What was the moment that broke you down?

The moments of collapse in life are as follows:

1, suddenly lovelorn.

Adult love relationships generally tend to be stable. After talking for five or six years, the object suddenly asked for a sky-high bride price. They just graduated less than two years ago and looked at their elderly parents and the short balance in their bank cards. I had to break up with this person who once vowed to each other, and my lovelorn love led to collapse.

2. Temporary unemployment.

Facing the increasingly fierce competition in the job market, newly graduated adults can't find their favorite jobs; The "old minister" who has worked for many years has lost his original energy and vitality; What people fear most in middle age is unemployment. The whole family is counting on you, and there is no retreat behind them. If you suddenly lose your job and have no source of income, that kind of collapse can't be described in a word or two.

Both parents and children are ill.

Parents are old and children are young. If parents and children are ill in hospital, they need to shoulder the burden of the whole family by themselves, sitting on the cold bench in the hospital, savoring the doctor's instructions, but facing the closest people and expensive medical expenses, they don't know what to do, and they gradually collapse in anxiety. As the saying goes, health is the capital of revolution, and good health of parents and children is also a fortune for adults.

4. Mortgage car loan.

Many times, for the sake of mortgage and car loan, I dare not spend more than one yuan. When you see what you like, you will be disheartened when you think that there is still a mortgage and car loan that has not been repaid. Once a car loan with a mortgage encounters a pay cut and unemployment, it is not just a moment that makes people collapse.

People's negative emotions are like ant nests. Although they look unremarkable, they will destroy the embankment of a thousand miles when they erupt. Life is bitter and sweet. We can't predict whether the future life will be a surprise or a shock, but we should always love life and be full of passion. Repel the moment of collapse with a beautiful vision and longing for life.