is a virgin before marriage is this old concept.
True love points to the present and the future, not to relive and aggravate the burden of the past.
So, don't always torture yourself and each other with things that have nothing to do with you. Whether the relationship between husband and wife is good or not and whether life can be happy after forming a family does not depend on whether the woman is a virgin or not. In the past arranged marriages, women paid attention to "one door closes, the second door closes" and got married at an early age. Naturally, most men are virgins, but not many people have bad feelings after marriage.
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So what if they really love each other and are not virgins?
We can often see the phenomenon that a very good girl can marry a man who used to be very bad, but a man will not marry a woman who used to be very bad but is very good now. That is to say, women's "easy virtue" or unruly behavior is intolerable to men, and there is a socially recognized concept in men's minds: the wife a man marries must be pure in the past, present and future.
However, how many people in the world today are blank?
The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. As long as they really love each other, what if she is not a virgin and he is not a virgin? Trust each other and don't think about irrelevant things.
Under the general trend of personality liberation, the virgin complex is an unhealthy mentality, which is very disproportionate to the values of our generation. We should believe that a really good girl will not lose her gentleness, kindness and loyalty while pursuing individual freedom. This is what we really need. Don't dwell on her irresponsible past. If you realize that she is your type, try to build your future.